Stay busy. Really busy. Easiest way is to try to learn new shyt and fully incorporate yourself. It could be a language, hobby, business, etc. Pretty much don’t give yourself time to sulk. Easier said than done, but it works.
How do y’all handle a messy breakup?
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uhh I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed but if I'm picking up what u putting down she put some other dikk all up in her. I'd hope so
BTW we all told your hard headed ass 20 threads ago
youngin u could learn from some of us coli OGz
Lol it had nothing to do with cheating, just airing out my secrets to someone after an argument
What's the "messy" part?
MischievousMonkey
Gor bu dëgër
Yeah I recognized OP's profile pic but I don't remember what the other thread was about... Was it some bs?OP please tell me this isn't about the same Byrd you've been posting about
We had a recurring issue that we couldn’t get over, but we had an argument over something else then she acted irrationally and aired out something I told her in confidence to a mutual. Now it’s got me in hot water with that mutual
depends on how she violated
My messy ain't the same as yours.
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blockburna420
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Snake shyt don't get no passes
Keeping ur mouth shyt is basic shyt.
Me n my bytch always in to it but i know she don't run her mouth to an outside party no matter what.
You might be a "fly nikka" for real, but based on some of your prior posts regarding your girlfriend/dealing with women, you're not moving like one.
Being a "fly nikka" isn't about just being physically attractive/good-looking, it's also about having positive self worth as a man.
If you truly have both intact (respectfully), then you shouldn't be pressed about dropping a problematic female who basically betrayed you.
Plenty of wildlife in the sea. Time to start fishing/diving.
KillerPups
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You homies,new thots then get to work with new focus .
You’re right but it’s not just about getting women, she knew women liked me and needed reassurance throughout our time together. The issue is the kind of connection we had will be hard to find. Coming from the same city, our families being from the same African country down to the town, being similar age and having similar values.
And even if I do find someone that can replicate that, I still feel a level of guilt for ending things even though what she did was irrational. Knowing her history I was the one person that stuck by her through the thick and thin, even more than her family.
Whenever I go through breakups I go no contact, but a part of me feels like checking up on her to make sure she’s ok, even though my pride won’t let me.
I understand that you still have feelings for your ex & there are some things you're fond of that you don't want to lose, but that "irrational" behavior isn't going to change because it's part of her DNA.
Some people you can't rehab.
Plus, there's really no true "connection" without trust in a committed relationship. What you & your ex seemed to have are mostly commonalities.
Listen to your pride & don't let the fun nostalgia with an unruly woman continue to take you down a dark road of misery & unhappiness.
