How do yall deal with jealousy and insecurity when dating a woman?

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Just started dating this chick, I really really like her etc but I’ve been looking at her social media and she’s a very friendly outgoing person with lots of friends etc. Looking at her pics, she has lots of pics with guys standing next to them, and even one has his arm round her posing. Not gonna lie, I was heated watching that. She had lots of pics with guys like that even before we met.

I don’t want to overreact over just a supposedly harmless pic but i feel like if you’re with someone, you shouldn’t be taking pics like that. Am I right or just overreacting. You can’t control your woman 24/7. She’s a good looking girl so i imagine she gets hit on daily, she talks to men daily, flirts, etc but it drives me insane. How do yall deal with this?
 
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Boris Reznikov said:
Just started dating this chick, I really really like her etc but I’ve been looking at her social media and she’s a very friendly outgoing person with lots of friends etc. Looking at her pics, she has lots of pics with guys standing next to them, and even one has his arm round her posing. Not gonna lie, I was heated watching that. She had lots of pics with guys like that even before we met.

I don’t want to overreact over just a supposedly harmless pic but i feel like if you’re with someone, you shouldn’t be taking pics like that. Am I right or just overreacting. You can’t control your woman 24/7. She’s a good looking girl so i imagine she gets hit on daily, she talks to men daily, flirts, etc but it drives me insane. How do yall deal with this?
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it's just your time in the sun with this particular girl, there will be others waiting for you in the shade.
 
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Boris Reznikov said:
Hey shythead, if you actually read the thread, you’ll see I had a test and was fine. I’ve had further test which came out negative. But I’m glad you love me so much you follow me around from thread like some fakkit :mjlol:
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Yeah I read the thread and you were negative. Congrats by the way:salute:
 
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I thought you were talking about dealing
with insecure women.
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me being insecure is a alien concept.
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If you want to be happy in life you need to get rid of the Disney concept of love where you’re both happy ever after. You sound naive being all googly eyed and “in love” :mjlol:

Focus on a purpose in life that’ll keep you busy, fukk these hoes and keep moving, otherwise you’d be hurt again and again before you turn into a bitter angry incel who goes on a murder spree because he believed in the fictional disneyfied sanctity of “pure women”
 
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Boris Reznikov said:
Just started dating this chick, I really really like her etc but I’ve been looking at her social media and she’s a very friendly outgoing person with lots of friends etc. Looking at her pics, she has lots of pics with guys standing next to them, and even one has his arm round her posing. Not gonna lie, I was heated watching that. She had lots of pics with guys like that even before we met.

I don’t want to overreact over just a supposedly harmless pic but i feel like if you’re with someone, you shouldn’t be taking pics like that. Am I right or just overreacting. You can’t control your woman 24/7. She’s a good looking girl so i imagine she gets hit on daily, she talks to men daily, flirts, etc but it drives me insane. How do yall deal with this?
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The only way to not get in your feels is to cheat or talk to more women. Not saying she’s cheating. Nothing is stopping you from cheating when you go to “sleep”, so what’s stopping her?

Women are sneakier than us. I had a girl from an old job wanting to cheat on me with her boyfriend, lying her ass off to me. Nobody is safe. Cheat first my nikka or go do something productive.
 
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ARE YOU JUST WANTING TO DSTE AND HAVE A ROSTER OR LOOKING TO SETTLE DOWN?

If you really see a future with her you have to make her feel secure ..reassuring her that she is the only one.

If you just want to date and have a roster then :manny: fukk her insecurity and tell her she needs to get over it and work on her low self a steam.
 
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