How do you handle rejection?

[semicko82]

Nah never do that, it never works and if it does its temporarily until they realize they actually don't really like you again.



I've jump through hoops before to prove how much I cared about someone in the past, its something I'll never ever do again and I strongly suggest no one else does. That's the type of thing you do for a person when they are A) willing to do the same for you and B) your actually in a serious relationship.


People really don't appreciate that kind of thing from people they don't have an attraction to.


I have a relative that is married to someone that drives them insane because something like this.

That's a sad situation

 

[EARFQUAKE]

And you never been kissed. You look normal and cute so I can only imagine it's the bladder game holding you back.

I grew up always expecting the worst to happen to me. Now that I'm nearing my thirties I'm thinking about dating and trying to not let my caution hold me back.

 

[lespaulultra3]

What is the healthiest way to deal with rejection?

Have you ever lashed out at the rejectee?

Do you play it cool?

What's the recovery method?

It's easy. There are over 6 billion people in the world and roughly half of them are women. Why the fukk would I sit around and pout over getting rejected by one girl? To be real, her p*ssy was probably wack. If it's not, chances are I'd be tired of her after a few months and I'd be ready to upgrade anyway. I just walk away from rejection with a smile because most likely, she probably did me a favor.

 

[Critical Distance]

quit chasing broads that ain't attracted to you dumbfukks jahahahahaa

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[John Reena]

What is the healthiest way to deal with rejection?

Have you ever lashed out at the rejectee?

Do you play it cool?

What's the recovery method?

I ust be like "Oh ok".

Nah, cuz rejections not personal, it's part of the game. Plus I've rejected chicks, so I guess it's my turn lol

Yup!

I recover, learned this from "Seinfeld" oddly enuff, that it's no big deal n everything always evens out.

 

[old_timer]

personally?? I stamp my feet, scream bytch 20 times, then go post a semi coherent rant on thecoli

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Are you asking me how do I hide a dead body?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

What about trying to be persistent and convincing that person you're worth it?

Waste of time.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Waste of time.

I watched too many romantic comedies

 

[Kex]

Better than I use too. I stress for a day about it then I remember I'm a woman

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

I suck at handling rejection, tbh

 

[Aphrodite]

You don't always gotta be the one pursuing to get "rejected". The one who pursued you can be conflicted and confused.

 

[Londilon]

rejection isn't the hard part, it is if you known the person for years and everytime you try to get with them it falls through, fukks with your mind up cause they seem to be on the same page as you but everything bad that could happen, happens.

 

[Mad Good Dro]

So at this time there really isn't a guy per se, I do plan on texting a person I kinda rejected (he came on to me but I didn't realize it until after he left) and he's older.
I might actually be doing the thing most guys have done and that's interact with people I meet by chance and try to do some approaches. I've done cold approaches before but for different reasons. Basically I'm just about to go for it...finally.



25

What that booty looking like?

 

[3rdWorld]

It's harder if you get rejected by someone you loved and had been courting for a while.
I usually at least admit to myself I did my best and I wasn't good enough then avoid any and all contact with them. In other words I keep it moving, tell a couple people close to me for counselling then eventually get over it.