Sounds like a bunch prepubescent pimple faced children in here

Just the thread title alone is stomach churning: "how many times you give a girl to come over before cutting her off".
Little boys still running around casually referring to females as "girls".. let alone thinking that inviting said "girl" to "come over" is something that she should not only feel grateful for the opportunity to do, but, she also only has two chances to accept said invite
"Come over" where? Your apartment?

That's not how you do it.

You don't just "invite her twice, then cut her off if she doesn't comply"

You little dudes these days are hopeless