How do you handle rejection?

The Mad Titan

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What about trying to be persistent and convincing that person you're worth it?

Nah never do that, it never works and if it does its temporarily until they realize they actually don't really like you again.



I've jump through hoops before to prove how much I cared about someone in the past, its something I'll never ever do again and I strongly suggest no one else does. That's the type of thing you do for a person when they are A) willing to do the same for you and B) your actually in a serious relationship.


People really don't appreciate that kind of thing from people they don't have an attraction to.


I have a relative that is married to someone that drives them insane because something like this.
 

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Well it wouldn't necessary come off as needy...

Wouldn't you feel flattered if there was someone willing to wait for you?
Yes it does your look for acceptance :comeon:

Just do you

He's probably fukking some other broad anyways :russ: sorry :smile:




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Op is a woman. you know they can't comprehend rejection.

Sho cain't. Well I haven't allowed myself to get rejected but I'm about to shoot my shot if you get my drift...

if they've already rejected you once pushing for it later especially as a woman proly isn't a good idea. what's the context of how you were rejected? were they just not sure about you? was it mean spirited? if you keep pushing and they are not interested in a relationship currently you could end up being pumped and dumped:yeshrug:so proceed with caution

I haven't been rejected...yet
 

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It really depends on the person and how the rejection happened.

Different people have different effects.

Like if its some random I wouldn't give a damn but if it's some emotion built up for a person i actually know then it sucks.
 

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Sho cain't. Well I haven't allowed myself to get rejected but I'm about to shoot my shot if you get my drift...



I haven't been rejected...yet
Think about it like this.



Think of all the people youve run across in the last year or so, how many do you remember vividly? How many of them do you contact or keep in touch with? How many of them do you even recall what their face looks like?


Whoever this is if he aint feeling you just remember at some point he'll be one of those same people.




All this is easier said than done.


Some people just take rejection really bad, still props for going after what you want.
 
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