How Many Flakes Do You Allow?

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I was flaked on for the first time, and I am in my feelings right now. Not going to lie about that.

Her excuse was her moms had coupons that were about to expire and they were using them tonight at some restaurant.


:francis:

The answer to your question is...NONE!

Learn to charge women to the game ON SIGHT, if need be! fukk that! The fact that she would give you some bs excuse to not be with a man and would rather hang out with her mommy, which she could do anytime, says that she either doesn’t like men too tuff, is immature as hell or simply isn’t into you slash not attracted to you nor interested into you enough for things to move forward.

If I were you, I would block her number, delete her shyt from your phone and keep it movin!

Lastly, you did NOT take an L! I repeat..You did not take an L. What did you lose? Drama? Disrespect? Flakiness? Now, if you don’t charge his little girl in the brain ass chick to the game, then not only will you take an L, but you will deserve whatever is given to you moving forward!

Man, please value yourself and value your time! Most of us have been through this, so don’t trip. You will be alright.
 

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bytches learning to juggle you nikkas better than Bobo and your response is to hop on an internet forum seeking sympathy?

What was your backup plan? What was your backup to the backup plan?

Why were you depending on this sole woman for anything?

You gotta start thinking and moving better man. Can't afford to be a passive nikka out here.
 

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Leave that hoe alone, that shyt sound stupid as fukk

I have no time for anyones games. I had a chick come over a few weeks ago, it was cool. The next day we made plans for her to come over again that night. I get out of work, text her and no response.

I deleted her number and she texted me two days later talking about her phone was messed up, I never responded.

You didnt really need advice, you just trying to fight yourself from cutting her off like you should.

You might have missed out on some p*ssy over some emotions man. Let bytches be the ones who are emotional.

Just because she ignored your text doesn't mean you have to ignore hers. This ain't tit-for-tat and if you allow it to be, you're allowing someone to control your emotions man.

Bush her.:francis:

Coupons though?:russ::russ::russ:

Why.

I dead ass had a chick flake on me with a similar excuse like 2 months ago or so

She apologized next day I didn't even reply till she sent a text saying she wanna come thru

Don't feel bad OP u not lame for getting flaked on, your response will determine if you're lame or not

I'd just ignore her texts and calls

That means IGNORE :ufdup:

NOT try to say some smooth shyt or think u gonna get her sad by saying u don't wanna see her u just gonna come off emotional


Any further advice is $500/post.

I only accept coli cash :ufdup:

Ignoring her is the emotional response too though. If you're making a move because she made you feel bad, that's emotional.

You don't need to chase a girl around. Put the ball in her court and see if she picks it up. If she does, move forward, if not, move on.

Ignoring her and all this other shyt is for nikkas who let ego control their every move.

breh if you was Trey Songz, she would've slapped her mom for trying to ruin her date over coupons

she picked you over probably $10 in savings. think about that

Yea but Trey isn't checking his phone every second looking for a particular date. Trey isn't complaining about some random chick backing out--and trust, this exact same shyt happens to nikkas like Trey too.
 

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I guess Ima different type of nikka. bytches flake bruh. For all kinds reasons. They period starts early. They friend say some shyt that hurt they feelings. They bd trippin. They silly ass will flake on a nikka 4 times then let u fukk the first time y'all actually chill:yeshrug:

I'll flake on a bytch to play video games with the homies online. Don't get in ya feelings just ride her bullshyt out i mean you got other bytches right?:usure:

Let her play games til she feel like letting u smash. Just be like " oh ok cool boo. I'm not trippin I ended up at some random party last night lol" or " shyt I'm not in a rush to chill you not going no where lol"
Side note: did you know u can say anything to a bytch if u put lol at the end try it. Literally anything.

Anyway if u just tryna fukk don't let her flaking detour you. I've had bytches that I fukked for a couple years strong that flaked like crazy in the beginning. In the end the house always wins :youngsabo:
 

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I guess Ima different type of nikka. bytches flake bruh. For all kinds reasons. They period starts early. They friend say some shyt that hurt they feelings. They bd trippin. They silly ass will flake on a nikka 4 times then let u fukk the first time y'all actually chill:yeshrug:

I'll flake on a bytch to play video games with the homies online. Don't get in ya feelings just ride her bullshyt out i mean you got other bytches right?:usure:

Let her play games til she feel like letting u smash. Just be like " oh ok cool boo. I'm not trippin I ended up at some random party last night lol" or " shyt I'm not in a rush to chill you not going no where lol"
Side note: did you know u can say anything to a bytch if u put lol at the end try it. Literally anything.

Anyway if u just tryna fukk don't let her flaking detour you. I've had bytches that I fukked for a couple years strong that flaked like crazy in the beginning. In the end the house always wins :youngsabo:
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You might have missed out on some p*ssy over some emotions man. Let bytches be the ones who are emotional.

Just because she ignored your text doesn't mean you have to ignore hers. This ain't tit-for-tat and if you allow it to be, you're allowing someone to control your emotions man.
breh

There was no emotions involved. I am beyond the part of the game where all p*ssy matters because I dont have problems getting it. This chick wants to be on some dumb shyt... Ok. Shes not the last woman on earth. nikkas go for that bullshyt when they dont have options. My time is more valuable to me that her p*ssy.
 

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:ehh: good poinrs
I guess Ima different type of nikka. bytches flake bruh. For all kinds reasons. They period starts early. They friend say some shyt that hurt they feelings. They bd trippin. They silly ass will flake on a nikka 4 times then let u fukk the first time y'all actually chill:yeshrug:

I'll flake on a bytch to play video games with the homies online. Don't get in ya feelings just ride her bullshyt out i mean you got other bytches right?:usure:

Let her play games til she feel like letting u smash. Just be like " oh ok cool boo. I'm not trippin I ended up at some random party last night lol" or " shyt I'm not in a rush to chill you not going no where lol"
Side note: did you know u can say anything to a bytch if u put lol at the end try it. Literally anything.

Anyway if u just tryna fukk don't let her flaking detour you. I've had bytches that I fukked for a couple years strong that flaked like crazy in the beginning. In the end the house always wins :youngsabo:
 

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breh

There was no emotions involved. I am beyond the part of the game where all p*ssy matters because I dont have problems getting it. This chick wants to be on some dumb shyt... Ok. Shes not the last woman on earth. nikkas go for that bullshyt when they dont have options. My time is more valuable to me that her p*ssy.

I agree. We about saying the same thing.
 

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:shaq2: Thought this was going to be a dandruff thread off the title lol.
 
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I was flaked on for the first time, and I am in my feelings right now. Not going to lie about that.

Her excuse was her moms had coupons that were about to expire and they were using them tonight at some restaurant.


:francis:
Depends. I have a strict policy.

If i just met you, you get 0 Flakes.

If know you, love you. and you a flake you just get treated differently. Like you get invited to shyt and if you show up you show up and if you dont you dont but ill never make plans with you
 

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The only frustrating part is the terrible excuses biitches give. Like on some insulting your intelligence type of shiit.

Once had a chick tell me 30 minutes before that they just found out her mom had diabetes and rushed her to the hospital :dahell:

I didn't even respond and just blocked her number. She hit me on IG wondering why I ghosted lol

Unless she gives you notice hours in advance with a legit issue and offers to reschedule, there are no second chances breh dead her. Chicks will skip out on family and drive 3hrs if they really want to see you.
 
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