How much better do you think that dating would be better for men if we had standards and actually stood on it?

[IIVI]

Well if that’s the case women are up by +10000 since the start online dating lol

Lowkey it's true. Online dating really brought the club/VIP right into cats' houses.

That girl everyone simped over in high school turned 18, opened up an ig account, got 200-500 followers real quick and set the alarm bells off for someone like Mal or someone who's wealthy and/or go a lot of clout. So now small town girls getting right into that big city, entertainment scene.

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/seeing-a-fine-chick-on-ig-then-seeing-mal-comment-with-the-emoji-unappreciation.937179/

Only way to really compete with that tier is if you're physically attractive, level yourself up or just try or meet someone who's not into all that lifestyle and loves your for you.

Can't really do anything about physical appearances.
If you're waiting to meet someone who don't care about clout like that you can be waiting a long time.
So it appears the only thing really to do is level yourself up and even then you got to deal with people who may only want you for your money/status and will leave for the next cat with clout/fame/fortune.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

I think men just need to hide they hand better. Out the gate a lot of men just instantly put an attractive chic on a pedestal. Thirsting in her comments or even in person making her feel like she’s just the biggest win in his life, or he never seen an attractive women before like she some type of physical anomaly. Men have to learn to just be cool and not get caught up on the box cause trust they like sex as much as us. I learned over the years the less you say about they looks the further you get. Even we you shoot your shot based on something outside of how she looks or acting like you ain’t even notice how fine she is it’s goes the distance. The best statement you can hear as a man is “I wasn’t even sure if you were attracted to me”. Once you hear that you are IN….let me be quite lmao

 

[Leejh30]

I think men just need to hide they hand better. Out the gate a lot of men just instantly put an attractive chic on a pedestal. Thirsting in her comments or even in person making her feel like she’s just the biggest win in his life, or he never seen an attractive women before like she some type of physical anomaly. Men have to learn to just be cool and not get caught up on the box cause trust they like sex as much as us. I learned over the years the less you say about they looks the further you get. Even we you shoot your shot based on something outside of how she looks or acting like you ain’t even notice how fine she is it’s goes the distance. The best statement you can hear as a man is “I wasn’t even sure if you were attracted to me”. Once you hear that you are IN….let me be quite lmao

Nah u spitting but at the same time when she does show disinterest move on quick asf this ain’t a Disney movie don’t be her simp in shining armor she already has those

 

[Shadow King]

Not as good as you think.

Most women don't like most men. You'd have to be prepared to truly live quality over quantity and endure sexual droughts when single.

 

[Shadow King]

yes simps fukked the game up

unless you going to exterminate them, you can't control what they do.

find you a woman who isn't mind melted, i promise you they exist. a lot of them aren't going to be on twitter/tiktok/ig all the damn time. if that means dropping your standards from some IG model you feel entitled to because you're brainwashed, sorry. but it's regular women out here who aren't as broken as you think, but they might be below whatever weird ass "coli dime" standard you have in your mind.

you also have to know how to have a conversation with women and a lot of yall caught up in this headgame already lost by being caught up in this mess. it's going to hurt your ability to speak to the opposite sex.

Stop pushing this bullshyt

 

[Leejh30]

Not as good as you think.

Most women don't like most men. You'd have to be prepared to truly live quality over quantity and endure sexual droughts when single.

I mean yeah cus they are loaded with options from super dumps and therefore most men just don’t exist anymore, only certain ones do

 

[Leejh30]

Stop pushing this bullshyt

It’s acaerage women that feel entitled if anything

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

Simps gotta stop gassing these hoes that aren't an 8 or above. That would help a lot

 

[etrofllenrod504]

Nah u spitting but at the same time when she does show disinterest move on quick asf this ain’t a Disney movie don’t be her simp in shining armor she already has those

Oh absolutely if you have to chase her down abort mission. If it’s the type of situation like she take for ever to respond to calls or text type ish just move on. I’m a FIRM believer people make time for what they choose too.

 

[Leejh30]

Simps gotta stop gassing these hoes that aren't an 8 or above. That would help a lot

Chicks in general but yeah fax let’s stop

 

[Leejh30]

Oh absolutely if you have to chase her down abort mission. If it’s the type of situation like she take for ever to respond to calls or text type ish just move on. I’m a FIRM believer people make time for what they choose too.

Fax and let’s say she was actually into you cut your losses anyways because why get in a relationship with a girl who doesn’t know how to convey what she wants and will leave you confused

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Stop pushing this bullshyt

Thank you. That’s a woman talking point that makes no sense

 

[Leejh30]

Thank you. That’s a woman talking point that makes no sense

Yeah because any in shape woman with makeup on is a 10 according to these chicks and simps

 

[africngiant]

I think men just need to hide they hand better. Out the gate a lot of men just instantly put an attractive chic on a pedestal. Thirsting in her comments or even in person making her feel like she’s just the biggest win in his life, or he never seen an attractive women before like she some type of physical anomaly. Men have to learn to just be cool and not get caught up on the box cause trust they like sex as much as us. I learned over the years the less you say about they looks the further you get. Even we you shoot your shot based on something outside of how she looks or acting like you ain’t even notice how fine she is it’s goes the distance. The best statement you can hear as a man is “I wasn’t even sure if you were attracted to me”. Once you hear that you are IN….let me be quite lmao

how can you get far without eventually stating your intentions

 

[Shadow King]

Simps gotta stop gassing these hoes that aren't an 8 or above. That would help a lot

Most men aren't encountering 8s and above like that so not really gonna happen.