How Many Times You Give A Girl To Come Over Before Cutting Her Off?

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Why would you have a phone numbers full of women that you arent talking to. I dont even save womens numbers anymore until i fukk them. If a chick isnt talkin good shyt her number get deleted. You sound like a bytch sending random women "hey stranger" texts every 3 months.
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great question.

Nowadays I give a girl two leeways so far as she has a legitimate excuse (work, class etc.).

If she rejects the bid a third time without suggesting an alternative date you just have to take that L. shyt two weeks ago I met a shorty, and suggested I come through after work a couple days after. She said nah because she lives with her auntie who is very strict on having guests over plus she didnt know me like that. No problem. That weekend after a bit more texting we went out for iice cream and I guess she was feeling the kid because a week later she asked me if I had seen fast and furious 6. The reason was because she wanted to go see 7 with me. I said nah, but suggested that she could come over, we could get caught up on FF4-6 and then go see the latest movie the next weekend.

Bet.

She worked that Saturday from 9AM to 4PM. She went home, showered and came through the crib at 7PM (mind you she commutes 2+ hrs to work). We watched FF4...ended up cuddling, got halfway through 5...and by then I was digging her out.

If a girl is feeling you they will make time. Too many times when were really interested in a girl we try to give leeway...especially if we feel we have invested too much time already. Sometimes though, you just gotta pull a disappearance act and let them come to you. If they still dont come to you, that tells you all you need to know; either shorty is too passive or simply uninterested. In any case you can keep it moving and know you tried.

shyt fam..you eating that good up in hamilton? :ohhh:

was she african? :wow:
 

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Is she actually confirming that she will come over like a date and time? If so, then give her 2 times to flake.

If you two just started talking and she's not really comfortable coming over to your crib then that's another thing.
 

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Sounds like a bunch prepubescent pimple faced children in here :snoop: Just the thread title alone is stomach churning: "how many times you give a girl to come over before cutting her off".


Little boys still running around casually referring to females as "girls".. let alone thinking that inviting said "girl" to "come over" is something that she should not only feel grateful for the opportunity to do, but, she also only has two chances to accept said invite :dead:

"Come over" where? Your apartment? :mjlol:
That's not how you do it. :snoop:
You don't just "invite her twice, then cut her off if she doesn't comply" :russ: :dead:
You little dudes these days are hopeless :mjcry:
Breh, IDK whom your post is directed to but I don't believe it should be me. Sounds like you're talking about a woman you're trying to date/be your girlfriend. Even with them you have to set the tone that flaking/disrespect/playing those games aren't cool. That's not being HOH, its being logical. If you set a firm tone women not only respect it, but are attracted to it.
 

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even when dating casually, i always screened against flaky women
too many headaches

they can't remember their other commitments
they never know their work schedule
they forget to take their bc pills
somehow they make us late for the movie or show
just try traveling out of town with them

their life is a series of mishaps and mistakes
not worth it
 

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once...but in HOH...i got options and refuse to accept any disrespect
That's not being HOH, that's being logical. Would you keep hanging out with a breh that ditched you?
 

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I'm all about cooperation
Women make time for stuff/people they like
If a chick flakes ONCE, she better have a good reason
and plans to make up for it
 

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Why would you have a phone numbers full of women that you arent talking to. I dont even save womens numbers anymore until i fukk them. If a chick isnt talkin good shyt her number get deleted. You sound like a bytch sending random women "hey stranger" texts every 3 months.

I keep my contacts seperate. I got a binder full of women.

A girl might not like me now but in a month or two who knows, maybe she's mad at her boyfriend, maybe she's feeling horny, maybe she heard about me. I'm not saying keep 200 numbers on deck but if ur feeling a girl and u delete her number just cuz she flaked on u twice then ur all up in feelings. Girls are too emotional to take it that seriously
 

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shyt fam..you eating that good up in hamilton? :ohhh:

was she african? :wow:
Truth be told I just ended a 5 month drought. I live in Brampton with the fam since graduating a year ago. Jamaican shorty. I've been recruiting well lately; zero fukks given nowadays. It ain't nothing to get a number, ain't nothing to get rejected, ain't nothing to delete a number.

When I was in Hamilton I ate extremely good tho
 
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I keep my contacts seperate. I got a binder full of women.

A girl might not like me now but in a month or two who knows, maybe she's mad at her boyfriend, maybe she's feeling horny, maybe she heard about me. I'm not saying keep 200 numbers on deck but if ur feeling a girl and u delete her number just cuz she flaked on u twice then ur all up in feelings. Girls are too emotional to take it that seriously



I feel what your saying in principle. But I PERSONALLY do not have the time or energy to waste on flaky women in that manner....



Twice and then it's bushes.

This is of course assuming that that we've already been on at least two dates and it's established a MUTUAL interest in each other. If I am inviting her over to my place it is not necessarily for sex, but because I've gotten to a pint where I feel like we've reached the level where she would be comfortable coming over.

If we're not there yet I'd prefer an honest "I'm not comfortable coming over yet" response rather than some game playing, flaky bullshyt game. If my spider sense goes off in that manner the. I have NO problem showing Her where the bushes lie...


The point is to establish what kind of relarionship we are going for. If this is strictly a sex thing then don't play games with HER and be up front. That way there can be no confusion as to what intentions are. If this is a woman your really feeling then by all means make GODDAMN sure she's on the same page with you
 

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Truth be told I just ended a 5 month drought. I live in Brampton with the fam since graduating a year ago. Jamaican shorty. I've been recruiting well lately; zero fukks given nowadays. It ain't nothing to get a number, ain't nothing to get rejected, ain't nothing to delete a number.

When I was in Hamilton I ate extremely good tho

we ain't far from each other breh. :ohhh:

me, you AND @Emperor_ReinScarf

where you meetin these hoes at though...and where did you meet shorty?

never fukked with a carribean woman, but i've heard stories. :wow:

brampton is full of ghanians breh....i'm surprised you ain't eating out there.
 

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we ain't far from each other breh. :ohhh:

me, you AND @Emperor_ReinScarf

where you meetin these hoes at though...and where did you meet shorty?

never fukked with a carribean woman, but i've heard stories. :wow:

brampton is full of ghanians breh....i'm surprised you ain't eating out there.
ghanaians are an interesting breed...you gotta be a certain kind of ghanian to eat off the ones here and go to certain 'events'

i met shorty at the bus stop on queen/airport road going home. I was coming from the bramalea city center goodlife and seen her on the zum bus when i got on. WHen i got off i looked to my side and noticed she was walking beside me somewhat. once we got off the shelter i just started convo. she was very quiet / shy but her smile was so :noah: i said fukk it ima go for the number anyways.
 

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Cutting girls off is so 2013.

Nowadays u just put em on the rotter and hit em up every couple months with a "hey".

People say it's a numbers game but they don't really know what that means. That means no ego no hurt feelings.

You gotta get Glengarry Glen Ross with this shyt. The girls are your leads.
If you send "hey" to at least 20 girls u'll get a few hits. Might be something might be nothing.
Doesn't matter. There's always more where they came from.

That's how girls play it. I'm always getting "heyyy" from random bytches I ain't talked to in ages.
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Letting hit-it-n-quit-its to your home:whoa:
girls these days are such thots it's usually not a big deal.. they'll be on to the next dude by the time they hit their car once they leave your crib.

just make sure you're not dealing with some super hoodrat bytch who will set you up
 
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