How Many Times You Give A Girl To Come Over Before Cutting Her Off?

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If a woman is truely into you she won't flake.

I've had chicks drive in snow storms, drive two hours, take the bus, leave family functions and all that to come see me.

A chick flaking is basically her telling you politely your not a priority, your not important to her, she doesn't view you as valuable.

The old if it was chris brown, trey songz, denzel or idra you think she'd flake?

You gotta view yourself as the prize, you think you can flake on a job interview and get another opportunity?
 

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ghanaians are an interesting breed...you gotta be a certain kind of ghanian to eat off the ones here and go to certain 'events'

i met shorty at the bus stop on queen/airport road going home. I was coming from the bramalea city center goodlife and seen her on the zum bus when i got on. WHen i got off i looked to my side and noticed she was walking beside me somewhat. once we got off the shelter i just started convo. she was very quiet / shy but her smile was so :noah: i said fukk it ima go for the number anyways.

and you beat on da 2nd time :wow:

did cross your mind that perhaps she could've not been interested...seein as how she was shy and shyt?

she on da team?
 

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and you beat on da 2nd time :wow:

did cross your mind that perhaps she could've not been interested...seein as how she was shy and shyt?

she on da team?
it certainly did which is the crazy part but i went for broke

after i got the number i said something like, "youre not gonna be as quiet with the texts as you are now are you?" to try and snuff that shyt out.
 

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If a woman is truely into you she won't flake.

I've had chicks drive in snow storms, drive two hours, take the bus, leave family functions and all that to come see me.

A chick flaking is basically her telling you politely your not a priority, your not important to her, she doesn't view you as valuable.

The old if it was chris brown, trey songz, denzel or idra you think she'd flake?

You gotta view yourself as the prize, you think you can flake on a job interview and get another opportunity?
thats the problem though....most dudes treat it like a job opportunity when dealing with women.

if an employer reschedules most applicants wont have a problem. Only if they already have a job that theyre cool with would they start getting mad at an employer flaking...sad thing is that most dudes feel they have no choice but to deal with it cause theyre unemployed
 

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thats the problem though....most dudes treat it like a job opportunity when dealing with women.

if an employer reschedules most applicants wont have a problem. Only if they already have a job that theyre cool with would they start getting mad at an employer flaking...sad thing is that most dudes feel they have no choice but to deal with it cause theyre unemployed

you gotta have the employer mindset though.

Dignity and self respect above all.
 

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most black chicks are out here getting driven around by pops or nikkas or they have their own cars.
you still see the occasional shorty coming from work or shcool though

i go to that plaza with the nofrills, swiss chalet, dollarama every day at lunch its like new delhi

wish i was closer to a mall
 

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it certainly did which is the crazy part but i went for broke

after i got the number i said something like, "youre not gonna be as quiet with the texts as you are now are you?" to try and snuff that shyt out.

and sure enough she wasn't eh? :salute:

was u straight with it...as in...you told her straight up u wanted to come thru her spot....not even take her out? cuz by the sound of the story, it seemed like she was down.

my go to thing is putting edge mini glow in the dark golf by the AMC interchange by jane and hwy 7 (@Emperor_ReinScarf :myman:).

then maybe five guys after. But mini golf cuz it gives me a reason to get physical wit shorty :shaq:

and ain't ice cream dates meant more for summer? grab some and walk along lakeshore or summin.
 

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and sure enough she wasn't eh? :salute:

was u straight with it...as in...you told her straight up u wanted to come thru her spot....not even take her out?

my go to thing is putting edge mini glow in the dark golf by the AMC interchange by jane and hwy 7 (@Emperor_ReinScarf :myman:).

then maybe five guys after. But mini golf cuz it gives me a reason to get physical wit shorty :shaq:

and ain't ice cream dates meant more for summer? grab some and walk along lakeshore or summin.
only reason i suggested coming over while i was on my way home from work was because she basically insinuated she was bored during the texts.
 

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I keep my contacts seperate. I got a binder full of women.

A girl might not like me now but in a month or two who knows, maybe she's mad at her boyfriend, maybe she's feeling horny, maybe she heard about me. I'm not saying keep 200 numbers on deck but if ur feeling a girl and u delete her number just cuz she flaked on u twice then ur all up in feelings. Girls are too emotional to take it that seriously

fukk all that. if a girl broke up with her dude and she was feeling me then She would contact me. I dont sit around waiting 3 months to hits girls up to see if they are single now. There are almost 4 billion women in this world and you nikkaz are texting chicks every 3 months to find out if there status has changed. smh
 
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