how do yall handle gay people hitting on you?

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Ignore them like they don’t exist. Don’t acknowledge their presence, look in their direction, respond to any questions. Literally, don’t respond to them if they speak to you. Appear as if you are deaf and do it with a smile. And do it effortlessly and non-chalantly.

Not only are they going to get the message, it’s going to mess with them mentally that you don’t even deem them worthy enough to acknowledge even on a basic human level.

I do this to most people, not just the gays. It fukks with people majorly.
 

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Ignore them like they don’t exist. Don’t acknowledge their presence, look in their direction, respond to any questions. Literally, don’t respond to them if they speak to you. Appear as if you are deaf and do it with a smile. And do it effortlessly and non-chalantly.

Not only are they going to get the message, it’s going to mess with them mentally that you don’t even deem them worthy enough to acknowledge even on a basic human level.

I do this to most people, not just the gays. It fukks with people majorly.
you just sound like an actual a$$hole :picard:
 

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I don't hate gay men I'm just afraid of their aggressiveness...

one time I was at a gay club wit my girl and her friends and I had to leave that shyt- nikkas in there weren't respecting a nikkas space

and once I had this nikka slide in my IG DMs wit the love heart eyes.. I just ignored that nikka
 

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I don't hate gay men I'm just afraid of their aggressiveness...

one time I was at a gay club wit my girl and her friends and I had to leave that shyt- nikkas in there weren't respecting a nikkas space

and once I had this nikka slide in my IG DMs wit the love heart eyes.. I just ignored that nikka
only thing i fear is if they keep being persistent to a point where i gotta use violence then imma catch a hate crime
 

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Y'all not gonna like this and will probably take exception but you can tell the handsome brehs from the ugly ones in this thread, because if you're part of handsome gang--and I mean truly part of it--shyt like having gay dudes try you is a somewhat regular occurrence. It has nothing to do with looking gay or acting gay or anything of that nature. It's just if you are really attractive you will have all kinds of people come at you, including swingers, gays, hetero women, sexual freaks, cucks, etc. So if some of y'all is challenging OPs sexuality because of this, then its obvious you don't have those good looking problems :hubie: Maybe that's a good thing though :manny:

I'm not trying to brag. I'm just saying for some it's a reality you have to face when you are commonly the center of attention. Low-key you really learn about the seediness of society when you commonly viewed as handsome or good looking by most people. You especially learn how unfaithful a lot of women are and how disrespectful they can be. I have had so many married and taken woman like be real disrespectful and stare and smile and flirt right in front of their significant other and the man is so oblivious it's sad. Swear to God last Saturday I was out having a drink and the girl is sitting with her man at the bar, and she is turning her head and sneaking in looks while not trying to look obvious. This nikka rubbin her thigh meat, trying to be :wub:, while she is doing everything she can to not get caught by her man staring at me.

Anyways, just tell them no thanks, OP.
 

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Y'all not gonna like this and will probably take exception but you can tell the handsome brehs from the ugly ones in this thread, because if you're part of handsome gang--and I mean truly part of it--shyt like having gay dudes try you is a somewhat regular occurrence. It has nothing to do with looking gay or acting gay or anything of that nature. It's just if you are really attractive you will have all kinds of people come at you, including swingers, gays, hetero women, sexual freaks, cucks, etc. So if some of y'all is challenging OPs sexuality because of this, then its obvious you don't have those good looking problems :hubie: Maybe that's a good thing though :manny:

I'm not trying to brag. I'm just saying for some it's a reality you have to face when you are commonly the center of attention. Low-key you really learn about the seediness of society when you commonly viewed as handsome or good looking by most people. You especially learn how unfaithful a lot of women are and how disrespectful they can be. I have had so many married and taken woman like be real disrespectful and stare and smile and flirt right in front of their significant other and the man is so oblivious it's sad. Swear to God last Saturday I was out having a drink and the girl is sitting with her man at the bar, and she is turning her head and sneaking in looks while not trying to look obvious. This nikka rubbin her thigh meat, trying to be :wub:, while she is doing everything she can to not get caught by her man staring at me.

Anyways, just tell them no thanks, OP.
I wanted to say that, but didn't wanna be bombarded with a thousand :dame: :dame: :dame: :manny:

But yea, you really do learn about the shady part of humanity. The hate, the jealousy, the unfaithfulness, the latent homosexuality in a LOT of guys will have you like :dwillhuh:

It's a gift and a curse though, because I'm more of an open-minded intellectual, but get stereotyped as the handsome dumb jock and girls that like that type gravitate towards me but I absolutely detest shallow bytches. :hhh:

You also learn about the thirstiness of middle aged women. They are fukkin aggressive and physical AF. Think of a guy that has a socially acceptable pass to touch women however he wants. That's middle aged women.
 

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Put my headphones on and walk away. If they try to push it further we can scrap.
 

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Just keep walking.

I don't care who you are, male or female. As long as you don't physically touch me without my permission, everything is good.
 

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I wanted to say that, but didn't wanna be bombarded with a thousand :dame: :dame: :dame: :manny:

But yea, you really do learn about the shady part of humanity. The hate, the jealousy, the unfaithfulness, the latent homosexuality in a LOT of guys will have you like :dwillhuh:

It's a gift and a curse though, because I'm more of an open-minded intellectual, but get stereotyped as the handsome dumb jock and girls that like that type gravitate towards me but I absolutely detest shallow bytches. :hhh:

You also learn about the thirstiness of middle aged women. They are fukkin aggressive and physical AF. Think of a guy that has a socially acceptable pass to touch women however he wants. That's middle aged women.
Yup. The latent homosexuality thing is crazy too, and you don't pick it up until they say something strange and slip something in like "you know you're a good looking guy, man. I bet you get a lot of girls." I had a very fukked up experience on Thanksgiving bc some old black dude I thought was cool ended up being a weird ass gay nikka who was OD stalking me.

I'm not trying to brag, but as you know, you see another side to people when you're good looking. And especially if you know you're good looking but you don't flaunt it. I've trained my eye so good to pick up social cues from women that I rarely miss when they are checking me out/flirting/making a pass/inviting me to come approach/and even trying to hookup. It's automatic now honestly. I'll go in a place and I will see a group of women all suddenly gaze over at the same time bc one of them shyly pointed me out. Or I will come up to a girl and she will automatically play with her hair. Like when you first start out that shyt goes over your head bc women are very very secretive and cunning and coy. But after awhile even the minute changes in body language tell you what they are thinking.

That gay shyt comes with the territory man. You just have to shrug it off. It is annoying and gay as fukk, but nothing you can do. God made you good looking :manny:
 
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