How do you not get tired being with the same women

[jfkennedy]

what you can do to limit a failed marriage is highly limited. there is no level of care that which you choose your partner that will guarantee a successful marriage.

a successful marriage has far too many floating variables that are outside your control and are basically just random luck of the draw. you're making your choice in the face of these despite them being out of your control.

its like a person playing the lotto. all you have to do is pick the right numbers and you're guaranteed to win it. you can in fact say that about anything that involves a decision and make it sound easier than it actually is.

i get it though you people still believe in the system and you have to tell yourself something so you can continue to think that a successful marriage is something you alone can create with your decision making abilities when once you've eliminated all the obvious poor choices much of the rest of your success is based on nothing more than random odds and variables you can't possibly know and can only guess at.

I love how they skipped over this post.

Over here talking about, "find the right woman, THEN your marriage will be successful," as if that's all it takes. There's nothing to promise you that person won't wake up and just not love you the way they used to.

I would like to get married, but that thought scares me.

And just because you see a model marriage doesn't mean anything, so these "fatherless" and "you must've been raised in a divorced home" comments are ridiculous as well. A lot of people stayed in crappy marriages for the kids and whatnot. Is that any better than not being married?

I really hate the rhetoric being spewed by the holier-than-thou. Marriage is beautiful, lets not act like it isn't broken.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Been with my wife for 10 years and every day gets better

As we grow and mature together we are able to communicate better and serve each others needs on a higher level. I don't get bored with her because she's open to listening to my new requests and fulfilling them, as I am with her.

I can have more fun and enjoyment with her than any other woman, because she knows me the best and she genuinely wants to be my queen. I don't understand how dudes would rather deal with a bunch of different women with a bunch of different attitudes, and none of them really understand you and your wants/needs. Quality>>>>>>>>quantity


As for the article in the op

I had invested so much into our partnership that I stayed despite the deep dysfunctions

Could have stopped reading here. It has nothing to do with getting tired of each other. Most people who end up divorced do exactly what this woman did. Despite apparent dysfunctions in the relationship she decided to go along with the marriage. Those dysfunctions never go away and eventually they can't be ignored anymore.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

i get to express my views on a particular subject i happen to have an opinion on.

honestly i think sometimes people need to hear dissenting views on issues society pressures you into like marriage and even college. if a person can look at marriage in the face of what it really is and decide its still for them i encourage them to get married. many people however they aren't looking at what marriage really is they're just going with the flow. you get married because you're supposed to. that's what people do. just like you graduate from high school and go to college because you're supposed to.

Again you are making the assumption that everyone who gets married doesn't look at these things, I am guessing to validate your assumption that you are smarter/more insightful/stronger than the avg married person. The stats disagree with you. And people dont need to hear anything, really. Youre not an authority on anything, you are just one of many people with an opinion on the internet.

 

[Goat poster]

because the p*ssy gets boring. she could be mary poppins. at the end of the day, that p*ssy is the same p*ssy you fukked yesterday and the day before.

yall really trying to convince yourselves that shyt is sweet.

So you plan on being in your 40's and 50's still running around throwing your dikk in random broads?

Rude awakening coming breh.

 

[iamstr8fire]

Been with my wife for 10 years and every day gets better

As we grow and mature together we are able to communicate better and serve each others needs on a higher level. I don't get bored with her because she's open to listening to my new requests and fulfilling them, as I am with her.

I can have more fun and enjoyment with her than any other woman, because she knows me the best and she genuinely wants to be my queen. I don't understand how dudes would rather deal with a bunch of different women with a bunch of different attitudes, and none of them really understand you and your wants/needs. Quality>>>>>>>>quantity


As for the article in the op



Could have stopped reading here. It has nothing to do with getting tired of each other. Most people who end up divorced do exactly what this woman did. Despite apparent dysfunctions in the relationship she decided to go along with the marriage. Those dysfunctions never go away and eventually they can't be ignored anymore.

