How do yall maintain a roster of females :deadmanny:

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itsyoung!! said:
You dont gotta be a liar at all if you single and dating multiple women.

Its called not putting all ya eggs in 1 basket. Yall young generation be on this love shyt too quick , got the game all fukked up.

If she hits you to kick it and you say "im busy today" thats not lying

Or "im going out with some friends" thats not lying either.

What you think she means when she tells you that herself :mjpls:

Humans period men or female will use names if they are with someone with familiar. If you text her at 6 pm on a Tuesday saying "what you up to" and she replies "out with a friend" 99% aka a dinner date :mjpls: if she said "out with Cynthia" or some shyt , then she'd actually be out with a friend and not a date :mjpls:

Remember that the next time you think about feeling guilty for having a "roster" cause i guarantee you in 2016 her roster probably double yours :mjpls:
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If she directly asks: "are you busy hanging with some other girl that you're smashing", are you going to answer truthfully?

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InDePickWest said:
It really does baffle me as a woman why dudes like you are single but clowns like OP and the band of losers are drowning in women. Makes me ashamed of my gender but while we're young we all make mistakes. There's plenty of good chicks being passed about for the chick that'll stab him and fukk his friend.

Why must we all be so damn stupid :wow:
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How are they losers if they winning?
 
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NeilCartwright said:
How do y'all keep a roster of females?

I have 2 with another who's a possible and I just don't have time to keep em all happy, with school, work, gym, and time to myself:deadmanny:

Tomorrow is Labor Day and all 3 want to me to spend time with them:snoop:if I don't come up with a system I'm going to lose 2 of the 3
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Take it from a man with experience at this in college. You can't unless you have a lot of money or time. Without neither of those two or both, it's impossible.
 
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Well..Developing a roster isn't always planned, sometimes it happens out of safety and convenience. First off, If youre single with a roster its more about feeling out the people you are interested in until you find what you're ok with and can tolerate. Every woman has "ways" and the more time you take, the more you see. Dont be to eager to feel "In love". at least 1+ of them must understand the TRUE facts of the situation and be ok with it. Dont make yourself too accessible to any of them. Even when you are free make time for YOURSELF before devoting your time to any of them. You dont have to technically lie out the ass just dont sell any of them wolf tickets. There's usually one you genuinely like and she may have issues, it may not be the right time for yall, she may still not be at the point of maturity you need, kids that require attention, e.t.c. Theres usually an Ex, that never got over the sex and even though youve both moved on is still willing to have sex in a no strings attached friendly setting. And then they tend to have 2 or more random floaters that come in and out based on your attractiveness to the opposite sex. These floaters dont deserve much attention and have to work to earn their spot on the roster. Explain to them you are single, not ready to be in a relationship with anyone and willing to hang out if shes willing to not get too attached as you just wanna see what type of person she is. Remember, you are hard to get, you are the prize, not the other way around. Do not sell these women wolf tickets. If you realize they are uncomfortable with the situation or becoming clingy and demanding of you, simply apologize to them that it doesnt seem this is gonna work out and replace them. Remember, theyre just prospects you cant let yourself feel attached to them. If you do it this way and repeat youll tend to be ok, if the one youre really interested in for some reasons becomes illogical or not a good option, accept the reality and let her do her thing. You can promote one from your roster you feel is worthy of your attention or seek to add new prospects, your choice. But the benefit is that during the decision phase of her departure, you wont feel lonely, depressed, heartbroken,worried, suicidal, or any negative feeling because you will understand you tried, but it just wasn't to be and keep searching. Whether you chose to play this game forever is up to you, just know its not for the weak at heart and it can be beneficial in you finding yourself and what you truly will and will not accept in a relationship.






Not that I have any experience in this... im just saying. :jbhmm:

Edit: I forgot to add, if you're not single and in a committed relationship it makes the whole roster arrangement more difficult. Choosing this route should be based on each mans comfort level with his situation. You will have to be either alot less, or alot more honest with these women. What i mean is, either you tell them all lies about you're real name, address, job e.t.c to prevent any kind of possible fallout with your home life. Or you be 100% and put it on the table up front that you are not available for whatever relationship shes devised as long as it doesnt go to your plans. There is still possible fallout from the honest route and people can tend to be 'ok' at first with things and change their perspective over time. Choose wisely OP.
 
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