How old is "TOO OLD" to be living with ya momma?

How old is too old?

  • 18

    Votes: 6 6.1%
  • 19

    Votes: 2 2.0%
  • 20

    Votes: 2 2.0%
  • 21

    Votes: 8 8.2%
  • 22

    Votes: 1 1.0%
  • 23

    Votes: 4 4.1%
  • 24

    Votes: 7 7.1%
  • 25+

    Votes: 68 69.4%

  • Total voters
    98
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Geek Nasty

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After living on my own after just one year in college, I couldn't handle living with my parents for a week after that. You get a taste of that freedom and you're not going back unless you have to. But, it sucks for young people today. It's a lot harder/more expensive to move out just about anywhere in the country. Even if you have a degree, you're coming out with a luxury car's weight in student loans.
 

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We get this thread every few months and it always seems to be filled with a bunch of Peter Pan types.
 

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Do a CELTA instead of a TEFL; a CELTA has a real university backing it. Also, make sure you do a program where you get practical training in a foreign country. Cost a bit more but it looks a lot better than some joint you got online.

I gotta warn you though, if you don't have a degree and/or prior experience, your country options are going to be a bit limited, unless you don't mind being a little greasy and working illegally - putting up flyers for private lessons, working at some less prestigious schools with no work visa, etc.. In that case, world's the oyster.
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Brehs its not the 1970s. Rent is fukking high.

Even rent in the bad neighborhoods and ghettos are going up. I remember nikkas was paying only a 100/200 bucks a month to live in the ghetto slum apartments back in the late 90s/early 2000s. Now rent in the ghetto apartments is like 400 and up now smh. Not worth it.
 

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If I had the money I'd move out now....but I'm broke...only reason I'm still at home now :mjcry:

I'm tryna be out by 22 though (Turning 21 in July)
 

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25ish but a lot of it has to do with circumstances.
If you are making 50k a year and living in a small apartment with your parents at 22 you should fukking move.

Also lol @ the hood ass thread title, "your moms" as if if dads don't exist.
 

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A lot of dudes who make the excuse of still living at home to "save" are the same cats buying expensive jordans, designer clothes, pimping their rides out with corny paint jobs/rims, make it rain in the club, wasting money on the latest iphones/ipad etc.

Besides the benefits of having ladies in ya crib walking around butt naked etc. Having your own place makes you a man, hustling to pay your bills, doing your grocery, learning to budget, cooking for yourself, saving etc. You will never learn the responsibilities of living below your means, living with mummy, don't stunt your growth fellas, get out there and get yourself a bachelor pad.

Nothing in this world beats a woman chilling in your crib in nothing but a thong, NOTHING!!!:banderas:
 

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If my folks need help, age isn't a factor.

If I'm not doing shyt and I'm a loser, age isn't a factor.

It's case by case, I tell all the young brehs, don't be in a rush to leave home. Stack paper, get your credit up, pay off your car, then make the move.

fukk that stigma of leaving home at 18. That's crazy in this day and age.
 

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If a dude is over 20 & livin with his parents I'm like :huhldup:

If it's cuz they're in school or savin up some loot it could be justifiable but I'm still like :huhldup:

I don't fukk with dudes that age anymore though; strictly men :myman:
 

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A lot of dudes who make the excuse of still living at home to "save" are the same cats buying expensive jordans, designer clothes, pimping their rides out with corny paint jobs/rims, make it rain in the club, wasting money on the latest iphones/ipad etc.

Besides the benefits of having ladies in ya crib walking around butt naked etc. Having your own place makes you a man, hustling to pay your bills, doing your grocery, learning to budget, cooking for yourself, saving etc. You will never learn the responsibilities of living below your means, living with mummy, don't stunt your growth fellas, get out there and get yourself a bachelor pad.

Nothing in this world beats a woman chilling in your crib in nothing but a thong, NOTHING!!!:banderas:
This is the other side of it. Some cats definitely are doing said things.

I would've stayed longer to save and invest. I actually encourage any young adult to. Just wasn't possible for me. I had old school parents that would trip on stupid shyt. So I got my own.

Having broads over whenever. Coming in and out whenever I feel like it. Having my own rules. Just couldn't beat it. I can't even do roommates. I tried in the past. There is nothing like having your own.
 

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That's the problem, nikkas always let society tell them what to do. What cac brands to wear, what cac junk to eat, what cac poison to drink. Why should any number be the "right" number to move out? I know one nikka who until 28 lived with his parents, by 30 opened his own cleaning company, now lives on his own, has an escalade, 5 series bmw and a corvette, now opening a plumbing shop.

Using the stupid number rule then my other homie who at 24 left his parents crib, still works security, and smokes weed all the time, is more successful than the other guy cuz he left home at an earlier age...you see how stupid that sounds?

If you live at home cuz u r a bum then the problem is u r a bum, not that you live at home.
 

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No problem. Here's a quick breakdown:

European Union - No chance unless you got citizenship or are a renowned teacher. Jobs are tight in general, so visas are restrictive, plus any EU citizen can work in any EU country so jobs get filled real quick. Also, most folks take English in primary school so the demand isn't really all there. That said, you can live anywhere in the EU for 3 months without a visa, so I had a couple friends just do private lessons/pseudo legal schools and then just shoot out the EU for a weekend to reset that visa. Not sure about Eastern Europe, but I'd guess the situation is similar.

South America / Africa - Industry isn't as developed outside of the major cities, but its improving. Generally here you need a school to sponsor you ahead of time and visa restrictions are tighter because most countries aren't truly open/democratic. A lot of insecure places. Admittedly, though, I know jack shyt about teaching here. If you want to start a school, go here. Unsaturated market + climate that is receptive of business. I know quite a few folks who started a company in one industry or another. I actually worked for an American in Eastern Africa for a bit bringing in tech solutions to data collection.

Middle East - Where the bread is, I'm talking 35-50k a year, with housing, vacation, insurance, etc. But you need a bachelors minimum, often a Masters, in education or a specific subject area (English or STEM). You'll be teaching adults or local employees of Western companies. If you got a degree, do an ESL specialization in Business English. The life is harsh (minimal booze/women, living in a dictatorship), but you can get in, bank, and ride that Tier 1 experience resume.

Korea/Japan/Singapore - Can make decent dollars, but these countries generally require you to have a degree, in anything, to qualify for a worker's visa. They're like tier 2 for money.

Thailand, China, Indonesia, etc. - You're not going to make enough to send more than a few bucks back home or take some trips, live with a bunch of other teachers, you'll be overworked, potentially working in some random ass town, and probably just being a glorified babysitter. But you can get in to these countries at a school, on a year long contract, without a degree or experience, just a cert. Gotta be careful to not fall into the lifestyle trap here, lots of people come over just wanting to "find themselves", they hate their job and basically become alcoholics/addicts who don't give a fukk about the local population.

Never work for a school that wants you to work on a tourist visa. If they decide to not pay you, guess what, you've been breaking the law so too bad.
 
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