How do you mentally cope as a black man?

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Aight John Henrik Clarke.

Just because you were able to be in the right place at the right time. Doesn’t mean 99% of people in your position could do the same.

You are the exception, not the rule. Just because you “made it” doesn’t change anything.

I hate people who manage to find success and then turn around and act like Uncle Ruckus because the majority of black people are oppressed in this racist system.

So black people are just lazy and “give up” and “hold grudges” against the white man huh? :mjpls:

I bet money your wife ain’t even black.

Here we go with a typical defeatist reply. Calling someone a c00n because they didnt give up and made it :mjlol:

U obviously cant read at a 4th grade level as i clearly said and recognize those who try and dont make it. But, to deny those who dont even try dont even exist tells me u know jack shyt about your own people or community and u most like just dap fishing or a cac.



Act like 99% of the black population are hard working honest people brehs :dead:


Fail to realize that the only people holding black folks back is themselves 90% of the time brehs.



Make some bootlegged ass pro black topic with zero knowledge of your own people brehs :dead:
 

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Here we go with a typical defeatist reply. Calling someone a c00n because they didnt give up and made it :mjlol:

U obviously cant read at a 4th grade level as i clearly said and recognize those who try and dont make it. But, to deny those who dont even try dont even exist tells me u know jack shyt about your own people or community and u most like just dap fishing or a cac.



Act like 99% of the black population are hard working honest people brehs :dead:
Is your wife black or not?

So far you fit the description perfectly, let’s complete the trifecta :mjlit:
 

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Quit the soft shoeing.

The Black-white wealth gap left Black households more vulnerable

https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2020/06/04/economic-divide-black-households/?outputType=amp

The median black household wealth is only 20,000 dollars a year.

Not only are you the exception to the rule, but you also shyt on your own people as if systemic racism and oppression is a choice.

You fit the definition perfectly.
Impact you face from racism/systemic oppression is not a choice. But whether you choose to focus on it is.

Theres so many more rewarding things in life to focus on. Breh gave some examples
 

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I don’t really like having serious discussions in TLR about these things for obvious reasons but…

Just from reading post on here I can tell that social media and YouTubers are responsible for a lot of black men feeling down all the time, the men caught up in it just don’t realize yet. If you’re feeling down or have a negative view about something then entertaining commentary that reinforces your negative view is really not good, especially if you’re consuming it on a daily basis. You can say it’s just entertainment and for some that might be true, but you can tell by a lot of responses that it’s way more than entertainment and it’s damn near personal.

What you consume and how much of it you consume really matters.
:unsure: it's weird when you break out of character
 
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Shes afro-latina. U done dap fishin and wanna move on with your pathetic online persona? :hhh:
This is the first time you ever claimed your Mexican wife was Afro-Latina.

LMAO! u dont know shyt. Thats my wife and shes mexican living in Cali.

nikkas reaching for them daps i see


She’s obviously Mexican in this photo. I know exactly what type of time you’re on.

Another Coli "breh" Caught pretending to be a Female SMH #Fridaynightfukkery

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Stop the cap, c00n. You fell for the bait :heh:

Mad embarrassing :laff:
 

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nikka sit up here and call nikkaz c00ns and all them internet insults all day, but has no resilience. Then when you him tell him about who he is he wanna at you with his fake narrative. :pachaha: hit dogs holla
and he countinue to confirm what i said
 

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Take the blinders off. Once you understand that nobody gives a damn about you as a Black men (even some of your own people) and it's up to you to make yourself happy.

Do what you can for YOU. fukk the world, they only love your Black ass when they can get something from you or when you are doing something for them (unpaid body guard, clean up man, singing, dancing, scoring touchdowns, slam dunking etc).
Real shyt
Had to learn this the hard way
 

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I love being a black man 10/10 would do again if given the chance I don’t see myself on the bottom and how I cope is literally being Free :yeshrug: Being Free having the choice to do what I want, what my ancestors fought for me to do brings me great joy in life.

I’m not from the hood and I’m not worried about what the next man is doing so I feel no guilt about other black men not succeeding :yeshrug: I do what I want and allow others that choice also if someone wants to kill and spend their life in prison so be it I don’t care that much.
Ouch
 

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I love being a black man 10/10 would do again if given the chance I don’t see myself on the bottom and how I cope is literally being Free :yeshrug: Being Free having the choice to do what I want, what my ancestors fought for me to do brings me great joy in life.

I’m not from the hood and I’m not worried about what the next man is doing so I feel no guilt about other black men not succeeding :yeshrug: I do what I want and allow others that choice also if someone wants to kill and spend their life in prison so be it I don’t care that much.
You have the illusion of freedom. And the class privilege not to care about other black people born into worse positions.

Not all have that freedom.

 

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This is the first time you ever claimed your Mexican wife was Afro-Latina.




She’s obviously Mexican in this photo. I know exactly what type of time you’re on.

Another Coli "breh" Caught pretending to be a Female SMH #Fridaynightfukkery

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Stop the cap, c00n. You fell for the bait :heh:

Mad embarrassing :laff:

Thats my ex u dumb fukk :dead:


Act like people stay married forever brehs :heh:

U really thought u had one huh? U see thats why u belong on the coli. This is your life. U just a dap fishing failure in life
 

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Job search is uneventful as usual. I don’t even get responses back like I used to so logically I don’t even see why I keep applying.

Gonna focus more on trying to build a network from scratch. Only way I’m gonna get anything.
Damn, breh im sorry to hear that. Have thought about interning? It might help fill the gap while you are looking for the big gig. :patrice:
 
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