How do YOU get over a breakup?

[Jasmine20]

We can listen to Future, Sza and Summer Walker together and talk about how b!tches and n!ggas ain't shyt












































































Nah bump that. We GMB. We don't cry over these hoes

Spoiler

 

[supanegro]

Radio silence for a month

Stay busy, fukk new bytches, hit the gym...

If u payed attention n want be petty, make her interest your interest. You'll talk 2 her or see her at least 1 more time before yall part ways. Tell her thank 4 puttin u on to her interest and how much better ur life is cause of it...

*dont do this if u aint fukk a chick that looks better looking than her*

 

[letti cook]

there's a compartment in my mind where memories of certain women of consequence are locked away

if its too real...i just dont allow myself to think about that person, ever

its surprisingly easy for me and works

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

I’m an emotional ass nikka so that “find some new p*ssy” has never worked for me




Everytime it’s happened we smash like twice then we in there cuddling and I’m like “damn do I like her fr already? “

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

Smash some new p*ssy

The fastest cure. Drink water.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

First forget being friends. Say youre welcome being cool when you cross paths but you have enough friends and losing you as a partner also means true friendship.

that said

internally...fukkTHATBROAD. You are BaltimoreTwilightMarauder....the fukk is she thinking? Think about who she was before you got together and how you helped build her up...you bossed up beyond where you were, so you KNOW you will be able to get someone better. And now its time for you to take what you learned over the last year and take care of yourself without worrying about your ex. That could mean getting in shape, buying new clothes, focusing on bossing up at work, it could mean yoga or faith, it could mean jujitsu. My point is REINVEST THE TIME YOU SPENT ON HER, ON YOURSELF. As you do, you will be a more complete person, and be more eligible / attractive when a new woman presents herself.

1. This.


2. Dont try to immediately jump to a new chick to fill the void, you’ll just be hella clingy, wack and toxic and have not healed properly from this situation.

3. If you have family/boys that u trust, talk to them and work through your feelings in order to heal over the hurt u feel.

4. Don’t beat yourself up, Embrace your alone time.

5. Understand this.. Relationships are not designed for pleasure, they are designed for growth. Grow from this.

 

[supanegro]

1. This.


2. Dont try to immediately jump to a new chick to fill the void, you’ll just be hella clingy, wack and toxic and have not healed properly from this situation.

3. If you have family/boys that u trust, talk to them and work through your feelings in order to heal over the hurt u feel.

4. Don’t beat yourself up, Embrace your alone time.

5. Understand this.. Relationships are not designed for pleasure, they are designed for growth. Grow from this.

This the honest answer..especially #5

 

[Taadow]

“Friends” = Ill keep you on the bench. I’ll come back to you when I’m older and all my options dried up.

It means exactly this.

Understand- at the point she ain’t thinking about you.
She up under some new nicca not having one thought about you.
So don’t waste up space in your mind with her.

She killed herself as your woman by breaking up with you.
That person that you miss is dead.
Let her be dead.
If she comes back into contact with you somehow, just know that’s a ghost.

You know all those things you used to like to do but you either slowed down
or quit because you was spending time being somebody’s boyfriend?
Go do that. You’ll be aight, mayne.

 

[the cool]

Do y’all delete ex numbers from your phone

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Gems were dropped in this thread

*scurries to pick up the knowledge*

 

[AngryBaby]

Ive actually had girls attempt to be friends, and I said "okay bet" and then they dissappear. Lol i knew they wouldnt want me around.

Especially if the girl knows your a "hot guy" despite breaking up with you, like I modeled for example. So aint no chick bringing me around her friends or future dude unless hes on that same level or something lol

So i kinda wish girls would actually go through with the "friend" thing sometimes. Because ill still get alot of attention around them and more than likely physically outclass the next dude. Girls dont want that lol I usually just get cut loose

 

[Robo Squirrel]

DRINK.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

DRINK.

Nah that shyt makes it a whole lot worse.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Go to the gym




Then go to the gym













and when you get done go to the gym



dont fight off those emotions you need to process that shyt and the longer you take the longer the process is.



and keep going to the gym

Fuk the gym. Go get another bytch. You'll forget about your x quickly.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Fuk the gym. Go get another bytch. You'll forget about your x quickly.

dont quote me nigguh