How long can a man remain in a sexless marriage?

How long can a man remain in a sexless marriage?

  • 1 month

  • 1- 3 months

  • 2-6 months

  • 6-12 months

  • 1-2 years

  • FOREVER

  • Woman you're crazy! I'd leave straight away


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BlackBall

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At some point he won’t even want sex anymore from her
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I was speaking to a close friend about this topic. I know this is quite a taboo topic but a lot of people end up in a sexless marriage or just not as intimate as they'd like to be. So I'm curious what the general consensus is and how grown men tackle this issue.

If you've ever dealt with this problem:

How did you bring the spark back?
How long do you think a man remain in a sexless marriage?
Do you need regular sex to feel close with your spouse? If so, how often is 'regular' sex to you?

Only grown/mature men respond, please.
Thanks!

How much sex do sex people have regularly?

Is it like once a week or once month or does it come in seasons (e.g., hot/cold or on/off)
 

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Being honest a lot of times it depends on the man and if he has other women offering him sex.

A dude without options usually gonna stick it out, especially if they're not confident they can shake back with another woman or are worthy of intimacy.

But, if the wife isn't fukking, and other women make it clear that they want to fukk him, most of the time temptation and human nature is gonna win.
 

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This can go both ways
If a man gets prostate problems & cannot salute no more , should the wife or girlfriend get a side piece
If the woman loses all interest due to a surgery , illness or mental breakdown , does he get a side piece :jbhmm::patrice:
 
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This question would be wayyy more interesting if posed to the brehettes.

How long would they go without sex. Guarantee you would get some highly variable answers :mjgrin:
She has no choice but to cheat breh, she wasn't getting attention or feeling loved, its all the manz fault:mjgrin:
 

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This can go both ways
If a man gets prostate problems & cannot salute no more , should the wife or girlfriend get a side piece
If the human loses all interest due to a surgery , illness or mental breakdown , does he get a side piece :jbhmm::patrice:


It would be dirty to leave a person after they develop a sickness that they didn't already have and can't really get down anymore. That's a legitimate reason not to. But the doctor would have to declare sex is a no no. You do have some people who would still dip out in that situation though. That would test a lot of people.
 

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Depends on where they’re at with life. Contrary to common belief on the Coli. There are people’s who’s lives do not revolve around constantly getting sex/getting off.

I could imagine in situations like that they could go longer. No two marriages are the same.
 

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Depends on the reason. I've dated people who couldn't have sex due to sexual abuse in the past. We had a great connection for quite some time, I really liked her and felt I could fall in love with her one day...but things fell apart before then (for non-sex reasons). For months I was happy just being around her. Just getting to a point where we could sleep in the same bed felt like an achievement. Not in a self gratifying, vain way...but the feeling that this person trusted me enough to reach this point. That weight...and privilege...of knowing someone trusted me to that point made me feel very honored. And if we had kept going, I truly believe I wouldn't have had an issue staying celibate with her, while also knowing that one day she could get to a point where we would have sex.
 

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Probably depends on the guys age and how much he has going on in his life. If he’s and older dude, has kids, a good career, and constantly busy then he can probably go without sex....

Maybe....


Maybe not. :yeshrug:
 
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