how do you let go of "ain't shyt" friends with no ambitions?

[Anti-Anime]

You know what i mean. The type of nikka that doesn't motivate you or improve your life in anyway. The type of nikka that never has anything of value to bring to the table. The type of nikka who wastes yr time whenever you chill with him. I've known this dude for 10 years but he just feels like a drag on my life these days. He's still the same person and he had no desire to improve himself. How should i cut him out? I

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Stop chilling with him and contacting him.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

Stop hanging with him and picking up his calls.

I had a homie like that; I been known bruh since 03 and he is still doing the same shyt. But sometimes in life you have homies that are happy doing the same shyt; but the problem is when they try to bring you down to their level. Also if you want to change and they knock your for doing different things to help yourself; cut them loose

 

[LadySimone]

Block numbers. I had to tell this dude being around him depressed me.

 

[Patriarch]

Association breeds similarity.

Had to cut off a "friend" I've known since kindergarten last year. Dudes life is not turning out the way he planned so I was often the target of his envious and bytch made remarks. Avoid the unhappy and unlucky at all costs.

 

[BrothaZay]

Sound like a female. How df does another man drag down another grown ass man

 

[TheArchitect]

Sound like a female. How df does another man drag down another grown ass man

Character assassination is a big one. Hard to defend yourself when your not around...I've had it done to me a few times, just for EXISTING basically...

 

[Anti-Anime]

Sound like a female. How df does another man drag down another grown ass man

This is something that goes beyond gender breh

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

I cant fukk with people that aint trynna make shyt happen.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Yeah he gotta go.

You might wanna do it slow. Doing things drastic and fast will probably cause a lot of tension. Slowly not hanging out as much, and when you do talk, you talk about positive goal setting shyt you're trying to do with your life instead of the bullshyt he wants to talk about will be a nice transition. The more you two talk about different things and the less you hang out, the further separation there will be. He won't be as willing to speak to you because you're not on the same agenda as him.

It would seem more mutual and less cut throat.

 

[vicioustalk]

simple .. surround urself around ppl who are "the shyt" and that are determined and driven and share the same drive you do then eventually ull start hanging out less with the aint shyt ppl less till u eventually stop

 

[SirReginald]

Say I wash my hands with you. I've done it to countless of others.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Stop answering texts.

Or make them your lackey

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You choose better friends




My problem isn't that now. My problem is nikkas (and only nikkas) hitting me up to borrow money.

 

[Tilesp4p]

You doing the right thing by getting away from them fam..cause those be the main nikkas who start plotting the MINUTE you get something good going for yourself.