How Much Time in Dating Before You Decide It's a Relationship?

Lady.Libra.

~balance~
Supporter
Joined
Dec 22, 2015
Messages
8,624
Reputation
11,109
Daps
29,341
Reppin
VII
Whatever time frame it is just make sure that both of you are on the same page & both acknowledge that you are in an exclusive committed relationship with each other.

Goes without saying, just speaking out loud...
 

NO-BadAzz

Superstar
Joined
Sep 11, 2015
Messages
11,715
Reputation
2,268
Daps
33,846
Start planning things with her and her kid.

Start sending her things to her job (if you're not doing that now) ask to meet her parents, bring her around your family.

Start doing boyfriend things to her...you don't necessary have to announce you're in a relationship since she's made it known to you that you are the only dude she's dating. Just run with that information and do the bf duties. She'll come around. Don't rush her, that's what you really don't want to do, instead show her with your actions on how truly you care for her. Don't even bring up the relationship topic anymore, let her bring it up but all while do the things to show her you want a relationship and you want her to be your gf.

Good luck to you breh
 

CodeBlaMeVi

I love not to know so I can know more...
Supporter
Joined
Oct 3, 2013
Messages
40,402
Reputation
3,808
Daps
110,577
Start planning things with her and her kid.

Start sending her things to her job (if you're not doing that now) ask to meet her parents, bring her around your family.

Start doing boyfriend things to her...you don't necessary have to announce you're in a relationship since she's made it known to you that you are the only dude she's dating. Just run with that information and do the bf duties. She'll come around. Don't rush her, that's what you really don't want to do, instead show her with your actions on how truly you care for her. Don't even bring up the relationship topic anymore, let her bring it up but all while do the things to show her you want a relationship and you want her to be your gf.

Good luck to you breh
We all suppose to went to movies and she caught the fool. Us and both our sons. My son and i ended up going but she hmu telling us to enjoy ourselves before the movie started.
 

NO-BadAzz

Superstar
Joined
Sep 11, 2015
Messages
11,715
Reputation
2,268
Daps
33,846
We all suppose to went to movies and she caught the fool. Us and both our sons. My son and i ended up going but she hmu telling us to enjoy ourselves before the movie started.

Nothing wrong with that, but keep including her son in your plans if you are really serious about her, nothing shows your care than including her seed in your plans breh.

I'd also start talking to her about taking a big trip somewhere with her maybe...outside of your local regular degular stuff you and her may do. Plan to take her out of the country or somewhere nice like to Napa Valley or some shyt IDK. I mean you did say you care about the chick...then also throw in something like a trip to include her son and your son etc.

Good luck to you breh
 

CodeBlaMeVi

I love not to know so I can know more...
Supporter
Joined
Oct 3, 2013
Messages
40,402
Reputation
3,808
Daps
110,577
Nothing wrong with that, but keep including her son in your plans if you are really serious about her, nothing shows your care than including her seed in your plans breh.

I'd also start talking to her about taking a big trip somewhere with her maybe...outside of your local regular degular stuff you and her may do. Plan to take her out of the country or somewhere nice like to Napa Valley or some shyt IDK. I mean you did say you care about the chick...then also throw in something like a trip to include her son and your son etc.

Good luck to you breh
Here I thought i was a sucker for sharing similar thoughts. I want to go to Puerto Rico for her bday weekend. If we're still kicking it.
 

CodeBlaMeVi

I love not to know so I can know more...
Supporter
Joined
Oct 3, 2013
Messages
40,402
Reputation
3,808
Daps
110,577
What is she then?

And sidebar: It seems like you're gettin in a relationship for the wrong reasons breh. No hate, just an observation :manny:
What are these reasons you speak of? She's black and would actually make each other's lives easier.
 

NO-BadAzz

Superstar
Joined
Sep 11, 2015
Messages
11,715
Reputation
2,268
Daps
33,846
Here I thought i was a sucker for sharing similar thoughts. I want to go to Puerto Rico for her bday weekend. If we're still kicking it.

:ehh: PR
Man if you care about the chick, man book that shyt and surprise her with it...:yeshrug:


Sucka stuff is just leading her on and not showing her how you really care about her, with actions...put it like this, if it doesn't work out, you can say that you didn't try to make it work breh

Good luck to you breh
 
Last edited:

shutterguy

Photographer
Supporter
Joined
Nov 21, 2012
Messages
13,894
Reputation
5,452
Daps
42,020
Reppin
Cleveland
Follow your heart

My parents spent exactly 5 months from meeting date to wedding date

Still married almost 30 years later

Don't let these bitter non relationship having fishing for dap ass nikkas give you bad advice

Straight for the kill! :damn:

giphy.gif


To answer OP, my last GF we dated for a month and half, had sex, then it became official.
 
Top