How long brehs waiting before they call a chic after getting her #

[mamba]

Fixed.

Looks like some #MeToo shyt waiting to happen.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

like 2 minutes after i get it


i'll go to the other side of the room and text her

and give her the when she look up at me

 

[1 other person]

6 months

 

[Jerz]

Whenever I feel like it. Sometimes I don't hit em up at all .. So many women out here - I do everything on my terms

 

[Super Ramon]

Soon as the club let's out. "Make sure you get home safely."


Then I call a half hour later to ask "Did you make it home safely?"

Then, I call her the next morning to ask how she's feeling after a night of drinking.


Then, I send flowers to her job on Monday.


Then, I call her on lunch and ask did she get the flowers I sent.


Ya know, somethin' slight. I don't want to seem desperate.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

At least a couple of hours to a whole day imo because you don't wanna seem too thirsty especially if she just gave it to you & within two minutes you're already blowing up her phone, because a lot of women get turned off by that unless she told me on some "you better call me now" shyt I'ma give it some time.

 

[ultraflexed]

3 business days

 

[big bun]

like 2 minutes after i get it


i'll go to the other side of the room and text her

and give her the when she look up at me

Soon as the club let's out. "Make sure you get home safely."


Then I call a half hour later to ask "Did you make it home safely?"

Then, I call her the next morning to ask how she's feeling after a night of drinking.


Then, I send flowers to her job on Monday.


Then, I call her on lunch and ask did she get the flowers I sent.


Ya know, somethin' slight. I don't want to seem desperate.

 

[stave]

I do what I want when I want to. I'm not with the shyts at all when it comes to dating and playing games.

 

[Kane1]

Depends on how much I'm feeling the chick



That single life was fun

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Speaking of "games", I fukkin' HATE when females want you to "fight for the relationship" by them expecting you to read their minds.

No, you tell me what the fukk you want. They be the main ones talkin' about communicate, but when you ask them what's wrong, they respond with "Nothing. Nevermind", then curl up on the couch with the pint of hoggin' dodge.

 

[DJSmooth]

It's 2019 we ain't calling these hoes, we texting these hoes.

 

[ORDER_66]

2 days???

 

[re'up]

I was just trying to give my friend some advice on this earlier in the week.....Dude still gets numbers in the club, falls in love, has her texting that night, and just fumbles, and never follows up. The reason we all do this, is fear of being rejected, and having to make real the sort of meet cute fantasy you just had. I do it too, or I used to a lot more. And you come up with all these reasons why waiting 4 days is better, or next week, or after work, but it's all just delaying.

If you meet someone and you are feeling each other, set something up in that conversation if possible, at least an idea, that new restaurant, coffee shop down the street, any activity, and then follow up with a solid invite, ideally the next day. Why wait? I'll maybe wait a day or two, just to get my own plan together, but never longer. The longer you wait, depending upon the strength of your chemistry and initial meet, the chances of you meeting up will just plunge, for a dozen plus variables.

Just text the next day and set something up, it makes everything easier for everyone.

 

[Knicksman20]

Depending on the situation a day or two. As men we should be initiating contact at first & for me it's usually to meet up in person or setting up evenings out . And if you don't fuk things up you won't have to worry about reaching out first because she'll be the one wanting to see you