How do yall deal with jealousy and insecurity when dating a woman?

Koba St

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The problem is you have too much time on your hand, and you don't have other women / ain't getting p*ssy.

Insecurity is for the birds when you're busy / have other women.
Pretty much. Have a purpose in life that keeps you busy 24/7. Not sitting down at home on your phone waiting for her to text you back.
 

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So what’s your advice for them. Don’t settle down and have a family. Surely there are some good ones out there?

The good ones are like unicorns.
These chicks got too much freedom and are looking to use as many men as possible as they can.

The thing is to just fukk on em until your time is up or deal with women from places where they value relationships
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Be insecure brehs :snoop:
You're going to ruin this relationship :ufdup:
This. Just get out and work on your confidence OP. People are gonna do what they are gonna do. Get some serious hobbies. If you have a life cheating isn't really gonna be your focus. It's a waste of time worrying about things you can't control.
 

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These dudes on here don't date. So don't expect any real advice.

But it sounds like you need a woman that isn't on social media. So when she takes pics with dudes you don't see them.:mjgrin:

OP is really upset about photos a woman took before she got with him. You are gonna fit in perfectly with a lot of the insecure crybabies here in tlr. I look forward to being entertained.:mjlol:
 

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It's not her fault you don't have any confidence, Coli breh.

You want her to act a certain way because you have a fragile ego, no woman worth a damn is going to deal with a man that weak for very long.

Relationships are like playing pro level football. It's not a matter of if you get hurt, it's a matter of when. But if you're on the field playing like you're scared to get hurt then you need to get off the field.

You play and if you get crossed wrong you let them go and keep it moving. Have confidence that there are better women out there. You playing with a scarcity mindset like there arent 40 million eligible women in this country reeks of self doubt.

And no woman wants that.
 

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If you want to be happy in life you need to get rid of the Disney concept of love where you’re both happy ever after. You sound naive being all googly eyed and “in love” :mjlol:

Focus on a purpose in life that’ll keep you busy, fukk these hoes and keep moving, otherwise you’d be hurt again and again before you turn into a bitter angry incel who goes on a murder spree because he believed in the fictional disneyfied sanctity of “pure women”
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I came in here thinking that OP was saying the woman was jealous and insecure only to find out that he a jealous and insecure punk

:mjlol: no offense OP but to me, being jealous and insecure are feminine traits so you need to control that.

To answer your question tho... I've always thought about it like this. One of my favorite quotes about relationships comes from the first X-men movie, when Wolverine asks Scott, "Are you gonna tell me to stay away from your girl?"

And Scott answers, "If I had to tell you that, she wouldn't be my girl."

That's how I approach any woman I have dealings with. If she gives it up to another man, I have enough confidence and arrogance and swagger that I would pretty much dare her to do it... cause the second she does, I would ditch her so quick it would make her head spin.

And I always have some bad hoes waiting in the wings for their chance, like "put me in coach."

If wifey were to leave me right now, sure I'd be sad... for like one day. Then I would hit the :manny: and move on to one of the many chics that's throwing it at me constantly.

I wouldn't be single for long.

All men should have this attitude.

Know your worth, king!
I hate when y'all do this shyt
The first half of the post be dap worthy then the second half be :francis:

Yo ass would be sad for more than one day if you got cheated on by your girl unless you a psychopath or was already bout to breakup with her. Even if you jump into something else with someone else real fast. You gotta give yo mind a chance to adjust. Just shows how misunderstood mental health is. People be quick to move in then just end up hurting someone else.
 

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Just started dating this chick, I really really like her etc but I’ve been looking at her social media and she’s a very friendly outgoing person with lots of friends etc. Looking at her pics, she has lots of pics with guys standing next to them, and even one has his arm round her posing. Not gonna lie, I was heated watching that. She had lots of pics with guys like that even before we met.

I don’t want to overreact over just a supposedly harmless pic but i feel like if you’re with someone, you shouldn’t be taking pics like that. Am I right or just overreacting. You can’t control your woman 24/7. She’s a good looking girl so i imagine she gets hit on daily, she talks to men daily, flirts, etc but it drives me insane. How do yall deal with this?


Are you insecure in all relationships, or just with this girl?

What makes this girl, and this relationship different?
 
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