How Much Time in Dating Before You Decide It's a Relationship?

[CodeBlaMeVi]

The title is self-explanatory but I want to know from the brehs. Honestly, I've never dated until recently. Tomorrow, the woman I am feeling with everything in me, will make a month since we met, had sex in week 4 and talked continuously minus the flu she's getting over.

I want to lock her down because Im tired of entertaining other women to keep from appearing obsessed. It's daunting because she's on my mind all the time.

A month is short on paper but patience never been my strong point.

It's usually been we fukk and if Im interested after fukking then we go together but this is driving me crazy internally. She's applying that we not rush. She's a couple years older and has a son. Not a baby. I have a son myself who is actually older than hers.

So, in conclusion i want to learn how much time in dating passes before making it official.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Follow your heart

My parents spent exactly 5 months from meeting date to wedding date

Still married almost 30 years later

Don't let these bitter non relationship having fishing for dap ass nikkas give you bad advice

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Follow your heart

My parents spent exactly 5 months from meeting date to wedding date

Still married almost 30 years later

Don't let these bitter non relationship having fishing for dap ass nikkas give you bad advice

True. My heart is there and i feel hers is there too. Its just something within herself. Im not hung up what it is, in due time won't be at peace until she's mine.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

usually she gonna start askin about exclusivity and at that point u should just be honest and tell her what u told us

 

[benjamin]

"Shes implying that we dont rush"

 

[Azul]

It's 2017 breh. Throw that coy shyt in the bushes. No timestamp.

My first boyfriend and I never even went on a date

Be cautious always, the dweebs will soon infiltrate this thread

 

[Kex]

I honest feel like you should just tell her what you just told us. I can't guarantee how she'll take it but why play yourself. You want her, just tell her and see how it goes.

Time doesn't exist~~~~

 

[PeridotPuss]

True. My heart is there and i feel hers is there too. Its just something within herself. Im not hung up what it is, in due time won't be at peace until she's mine.

Take a leadership step as a man and lock it down. ...

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

usually she gonna start askin about exclusivity and at that point u should just be honest and tell her what u told us

She knows except me entertaining other women. She disclosed she's exclusively dating me but she's a busy and active parent outside of working. So, our time to kick it is rare. To not become upset, i entertain different chicks or did prior to us having sex.

 

[KnowledgeOfSelf17]

The title is self-explanatory but I want to know from the brehs. Honestly, I've never dated until recently. Tomorrow, the woman I am feeling with everything in me, will make a month since we met, had sex in week 4 and talked continuously minus the flu she's getting over.

I want to lock her down because Im tired of entertaining other women to keep from appearing obsessed. It's daunting because she's on my mind all the time.

A month is short on paper but patience never been my strong point.

It's usually been we fukk and if Im interested after fukking then we go together but this is driving me crazy internally. She's applying that we not rush. She's a couple years older and has a son. Not a baby. I have a son myself who is actually older than hers.

So, in conclusion i want to learn how much time in dating passes before making it official.

just do it man, fukk a time line

 

[KnowledgeOfSelf17]

She knows except me entertaining other women. She disclosed she's exclusively dating me but she's a busy and active parent outside of working. So, our time to kick it is rare. To not become upset, i entertain different chicks or did prior to us having sex.

she has a kid

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Take a leadership step as a man and lock it down. ...

I've done everything except give an ultimatum and disclosed me talking to other women in between.

She's fully aware of where I stand.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

she has a kid

Yes but may you supply context?

 

[PeridotPuss]

I've done everything except give an ultimatum and disclosed me talking to other women in between.

She's fully aware of where I stand.

Then just be there

if you not getting the commitment you want ...then you know what to do. Can't hold on to someone who don't want what you want ...but give a bit more time to cook you clearly like her and she has to be *very* smart about her decisions as she has a kid

You see how hard the single mothers get trashed and played she may have heard all that commitment bs before

Just wait it out a bit and see. If you made it known youre down for her....you did your part

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Then just be there

if you not getting the commitment you want ...then you know what to do. Can't hold on to someone who don't want what you want ...but give a bit more time to cook you clearly like her and she has to be *very* smart about her decisions as she has a kid

You see how hard the single mothers get trashed and played she may have heard all that commitment bs before

Just wait it out a bit and see. If you made it known youre down for her....you did your part

Thanks.