 

[iamstr8fire]

So you plan on being in your 40's and 50's still running around throwing your dikk in random broads?

Rude awakening coming breh.

 

[Dwolf]

Cause its not just bout the sex

 

[Azul]

idk. 3somes and shyt.

That would likely accomplish nothing but a quick nut and more problems

 

[Nemesis]

Thats why i realize all marriage will end in anger and hate for your partner no matter what happens.

Islam realizes this and allows polygamy so your 35 yr old :flabbsic: wife gets you mad u pack up and go to wife 2 or 3 or 4.

Honestly most people over 35 stay in the marriage cause they know theirs nothing out there for them and they are stuck with the same person. With that being said i think bytches cant handle being with the same guy but a man can handle being with the same women/

I cant speak on any outside situation but my parents are still married and happy, my younger sister and brother are married and happy

Theres nothing wrong with staying single till you die and there is nothing wrong in getting married.... everyone and every situation is different...

Ive been happy single and now im with someone who Im going to marry within the next 2 years..... I dont believe in doing things out of fear, I have absolutely no problem growing old alone, the reason why Im going to marry my girl is because I want to

 

[froggle]

Something i bring up in these threads, but have never gotten a straight answer about is how can nikkas come on here everyday shyttin on marriage and then in the same breath shyt on women having babies out of wedlock?

Think of it, they are confused. Statistics out there show that so many black men grow up in a single mother household. There is no daddy around, no father figure. The mom is the pillar and there is probably deep resentment for their mom, cause think of it. Why did the fathers run away from their responsibilities? Was their mom a one night hitter? Was she the neighborhood choo choo train? Was she the hoodrat that was just good enough to bust a nut in and thats it?

This is why PAWGS are so revered here. They see black women as no good, especially since their fathers didnt want to claim them.

Many can't relate to marriage or even solid relationships themselves. Hence the revolving cycle. Broke ass nikkas 50+ sleeping over womens houses, driving their cars, neglecting their kids and being a total bum.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Many can't relate to marriage or even solid relationships themselves. Hence the revolving cycle. Broke ass nikkas 50+ sleeping over womens houses, driving their cars, neglecting their kids and being a total bum.

O NAH THAT AINT ME #bachelorlife #passportstamps #certsondeck #6figganikka :weazle:

 

[Malta]

*adds gasoline*

This could actually get it's own thread -

The Mommy Affair - Ashley Madison's Survey Reveals Moms’ Dirty Little Secrets That Begin The Day After Mother’s Day
More married women join extra-marital dating site AshleyMadison.com the day following Mother’s Day than any other day out of the year. Last year, there was a 439% increase over a typical Monday with over 15,000 women signing up to purse a discreet affair in one day alone.

The Mommy Affair - Ashley Madison's Survey Reveals Moms

Seems we gotta worry more about them getting tired of us.

 

[BruhMayne]

*adds gasoline*

This could actually get it's own thread -

The Mommy Affair - Ashley Madison's Survey Reveals Moms

Seems we gotta worry more about them getting tired of us.

Fire that thread up fukk its Friday

 

[Goat poster]

Think of it, they are confused. Statistics out there show that so many black men grow up in a single mother household. There is no daddy around, no father figure. The mom is the pillar and there is probably deep resentment for their mom, cause think of it. Why did the fathers run away from their responsibilities? Was their mom a one night hitter? Was she the neighborhood choo choo train? Was she the hoodrat that was just good enough to bust a nut in and thats it?

This is why PAWGS are so revered here. They see black women as no good, especially since their fathers didnt want to claim them.

Many can't relate to marriage or even solid relationships themselves. Hence the revolving cycle. Broke ass nikkas 50+ sleeping over womens houses, driving their cars, neglecting their kids and being a total bum.

 

[kermit da hustla]

So you plan on being in your 40's and 50's still running around throwing your dikk in random broads?

Rude awakening coming breh.

i'll have enough money to pay for it, if need be. but, to answer your question: yes, i intend on fukking more than one chick well into my 50s.