How do YOU get over a breakup?

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There will be many suggestions put forth to help u recover. But I’m sorry to tell u, if you u don’t brace urself right now and face the world like a man, this will be a recurring theme in ur life.

It’s up to u to decide which position u wanna play in life. The heartbreaker or the broken hearted.

you will eventually get over this girl. But the speed with which this recovery happens depends heavily on your ability to get better looking women. Yes, that girl who just broke up with you is not special. She can’t change ur life in any positive way except worsen it. With that in mind, you must enter the dating realm with boldness and confidence in what U have to offer.

she might come back begging and depending on ur level of wisdom u could be tempted to give the relationship a go. But if u do, I can assure u it will only bring u nothing but regret.

so what should u do?

delete this girl from all your online social connections.
if u haven’t been taking care of urself, start immediately. Hit the gym.
Dress better.
Smell better.
Find a profitable hobby that keeps you excited and busy.
Hang out with ur female friends, the ones who respect u and wouldn’t hesitate to be sexual if led in that direction.
Go on dates with women who really dig u.

U do all the above consistently and resolutely for a month, I promise u, the suffocating pain you feel right now at the very depths of your heart will relinquish its hold on you.
 
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well the last thing I was worrying about was diving into a new relationship with a woman.
 

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Girl I've been with for a year just dumped me. bytch says she still wants to talk to me as a friend:trash:. Feeling pretty shytty and I want to get this feeling out of my head ASAP. I'm depressed as hell and extremely angry rn and don't have motivation to do anything.

Help a brother out and tell me what you do to get over this shyt. Where do you find new women?? Thank you.

Dont try to find a new women right away OP. Take this time to chill out, talk to friends and family about your emotions like youre doing here, maybe invite a homeboy or someone you trust to the crib for some company, make some warm tea and play some Halo, GTA whatever wit friends and then go rest easy in your bed. Rest rest rest. No girls. No sex No stress. Just you and peace.

Dont throw yourself out there into more situations that requires stress management and optimal mental health after. It'll likely lead to poor decisions and more anxiety about the situation. Take this time to just relax, be in touch with yourself and your support team, talk, be easy and calm down those tense thoughts and feelings.

Then when you ready youll be out there in beast mode like this never happened. But for now please rest my friend!
 

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Girl I've been with for a year just dumped me. bytch says she still wants to talk to me as a friend:trash:. Feeling pretty shytty and I want to get this feeling out of my head ASAP. I'm depressed as hell and extremely angry rn and don't have motivation to do anything.

Help a brother out and tell me what you do to get over this shyt. Where do you find new women?? Thank you.

Don't know breh, im in the same boat. I dont have motivation to do anything but I've forced myself into the gym all week cause I figure I should try to better myself even tho I don't feel like it and played games with my cousin on playstation all weekend to keep my mind occupied. But that loneliness shyt is real and I just wanna listen to sad breakup music lol
 

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U can't give nikkaz who are into having girlfriends advice on how to forget about bytches and not be hurt....

They not built that way.

Whatever u tell him he'll try temporarily...
Then he'd go back to his old ways.

He'll probably try to go back to that old bytch that don't even want him.

If you knew about being on your purpose, you wouldn't have been fukking with that bytch any way... Giving your heart and shyt:russ:

You probably cried too....

You would be doing ur fukking thing.
Fixing your car... Working out, learning a fukking new language.
Banging a new bytch every other week.
Or just jerking off and playing Madden.. not being bothered...

But nah... You out here loving this no good bytch.... She already had your replacement waiting, til she got tired of acting like she liked you ..
Some nikka that she thinks is better than you...
He bussin all in her mouth right now....
While you're on thecoli talking bout the bytch.

She talking bout you to him right now, rubbing his balls, laughing at you ..
Telling him how u was all teary eyed, with a lump in your throat when she broke up with u...

If you knew better, you wouldn't have been with a bytch.... Ud know females will get you off your purpose....

If you knew better, you would have a bytch over right now sucking yo dikk....

But nah... You don't know better. So I'm not gonna waste my time trying to tell u how to feel better bout some no good bytch...

fukk you, fukk that bytch, fukk the union you 2 silly muthafukaz made

Kiss my ass

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First forget being friends. Say youre welcome being cool when you cross paths but you have enough friends and losing you as a partner also means true friendship.

that said

internally...fukkTHATBROAD. You are BaltimoreTwilightMarauder....the fukk is she thinking? Think about who she was before you got together and how you helped build her up...you bossed up beyond where you were, so you KNOW you will be able to get someone better. And now its time for you to take what you learned over the last year and take care of yourself without worrying about your ex. That could mean getting in shape, buying new clothes, focusing on bossing up at work, it could mean yoga or faith, it could mean jujitsu. My point is REINVEST THE TIME YOU SPENT ON HER, ON YOURSELF. As you do, you will be a more complete person, and be more eligible / attractive when a new woman presents herself.
Not gonna lie, started to tear up reading this, thanks man.
 
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