How often does the avg man get laid?
Lets address this as it's the crux of the question. The answer is in the question. Ascend beyond mediocrity/averageness...and the propensity goes up. Two statuses greatly affect the stat.
Involved/married men get laid more on average. It's the same woman...but the act is happening more often.
Single men have to establish a sexual relationship which takes time. This lowers your percentage.
The idea of top versus bottom selection pools is not the decider. Women outnumber us, the odds are in your favor in variety and possibilty on average.
Bottom line? Dudes are not out here shooting thier shots. Online attempts don't count. You have to migrate physically to where the women are.