How much better do you think that dating would be better for men if we had standards and actually stood on it?

TheGreatMTB

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I mean dudes have done that since the dawn of time. There's been jousts and competitions and wars started over women throughout history. This isn't new. In fact, we probably simp less as a collective when you step back and think about it.

And I'm sure a lot of women are repeating your same sentiment for their side. They swear they could have men on our knees begging for a crumb of coochie if the other girls raised their standards and stopped giving the box away for free.

You can only control your standard and the people you personally choose to deal with. Hoping an entire sex will collaborate with you to impose on the other side is a quick way to lose your sanity (no matter which sex you are.)

And there are some baddies who are relatively easy to please. You give them some good conversation, a couple jokes, and a sly compliment (not pertaining to her looks), and they're already 70% more likely to give you a chance.
 

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How you gonna have high standards for women if you don't have high standards for yourself?

  • Do you have self discipline?
  • Are your conversational skills keeping a woman interested? Are you teaching her things?
  • Do you have dikk control or as soon as a woman throws it at you, you catching it?
  • You in the gym?
  • Your wardrobe decent? Clean clothes, fit well, age appropriate?
  • You got superb hygiene and groom yourself weekly?
  • You eating healthy?
  • Your money and career on point?

These dudes down bad with women usually got issues in their personal life that they need to fix...but they distract themselves chasing women that no one should be chasing.

Blueface being with that Chrisean chick is disturbing. But look at Blueface himself.
 

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I’ve come to the conclusion that there isn’t much a man or woman can do to turn someone off if the other person feels an instant attraction and connection. I think it’s mostly instinctual, and chemical, and it’s why you see people with partners you think would be undesirable, while others who may be better get overlooked.

Plus, people don’t want to sacrifice physical attraction. It’s easy to tell someone that looks aren’t everything, but there is a physical component to relationships, and through all the trial and tribulations, you still have to want to have sex with that person for the rest of your life.


How you gonna have high standards for women if you don't have high standards for yourself?

  • Do you have self discipline?
  • Are your conversational skills keeping a woman interested? Are you teaching her things?
  • Do you have dikk control or as soon as a woman throws it at you, you catching it?
  • You in the gym?
  • Your wardrobe decent? Clean clothes, fit well, age appropriate?
  • You got superb hygiene and groom yourself weekly?
  • You eating healthy?
  • Your money and career on point?

These dudes down bad with women usually got issues in their personal life that they need to fix...but they distract themselves chasing women that no one should be chasing.

Blueface being with that Chrisean chick is disturbing. But look at Blueface himself.

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I've been dating for a while now and its really been a eye opener. Some of the women I've met their standards are dumb high but im blessed to be in a potion to meet or exceed their standard.

These women realize that too and thats when they switch up their tone because they know they can't get anything past me but at the same time im so laid back they don't know how to handle me either.

I recently thought to myself if I acted like them when it came to standards then I will be single for a longggggggggggg time...so just like them I decided to be picky for a while since :manny:

Im out here playing the game like the 96 bulls:mjgrin:
 

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some men dont have the luxury of having standards

nikkas looking like aborted fetuses out here
They could get with there looksmatch if more day stood on they standards like women do
 

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I've been dating for a while now and its really been a eye opener. Some of the women I've met their standards are dumb high but im blessed to be in a potion to meet or exceed their standard.

These women realize that too and thats when they switch up their tone because they know they can't get anything past me but at the same time im so laid back they don't know how to handle me either.

I recently thought to myself if I acted like them when it came to standards then I will be single for a longggggggggggg time...so just like them I decided to be picky for a while since :manny:

Im out here playing the game like the 96 bulls:mjgrin:
:leon:
 

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How you gonna have high standards for women if you don't have high standards for yourself?

  • Do you have self discipline?
  • Are your conversational skills keeping a woman interested? Are you teaching her things?
  • Do you have dikk control or as soon as a woman throws it at you, you catching it?
  • You in the gym?
  • Your wardrobe decent? Clean clothes, fit well, age appropriate?
  • You got superb hygiene and groom yourself weekly?
  • You eating healthy?
  • Your money and career on point?

These dudes down bad with women usually got issues in their personal life that they need to fix...but they distract themselves chasing women that no one should be chasing.

Blueface being with that Chrisean chick is disturbing. But look at Blueface himself.
High iq but yeah ghard the whole point stop simping and messing with chicks that’s not on your level of type of time, like if im in a dry spell I’ll just focus on other things in life rather than mess with a fat chick like a lot of brothas do
 

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Both sides always play off each other.

If one side gets toxic, hoh or whatever the "meta" is then the other side counters with the same thing or something different that the other side will now have to adjust to and now people will have to deal with it.
 

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Both sides always play off each other.

If one side gets toxic, hoh or whatever the "meta" is then the other side counters with the same thing or something different that the other side will now have to adjust to and now people will have to deal with it.
Well if that’s the case women are up by +10000 since the start online dating lol
 

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Dudes would b better off if nothey could lick there OWN dicc like both #Dogset n #catset
They would save money
Sexwork would probably cease 2 exist

And no more sex crimes probably either


But the only problem with that is men would hafta admit 2 having enuf dicc 4 them 2 b able 2 suck it themselves
 
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