Question: What kind of ceremony did you have when you got married? What's your partners belief system?
Iight so all my family is catholic and she is catholic. So already, im "fukked" in theory. We wanted to wait til after our daughter was born to get married, but her dad was on that shotgun prompto without the shotgun. I'm not even making this up, we got married in the, I guess you can call it, hall that was located at his trailer park. Then had the reception at a golf course nearby.
So cause it wasn't in a church like she wanted, we found this dude to do a catholic "ceremony" per say, she picked out what from the bible she wanted in it. To me, I honestly didn't care about what was said or who did it.
4 years later, we only have gone to church for when our daughter was baptized (once again, her family was wanting it) and I really didn't care to fight it because the less I deal with them the better and only if her family invited us and maybe a few other times, but its seriously been less then 10 times, if that.
Hearing her family logic behind religion, really pushed me from agnostic to atheist. She wants my daughter raised up catholic like she is, me personally, I don't care, only because my atheist belief, is my own personal belief. I never forced it upon my wife nor tried to argue about only when she wanted to argue with me about it. As far as why i'm letting my daughter being raised like that. I was raised the same way and honestly,its a battle not worth the fight. If my daughter becomes a full devout catholic, cool. If she becomes a full blown Muslim, cool. My daughter will always be my daughter and whatever she decides in life, i'm going to support her and let her come to her own decisions on her belief as she gets older, either she is going to question it like me or not like my wife.
Either way, she is her own person, and I'm going to do my best as a father to guide her the right way.