how do yall handle gay people hitting on you?

[Fillerguy]

I have this one client who i highly suspect is a fakkit ( a paying client, not a coworker). I have a good gaydar and can spot them out from a mile away because I am muscular and it seems to make the fakkits swarm to you. nikkas think gettin big attracts women to them but really the shyt just attracts other guys. shyt is fukkin whack.

This client of mine always asks weird personal questions that doesn't pertain to the line of work. Like today he had the fukkin nerve to ask me, "are you a giver or a taker?" which felt like he asked me if i was a catcher or a pitcher .

I straight up stared into his soul and said, "NEITHER " then of course he starts to

about why he was asking that question, and I just sat there and didn't say anything, and looked at him for at least an actual minute like that felt like an eternity. I had to interrupt him to shut him up and get on with business which is the only thing i talk to him about at this point. He always comes back after saying bye with some irrelevant topic of discussion and offers me things that i always decline.

This shyt ALWAYS seems to happen to me. I can't tell the fakkit to fukk off because i'm at work and have to be cordial. I understand that gay people want to get their shyt rocked from time to time (which has nothin to do with me ) but they have to approach a guy to see if they're gay or whatever, but god damn READ THE VIBES i'm giving off . I haven't gave this motherfukker an OUNCE of validation or anything and he still seems to pursue me. I don't want to have to take this to HR or tell my company (at least not yet).

What would u guys do in this situation?

Imma get flack for this but this is how women feel. Birth if the #metoo/#toxicmasculinity movement material

 

[Dre Space Age]

Use this HR issue as a reason to bring in an emotional support animal.

 

[Yade]

I worked with a gay coworker , I was with alone with him a few times , shyt felt mad uncomfortable
He tried doing gay shyt with my friend

 

[MollyGalaga]

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

They not that bold for me the just always make their precense know

 

[Dont@Me]

Yup. The latent homosexuality thing is crazy too, and you don't pick it up until they say something strange and slip something in like "you know you're a good looking guy, man. I bet you get a lot of girls." I had a very fukked up experience on Thanksgiving bc some old black dude I thought was cool ended up being a weird ass gay nikka who was OD stalking me.

I'm not trying to brag, but as you know, you see another side to people when you're good looking. And especially if you know you're good looking but you don't flaunt it. I've trained my eye so good to pick up social cues from women that I rarely miss when they are checking me out/flirting/making a pass/inviting me to come approach/and even trying to hookup. It's automatic now honestly. I'll go in a place and I will see a group of women all suddenly gaze over at the same time bc one of them shyly pointed me out. Or I will come up to a girl and she will automatically play with her hair. Like when you first start out that shyt goes over your head bc women are very very secretive and cunning and coy. But after awhile even the minute changes in body language tell you what they are thinking.

That gay shyt comes with the territory man. You just have to shrug it off. It is annoying and gay as fukk, but nothing you can do. God made you good looking

those relationships you thought were cool ass friendships that just turned out to be a fakkit in love with you

Yea girls will giggle and laugh in groups and all that flirty shyt. I used to get pissed off and self conscious about it when I was younger because I thought they were laughing at me

It's weird though because I hate being stared at and i can feel the eyes on me wherever I go, from women and men

 

[Passaro]

I wanted to say that, but didn't wanna be bombarded with a thousand

But yea, you really do learn about the shady part of humanity. The hate, the jealousy, the unfaithfulness, the latent homosexuality in a LOT of guys will have you like

It's a gift and a curse though, because I'm more of an open-minded intellectual, but get stereotyped as the handsome dumb jock and girls that like that type gravitate towards me but I absolutely detest shallow bytches.

You also learn about the thirstiness of middle aged women. They are fukkin aggressive and physical AF. Think of a guy that has a socially acceptable pass to touch women however he wants. That's middle aged women.

BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH so damn annoying

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

those relationships you thought were cool ass friendships that just turned out to be a fakkit in love with you

Yea girls will giggle and laugh in groups and all that flirty shyt. I used to get pissed off and self conscious about it when I was younger because I thought they were laughing at me

It's weird though because I hate being stared at and i can feel the eyes on me wherever I go, from women and men

Damn. Why do you hate it? I find it funny and interesting, esp because you just never know who is going to be attracted to you. That's the fun part for me...someone you wouldn't expect giving you signals. I can understand though if you feel under pressure when everyone is staring, especially if you're trying to blend in and mind your own business.

 

[Silver Surfer]

 

[KingJay]

Just tell em you aint with that and keep it moving.


In a secret place, bask in the fact that both genders want you :imsorrytohearthat:

I'm too damn sexy for my own good

 

[ill_will82]

Just tell em you aint with that and keep it moving.

 

[ddAriana]

Yup. The latent homosexuality thing is crazy too, and you don't pick it up until they say something strange and slip something in like "you know you're a good looking guy, man. I bet you get a lot of girls."

#metooformen
Sometimes it is borderline harassment. I've known some guys that had to deal with this. Creepy stuff. I get grossed out by the allegedly straight male guys acting like groupies around good looking male celebs.

 

[Hey_zeus]

I used to work in Boystown

You get used to it to compliments and comments. They never got out pocket so i never had to get to combative

 

[BeeCityRoller]

Whenever I see someone suspect trying to make eye contact I stay with the

The real problem is these middle-aged weirdos in the locker room who might be trying to do it on the sly, asking what I do for a living/where I'm from/etc within the first 30 seconds of conversation.

 

[krisdave]

That probably means you're fine as fukk

Gay men are mostly superficial, so congrats if one ever hit up on you, you're very good-looking