Mike Nasty
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He made it sound like it was before and currently. Of course someone would feel some type of way if they saw their girl hugged up with some other dude on FB. Just swallow the L and move accordingly.
How do yall deal with jealousy and insecurity when dating a woman?
- Thread starter Boris Reznikov
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This. People stay wanting exclusivity without committing. LolDating sounds like y’all aren’t in a relationship and she hasn’t mentioned being exclusive. If that hasn’t been established then she’s moving according to where yall are
Kyle C. Barker
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I came in here thinking that OP was saying the woman was jealous and insecure only to find out that he a jealous and insecure punk
no offense OP but to me, being jealous and insecure are feminine traits so you need to control that.
To answer your question tho... I've always thought about it like this. One of my favorite quotes about relationships comes from the first X-men movie, when Wolverine asks Scott, "Are you gonna tell me to stay away from your girl?"
And Scott answers, "If I had to tell you that, she wouldn't be my girl."
That's how I approach any woman I have dealings with. If she gives it up to another man, I have enough confidence and arrogance and swagger that I would pretty much dare her to do it... cause the second she does, I would ditch her so quick it would make her head spin.
And I always have some bad hoes waiting in the wings for their chance, like "put me in coach."
If wifey were to leave me right now, sure I'd be sad... for like one day. Then I would hit the
I wouldn't be single for long.
All men should have this attitude.
Know your worth, king!
This
Be insecure brehs
You're going to ruin this relationship
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Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I hate when y'all do this shyt
The first half of the post be dap worthy then the second half be
Yo ass would be sad for more than one day if you got cheated on by your girl unless you a psychopath or was already bout to breakup with her. Even if you jump into something else with someone else real fast. You gotta give yo mind a chance to adjust. Just shows how misunderstood mental health is. People be quick to move in then just end up hurting someone else.
I didn't say I wouldn't be damaged. And I definitely didn't say that I wouldn't hurt somebody else. But I'm a bit of a psychopath when it comes to loving women.
Take that how you will.
Women damaged me long ago, my friend.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Wait wtf OP is jealous and insecure?
It's a wrap OP..
I told a broad I was insecure and all a sudden she said "I already got a girlfriend I need a man"..
she hoed you out, breh We all been there
Don’t go on her social media or check her phone. If the pics are before you and her, let it be.
It would help if you have a convo with her about expectations around the opposite sex, for both of you. That will tell you a lot about the situation.
NaijaProdigy Redux
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She’s going to pick up on that insecurity / jealousy and it doesn’t even sound like you guys are exclusive 
And why do you care about pics before you? Last girl I dated was sassing me about shyt like that..told her to
Stop focusing on things you can’t control. If she clearly does something out of pocket, keep it moving. This dating game isn’t for the weak
And why do you care about pics before you? Last girl I dated was sassing me about shyt like that..told her to
Stop focusing on things you can’t control. If she clearly does something out of pocket, keep it moving. This dating game isn’t for the weak
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
you must be young....
breh you arent her first.....and you wont be her last.....
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soon as you and her are done....cats will be lining up for their turn....it's the nature of the game
Yeah OP you need to man up. I won’t even lie, I’m jealous and maybe insecure too, but I try my best not to show my woman that side all the time. You gotta remain confident at all times. You should shrug those pictures off and have a conversation with her about how they make you feel, so that in the future she isn’t as slack when she’s hanging out with her male friends. If she won’t compromise with you when it comes to your feelings, then she’s not the one for you.
Your job is to be a man and bring the conversation up and establish rules and boundaries, without it sounding like you bytching. It’s not hard to do. But you also gotta practice what you preach. You want that level of exclusivity from her, you gotta be willing to tighten some stuff on your end too to show her you’re serious.
Your job is to be a man and bring the conversation up and establish rules and boundaries, without it sounding like you bytching. It’s not hard to do. But you also gotta practice what you preach. You want that level of exclusivity from her, you gotta be willing to tighten some stuff on your end too to show her you’re serious.
You sound like a white boy 
BaldingSoHard
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You're getting a lot of good advice in this thread that's sorta wrapped up in bs coli-isms.
But here's the best advice you're going to get.
I like to think of insecurity in men as a phase that we all go through when we're young and inexperienced with women.
Unfortunately, you're in that phase now. As you get older, you'll care about shyt like this less and learn to value yourself more.
That's when women will start to respect you, which is when the dynamic changes.
But for now, as others have said, this is just your time in the sun with this one. Try not to stress over the other dudes; enjoy your time together while it lasts. When she ends it, it's gonna hurt but you'll be alright.
But here's the best advice you're going to get.
I like to think of insecurity in men as a phase that we all go through when we're young and inexperienced with women.
Unfortunately, you're in that phase now. As you get older, you'll care about shyt like this less and learn to value yourself more.
That's when women will start to respect you, which is when the dynamic changes.
But for now, as others have said, this is just your time in the sun with this one. Try not to stress over the other dudes; enjoy your time together while it lasts. When she ends it, it's gonna hurt but you'll be alright.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
shyt she does while single not the same as when she's cuffed.
Don't trip unless the disrespect is blatant
Don't trip unless the disrespect is blatant