How do y'all go out alone?

[Rozay Oro]

I was in the same boat when I was 21. I'm so used to going out with people that I didnt know how to go out alone. One day I said fukk it. Bars/Hookah lounges are the best honestly. I remember I went to a hookah spot on leave because I was bored. Didnt know anybody. I sat, smoked, had a coke to sip on because I dont drink alone. Most importantly I looked relaxed. You aint even gotta get fresh fresh honestly but have a haircut and some smell good. 20 minutes into chillin a shorty was talking to me. Asking who I was with, talking about she lived around there and dancing around me. Ever since then all I do is go out alone if I'm trying to meet women. nikkas are such a distraction.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

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[MaxPain]

Lol yeah, that's how you gotta think about it.

I stopped going out for 3 years because I had no one to go with and I cuffed a bytch I hate now, instead of going out every week like I'm supposed to.

Now when I go I feel rusty because I still don't go as often as I like.

But when you think about it, going out solo gives you the best chance to get ass because you n a bytch can dip and you don't have to worry about nothing.

I just am not used to it tho, being somewhere u never been before alone sucks because you don't know how it'll be.

I gotta really start going out more, it's been 3 weeks.

How often do u go out solo to the clubs and bars during a week?

Clubs not as much....bars? Like every other weekend...

 

[Anti-Anime]

120 lbs

u doing a bid In aushwitz breh what happened?

 

[fkthisgaysite]

u doing a bid In aushwitz breh what happened?

Get it from my dad breh. Very, very fast metabolism. Ill eat something an take a slam 10 min later.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

Why don't you guys try things like going to the movies alone first? Or concerts?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

nikka im 5'8" 120 lbs

UNICEF kid

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Been doing this for years. Thought something was wrong for me for PREFERRING it. I damn near prefer it at this point.

U go out w ur boys.....u gotta babysit them cus their too drunk, or they throw salt in ur game, or they get into a fight. Or u gotta let em know u left the spot w a skank. Then u got a large group of guy friends dancing w each other looking LAME AS fukk. shyt gets old quick. I been hittin up bars & clubs by myself or at the most 1 other person AS A RULE since I was 22. I'm 26 now. I learned that shyt early and my chocha rate has gone up since I've done it.

Lowkey being a lone wolf makes u sexy bold and mysterious to these hoes. Atleast that's how I'm described when I pull this shyt off since most people need their hand held doing stuff.

It's to the point now where I go on vacations by myself. Everyone has excuses, most dudes don't got passports, and a lotta people just don't wanna step out they comfort zones. I've gone to countries dolo and made new friends there off the random that I still hit up. I'm so sick of the excuses people make . If u don't wanna go with me I'll go either way, if u come that's cool. If not? Whatever.

I see it as an adventure. On some story mode on Super Mario 64 type shyt. But I can make friends & connects ANYWHERE. I'm that confident in myself.

Quit being clingy/needy OP. U sound like a woman.

Too many dudes can fukk up your game...especially if they're not all macks..if they're not then they be depending on you to constantly break the ice and bring the bytches.

Montreal is on my bucket list and it's close to where I can catch a train( I like train travel)

You ever been?

 

[MaxPain]

Too many dudes can fukk up your game...especially if they're not all macks..if they're not then they be depending on you to constantly break the ice and bring the bytches.

Montreal is on my bucket list and it's close to where I can catch a train( I like train travel)

You ever been?

Havent been, wanna see Toronto though

And dam man ur right....the optic of being with a PACK OF THIRSTY DUDES just isnt appealing to most women....esp if they have no game and expect u to do all the work

At most I go wit other dude who has game....or just straight up by myself

Hoes think I'm bold and appealing when I come alone but still enjoying myself....on some bad boy on a bike with an open hennessy bottle in my left hand type shyt.....

Plus u can play the Im only in town for one night card....

 

[fkthisgaysite]

UNICEF kid

Chill breh
U don't want problems with this lil man.

 

[ColdSlither]

I never gave a damn about the club. I prefer a bar where I can sit and enjoy my drink. Maybe play some pool. You just have to get out. Don't worry about having anything to say. That's part of the problem. Thinking too much about what to say. You have plenty to say. Just go, get you a drink and have some wings and fries. Everyone is there for the same reasons. They're lonely. They want a drink. They want to get laid. Or all of the above. Some of the best times I've had were just from going to the bar for no reason, and ended up being getting involved in some crazy shyt. Dated this chick for six months just because I said nice tattoo. Damn she would not shut up. It's like she was just waiting for someone to say something.

 

[Luke Cage]

Try going to the same place as often as you can. And make somewhere kinda small so people can get to know you as a regular.
I walk into my local spot, and usually about 5 people are like "hey breh whats good?" as soon as i walk in.
This helps with two things,
1) if you don't meet any girls that night you at least you get to drink and shoot the shyt with your friends.
2) it helps with the choosing from the females because they see that you're liked and outgoing guy. and makes it seem safer(nonthreatening) to approach from the female perspective.

 

[Cave Savage]

I'm not encouraging cigarette smoking, but it has been a great ice breaker for me

 

[Rell Lauren]

I can go to the movies, shopping, dinner and sporting events by myself, but a bar or lounge solo is out of my comfort zone.

 

[daboywonder2002]

I'll never forget. Years ago I was in the club vibing with this girl. She wanted to come with me afterwards but i had my homie with me. Couldn't do anything. U know how lame that sounds. I cant go my boy with me. Ever since then I travel solo. If u wanna hang out, meet me there.