I have 3
My suggestion, don't have 3
DO NOT BE OUTNUMBERED!!!
I swear man, if you are outnumbered it changes EVERYTHING, it changes the entire landscape of parenting that you stand on.
It's too much, too stressful, i'm currently going through divorce partly because of that.
I love all my kids man, I cant' imagine life without one of them now, but they would have been better if they were just two, if you are outnumbered you cannot focus on any of them.
It's very difficult to give any kid focus when as parents you are outnumbered.
The gay community often says they have a higher average of successful marriages than straight people. That's correct because most of them don't have kids
NEVER BE OUTNUMBERED!!!!!!!!