How do YOU get over a breakup?

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Do not maintain any contact or fake ass friendship with her.

She wants to keep you in her backpocket in case 1) you level up or 2) the situation with her new man doesn't pan out

The best revenge is success. So focus on leveling up socially, intellectually, physically and financially

 

[Buzzed Lightyear]

Girl I've been with for a year just dumped me. bytch says she still wants to talk to me as a friend. Feeling pretty shytty and I want to get this feeling out of my head ASAP. I'm depressed as hell and extremely angry rn and don't have motivation to do anything.

Help a brother out and tell me what you do to get over this shyt. Where do you find new women?? Thank you.

I pick up extra hours at work.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Go to the gym




Then go to the gym













and when you get done go to the gym



dont fight off those emotions you need to process that shyt and the longer you take the longer the process is.



and keep going to the gym

This. Honestly this.

Quick story, I was in a relationship for 7 years, 2 of those years we were engaged . After the breakup I gained a ton of weight while being depressed for 2 years.

So after seeing myself in the mirror I hit the gym and lost all that weight doing cardio and lifting hard. The gym is the easiest way to work on yourself and make yourself better.

Cardio made me lose weight in my face and I became more attractive. Same deal with packing on more muscle. During that whole process I was zero-ed on making myself better. Mornings and evenings my mind was on becoming a better me

Nowadays I'd consider it settling getting with that particular ex.

Hit the gym. Work on you, become @BaltimoreTwilightMarauder Prime.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

What's her IG

 

[WesCrook]

Do not maintain any contact or fake ass friendship with her.

She wants to keep you in her backpocket in case 1) you level up or 2) the situation with her new man doesn't pan out

The best revenge is success. So focus on leveling up socially, intellectually, physically and financially

If revenge is on your mind, she's still living in your head rent free..........regardless of how much you prosper.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

If revenge is on your mind, she's still living in your head rent free..........regardless of how much you prosper.

Revenge probably wasn't the right word. The point is focus on leveling up and moving forward.

 

[CountryBoyL]

Yea breh hit the gym and keep your mind busy on school, projects etc. I just went through this 1.5 months ago. But the key is to always be working on yourself regardless of being in a relationship or not. So if it shuts the bed you’ll be straight. Yea your gonna be heartbroken for a bit but remember this. You bagged shorty, meaning you can and will bag another even badder in the future. Don’t sit around and sob over her. Get on the dating apps even if it’s just to keep your mouth piece tight with the ladies. Go out when you can and be social. I just copped new cologne, some more fashionova gear and a few pairs of Chelsea boots. Depending on your age you gotta start dressing like a real man too. That alone will boost your mental. Realize that with any women you end up rocking with and if it fails… all it means was you had YOUR time with her and it’s on to the next. We don’t own anybody.

 

[King Poetic]

Break up and remain friends

what she wants to use u as a fire extinguisher, in case a fire break out in her life, she can call on u

Block her number, check on your accounts and see what u want to go from there.. work, pay your debt off if any and vacation somewhere to clear your mind

 

[tuckgod]

Smoke and fukk other bytches as much as possible

 

[Action Mike]

Brehs have given good advice,

But its tricky when you're the one who ended it though

 

[SheWantTheD]

Don't talk to her as no friend son.

Maybe a text here and there but don't be her comfort if she don't want you no mo.

You are single! Go and holla at some shorties!

 

[Action Mike]

You never really do
Sure time passes and you meet other women
May even achieve some things you never thought you would and become very successful
But if you ever been in LOVE-LOVE
That heart wrenching shyt
When people thought y’all would really make it
Or some just hated from the sidelines
Had plans with this person
Talked about kids, the whole shebang
Then your start seeing in real-time it won’t last
Staying too long in the relationship just cuz
Or didn’t even really want to acknowledge that you saw the changes in that person
But you were happy and you thought you could change their minds
And that shyt goes completely off the rails
That type of experience sticks with you to the grave
The most playa-playa has had those moments
The moments everybody is afraid of
When you are by yourself, in your lonely
Just doing your normal routine, a sudden memory might come rushing back to your brain
Could be just a certain activity
Certain joke
Certain building
Something will always trigger you to think of that person( there are 4 that creep across my mind from time to time)
I don’t dwell on them but I definitely
Say a prayer for not only them but for me
People(hopefully) grow and evolve
There is a big difference in love and LOVE
That shyt never dissipates, you just learn to become at peace and love from afar
But I don’t expect thecoli to give a REAL answer
And I’m a bytch for posting the REAL
Get out there and fukk fakkit

this some real shyt breh

 

[Deathstroke]

Broke up with my gf of 2 years like 3months ago. She completely cut me off and never spoke to me again. We had all sorts of plans, kids ,getting married. shyt i let myself believe in them and was involved. I was heartbroken like crazy, blaming myself every single day. I would text her, I even sent her apologies, she never replied. When before she was always the one in the relationship begging me to never leave her and all that… That’s when it hit me like a brick that damn bro I’m better than that. I’m a man with pride, you don’t do shyt like that.

Time heals for sure. It took maybe two months before I was able to talk to other women without comparing them to her or even reminiscing and all that. Don’t look for a relationship. I was reading a lot of books, playing ps5 and then started going out as well. Now I feel kind of free, I got a new job and doubled my salary, I’m able to go on dates, bring chicks to my place, have fun, and my ex is no longer on my mind. Ofc i do think about her at random times every day but the thoughts do not come with emotions anymore. Snapchat even showed me some memories of us. I looked at the video like damn this chick was all over me, all smiling, happy to be my girl and shyt then went on with my day. When emotions are out the picture you start to remember you were the man at one point so you’ll be good my G.

 

[Ohene]

Girl I've been with for a year just dumped me. bytch says she still wants to talk to me as a friend. Feeling pretty shytty and I want to get this feeling out of my head ASAP. I'm depressed as hell and extremely angry rn and don't have motivation to do anything.

Help a brother out and tell me what you do to get over this shyt. Where do you find new women?? Thank you.

mark my words....the best thing you can do is block her. if you want I can explain. feel free to inbox me

personally, i do everything I can to win the girl back within reason immediately so that i know i tried and theres no regret on my end. If it doesnt work, I block the girl and keep myself busy with hobbies and sidehustles, including the gym.

i take a week or two to really ruminate on what happened and get all the hurt/mourning out of my system. I even forced myself to cry after one particular relationship

i then become very opportunistic with women I come across in every day life. If I see an attractive woman i step to her and try to get her digits. I text/talk to em and try to go out with/fukk them. Ideally its good to have a rotation of one or two women.

 

[Box Factory]

Just maintaining your dignity is one of the best things you can do. Don't let her know you're hurting, don't try and go back, if she tries to talk to you just play it cool like you're good

Time heals wounds, and you'll respect yourself more and be in a better place if you play it properly right now