StretfordRed
Afro-European
I can't lie...this mixed relationship shyt..right now..is not 100% inline with my own views...
How Do You People In Romantic Relationships With White Folks..
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You're one of the few pawgers who doesn't put down black women
I don't think it is easy to talk about racial issues with a partner that is not affected by it to the same extent as you. Regardless of how liberal or how down they are. The fact is they are not black and never will be.
That being said, it doesn't mean that you can't have a connection with someone of a different race than you. Some black people are truly not concerned about speaking about racial issues their world view is concentrated to their environment. They are treated well by non black in their immediate environment they are ok and they don't care to indulge in the macro issues of black people around the world and how we fare..they are content with their situation so they are unfazed. It doesn't make them bad people, it is what it is.
It is not everyone's calling to be a crusader...and then there are who fight for blacks and justice but still fall in love with a white person. Is that hypocritical perhaps or perhaps not. People are complicated and multifaceted.
As for me as a black woman, I would never want a black guy be with me because he can connect on race alone. I would want him to love me and find me attractive. If I sense that I am his torrei hart while he's waiting for his eniko. I will save my pride and break up with him. Everyone deserves someone that will love and appreciate them regardless of age, height, skin color, etc...
So for those guys that prefer white girls over black ones I say you are doing yourself a huge disservice as well as keeping the one you are with the chance to find someone that will love and appreciate her.
The sense that I am getting if all else were equal more posters would show white girls interest but settling for black girls cause of culture. Culture alone will not save a relationship...attraction still needs to be there.
That being said, it doesn't mean that you can't have a connection with someone of a different race than you. Some black people are truly not concerned about speaking about racial issues their world view is concentrated to their environment. They are treated well by non black in their immediate environment they are ok and they don't care to indulge in the macro issues of black people around the world and how we fare..they are content with their situation so they are unfazed. It doesn't make them bad people, it is what it is.
It is not everyone's calling to be a crusader...and then there are who fight for blacks and justice but still fall in love with a white person. Is that hypocritical perhaps or perhaps not. People are complicated and multifaceted.
As for me as a black woman, I would never want a black guy be with me because he can connect on race alone. I would want him to love me and find me attractive. If I sense that I am his torrei hart while he's waiting for his eniko. I will save my pride and break up with him. Everyone deserves someone that will love and appreciate them regardless of age, height, skin color, etc...
So for those guys that prefer white girls over black ones I say you are doing yourself a huge disservice as well as keeping the one you are with the chance to find someone that will love and appreciate her.
The sense that I am getting if all else were equal more posters would show white girls interest but settling for black girls cause of culture. Culture alone will not save a relationship...attraction still needs to be there.
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No reason to. I judge people on an individual basis
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T-K-G
Veteran
but if they've never had a conversation about shyt like race,religion, etc. then find out down the line that they have varying opinions, it could EASILY be a dealbreaker for a lot of people breh
there are plenty of people who've known each other for years that have never have those types of conversations, simply because it never came up 
If race/culture alone was enough there wouldnt be as many civil rights activists in interracial relationships. I can't quantify it but I personally believe that attraction for many people trumps race or culture. Especially I would say for black people...because on our history and our rep around the world we should be the most ethnocentric people evee but we aren't...quite the opposite in fact. People will continue to date who they want all else be damned. So for those against interracial relationships don't hold your breath...people were doing even during slavery, before and during civil rights. I doubt that the mike brown and trayon will do much to change that.
O.T.I.S.
Veteran
I vented just like I would with a black woman.
Something a lot of dudes don't comment on but after a long time together (in my case 2 years) you start to forget that they're another race. It doesn't compute because you're comfortable with each other now. She's a woman and you're a man. I would legit forget. Of course, every now and then she'd do something that reminded me she was a sheltered suburban white girlPoint is......I talked to her like I would a black girl. I vented and talked shiit like I would a black girl. Also.....9 times out of 10, the woman ends up influenced by the man. If you're religious, that will rub off on your girl. If you're business minded, that will rub off on her. If you're serious about education, that will rub off on her. So all the wild crazy sociopolitical topics (in the same realm as Ferguson) I'd talk about rubbed off on her....of course black women HATE this because some white females think that because they're fukkin black dudes, that they're black and they go too far
Anyway, I'm single but right is right and wrong is wrong. The kid was wrong for robbing the store but the officer was even more wrong for killing an unarmed person. They will probably try to make it seem like self-defense at the trial, like Zimmerman, but there are witnesses this time.
Either way, cop was wrong and it's worse because he's a cop who is supposed to set positive examples and is trained to prevent events like that from happening.
But as far as IF my girl/wife was white, ultimately it has nothing to do with us. But right is right and wrong is wrong. I've supported white people when it comes to victimization... Even from other white people, so why not black people?
One drop rule
Not around here pleighboi
LandryFieldsDad
All Star
if i was to enter a relationship..especially a mixed relationship..but if they've never had a conversation about shyt like race,religion, etc. then find out down the line that they have varying opinions, it could EASILY be a dealbreaker for a lot of people breh
i gotta see where her head is at.
you gotta see if shes on your level breh
really get to know her.
not "whats your favorite color?" "do you have brothers and sisters"
T-K-G
Veteran
no shyt, but who's gonna start off a convo on some race/religion shyt breh?
that type of shyt comes from the person gettin comfortable around you with time
Yall will neg him, but Ive met nikkas who really believe shyt like this.