Some people don’t need to have kids. This new generation of young adults, a decent amount of them are too emotionally stunted to raise kids. The rest don’t leave the house long enough to meet somebody. id rather shytty people not have kids and raise more shytty people.
How is not having kids selfish?
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Some people are too emotionally stunted to live a real life, so they become stewards of little people they hope live the life they were incapable of manifesting. Menial servants.
Lmao at this post because it implies that most parents are emotionally developed and mature. nikka please! Most the people i know who had kids had kids out of wedlock being freaky and acting on their lust. A lot of parents will tell you point blank they don't like their baby momma/daddy.
I'm the "responsible friend" in my social circle who has to constantly give these parents life advice.
Imagine a person on child support or had kids out of wedlock trying to shame you or say you're emotionally stunted.
BaKardi Slang
Caribbean-Canadian 🇦🇬
I'm only having children by accident. I have no interest in having them, and I know I'd be a horrible parent.
As much as I love them, I was raised by someone who shouldn't have been a parent, and I'm doing what I can to avoid making that same mistake.
As much as I love them, I was raised by someone who shouldn't have been a parent, and I'm doing what I can to avoid making that same mistake.
Second Chance Lance
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how you have a kid by accident and not interested in having them? You a bad decision maker?
I just bought tickets to go to Jamaica. Last minute invite, I got PTO out the ass. Disposable income, nothing tying me down.only some shyt parents say when they jealous you not wasting your money on diapers
ThrobbingHood
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BaKardi Slang
Caribbean-Canadian 🇦🇬
Bad decision maker? Of course. Absolutely.
I don't trust myself to make the best decisions but I do what I can to avoid them, especially when it comes to life-altering shyt like having kids. I can proudly say I've avoided having a child thus far.
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Sounds like a mature and great decision by you.
See? That brilliant decision making is proof you are totally ready to have kids . Stop being selfish.
the cac mamba
Veteran
the implication is that people with kids have to spend all their time and money on their kids, so you're selfish for not doing that too 
African Peasant
Veteran
It is.
You're enjoying life, make kids so they will enjoy it too. Someone had to bring your ass here.
Don't bring me 'THE WORLD is so fukked up'; the world being fukked up does not stop you from going
when you hitting it from the back
You're enjoying life, make kids so they will enjoy it too. Someone had to bring your ass here.
Don't bring me 'THE WORLD is so fukked up'; the world being fukked up does not stop you from going
when you hitting it from the back
DreadBrown
Feed the children
This whole topic is stupid people without kids are not inherently selfish.
On the coli, people without kids are called selfish because when asked why they don’t want kids they give selfish answers. ‘MY freetime, MY money, MY sex life etc’.
On the coli, They get clowned by people with kids because they act like they planned middle aged without a family because it’s some kind of cheat code to life.
Peter pan syndrome is so prevalent on the coli that these dudes feel safe enough to type this foolishness
In real life, no one talks like this. Your parents/elders might have questions but your peers won’t say anything, they’ll just look at you sideways.
On the coli, people without kids are called selfish because when asked why they don’t want kids they give selfish answers. ‘MY freetime, MY money, MY sex life etc’.
On the coli, They get clowned by people with kids because they act like they planned middle aged without a family because it’s some kind of cheat code to life.
Peter pan syndrome is so prevalent on the coli that these dudes feel safe enough to type this foolishness
In real life, no one talks like this. Your parents/elders might have questions but your peers won’t say anything, they’ll just look at you sideways.