How do YOU get over a breakup?

[Vodun]

Like others said

Gym and have sex with a random slowly your emotions will detach from the other person I Promise you that

 

[Rozay Oro]

Girl I've been with for a year just dumped me. bytch says she still wants to talk to me as a friend. Feeling pretty shytty and I want to get this feeling out of my head ASAP. I'm depressed as hell and extremely angry rn and don't have motivation to do anything.

Help a brother out and tell me what you do to get over this shyt. Where do you find new women?? Thank you.

It’s gonna take months as far as the sadness. If you’re lucky 2-3 months. Get rid of her # and socials. Delete pics.

If you’re a decent looking guy with a decent fashion sense. Get you some tinder p*ssy.
I wouldn’t try to get a new girlfriend yet because them feelings gon linger of the ghost miss thang past.

Get a new hobby and start working out. Godspeed my coli breh.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I recently just stopped talking to someone right before New Years. I was there for her as she battled through anxiety, depression, etc. She said she needed me and wanted to show that she valued and respect me on a Tuesday. On Thursday she said she was a solid 10 (she’s not) and was out of my league.

I realized she was crazy and said “ok and good luck”. Don’t argue or type paragraphs.

What helped me was listening to music and (as cliche as it sounds) working out . Also co-sign the folks who said don't be friends with her, bc she’s just putting you on the back burner. If you was a decent dude, she’ll spin the block, but I pray you have the self worth to hit her with when that happens.


My biggest advice is this: Don’t give yourself a timeline on when you should feel better. Healing isn’t linear and some days will be better than others and vis versa . Certain shyt will remind you of her and that’s ok, just gotta Power Forward like Tim Duncan.

Lastly, don’t jump into another relationship thinking it’ll make you heal. Take some time to yourself.

 

[Pseudonym]

Coming from a woman, if she broke up with you, the best thing you can do is like all previous posters said, work on yourself and don’t show her this is hurting you although I know it does. she gonna be seething when you level up.

make us proud

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

You never really do
Sure time passes and you meet other women
May even achieve some things you never thought you would and become very successful
But if you ever been in LOVE-LOVE
That heart wrenching shyt
When people thought y’all would really make it
Or some just hated from the sidelines
Had plans with this person
Talked about kids, the whole shebang
Then your start seeing in real-time it won’t last
Staying too long in the relationship just cuz
Or didn’t even really want to acknowledge that you saw the changes in that person
But you were happy and you thought you could change their minds
And that shyt goes completely off the rails
That type of experience sticks with you to the grave
The most playa-playa has had those moments
The moments everybody is afraid of
When you are by yourself, in your lonely
Just doing your normal routine, a sudden memory might come rushing back to your brain
Could be just a certain activity
Certain joke
Certain building
Something will always trigger you to think of that person( there are 4 that creep across my mind from time to time)
I don’t dwell on them but I definitely
Say a prayer for not only them but for me
People(hopefully) grow and evolve
There is a big difference in love and LOVE
That shyt never dissipates, you just learn to become at peace and love from afar
But I don’t expect thecoli to give a REAL answer
And I’m a bytch for posting the REAL
Get out there and fukk fakkit

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Time

 

[Ashley Banks]

I don’t like to sit around and think about what went wrong or w/e, I also never ask for “closure”, I’m a realist when it comes to relationships so I’m not surprised when they end because the odds weren’t in my favor anyways. Sure I’ll miss them but I just go on with my life. I might work extra or spend more time with my friends or family since that time used to be occupied by the ex.

I suggest just work more, workout more, hang out out with friends more etc basically do things that benefit you. Sure you’ll be sad because the relationship is over but you’ll eventually get over it and find someone new.

 

[Roid Jones]

Nothing wrong with sitting in the pain, let it hurt it has to and you need to process it. As others have said don't stop your normal activities, work, gym socialising etc it's important to be active not to let momentum stop

 

[ORDER_66]

New hobbies, gym new sex buddies and time

 

[lespaulultra3]

Time. You can follow all the good advice here but it's going to take some time. How much time depends on you but don't expect to fully be feeling better in a week or even a month.

 

[Roid Jones]

Date people with -1700 rep brehettes

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Time. You can follow all the good advice here but it's going to take some time. How much time depends on you but don't expect to fully be feeling better in a week or even a month.

I'm barely over my last one and it's been a year

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

fukk that bytch cut her off any communication keep it light and quick. Get in the gym if you aren't and work on your own personal health goals. Good luck

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Thread should stop here.



As someone who went through it recently and dealt with it on (no drugs/alcohol, stayed reclusive, just kept to close friends and my fam, focused on my wealth/health and got back into my hobbies).


Of course you'll miss her... but eveything in life is a lesson. Hope you learn from this, move on and become skronger.



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[Double Burger With Cheese]

A bytch stop fukking with me she must got CTE. bytch bye

 

[jfkennedy]

People who break up with people and then offer to remain friends immediately are lowkey pieces of shyt.