How people make friends?

[1thouwow]

I met mad people when I used to smoke. I mad people through the military. Other times it was just me being assertive or through a third party.

 

[BrandonBanks]

LMAO I've had dudes ask me "You smoke breh?" and when I tell them no, they get disappointed look and leave, change the conversation or turn to talk to someone else.

 

[samtalksradio]

Hell if I know. usually people seem to like me, but I duck them.that or I them so much they get in they feelings in stop fukking with me meanwhile I'm inside. I'm a horrible friend. fukk it I'm just an a$$hole.

 

[Neil Tyson]

LMAO I've had dudes ask me "You smoke breh?" and when I tell them no, they get disappointed look and leave, change the conversation or turn to talk to someone else.

That did happen, I don't really get it. I'll probably never smoke because of this and I don't care if it sounds corny, what kind of friendship hinges on getting high together?

 

[BrandonBanks]

The problem is that I don't have "my own". There's nowhere for me to go

It's not too late to make new friends. Some of the ppl I was tight with back in the day I lost touch with or grew apart from, but I made new friends with other ppl from other places. I've changed a lot since I was in high school so some of my hobbies/interests and friendships changed as well

You in school? Or planning to go back? If so, that's a good place to meet ppl. I just kind of strike up random conversations about shyt. Usually with a joke or something then ppl will remember you

 

[How Sway?]

Mutual interests. Something in common like same cultural group etc. But other than that, ive noticed drugs are the best ice breaker

So go pop some pills snort some coke and make friends

 

[Silkk]

LMAO I've had dudes ask me "You smoke breh?" and when I tell them no, they get disappointed look and leave, change the conversation or turn to talk to someone else.

Who are all these nikkas walking up to yall asking if you smoke in order to start a friendship

Its always chicks i see/hear with that. "Weed not addictive" tho

 

[Nighthawk]

friends are overrated op. Youre lucky if you have one real friend. But anyway, find a hobby that you geniunely like. For instance, i play sports for fun (baseball, hoop, football) and my boy and i just meet random ppl at the park who wanna play together.

 

[the cool]

Do you not follow sports OP?

Play ball?

That's how I met most my friends

 

[notPsychosiz]

For some reason people dont like me. I feel like I'm not allowed to be eccentric because I'm not rich or famous or good looking. And because I don't want to do drugs. There was a guy I was cool with when I worked at my old job when I quit. I asked him for his number and his response was "we cool and all, butyou don't even smoke"


Help me coli. What can I do to be more likeable / make more friends. No Carnegeie please...

You might not be putting the effort in.
You been a member for 4 years and haven't bothered to upload an avi for example.

When you come across like a person with no conviction IRL people glaze over whatever it is you are saying.
And the result is no one remembers you or wants to be around you.

They may not dislike you. They may tolerate you when you are there by chance. But if you want to get to the level where ppl are like "Hey, you know who we should call... TM!" you need to bring something to the table. Even your name TM101 sounds like a bot. Like a name google defaults to you cause 'Tim' was taken.

You gotta get in there pleighboy.
I'm not sensing no kind of swag whatsoever.

Listen to this and get pumped up.
This gotta be playing in your head when you out there talking to fools.

 

[Dak Pickscott]

Wait you asking nikkas for they number ?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

meetup.com

 

[Dak Pickscott]

meetup.com

You trying get the pipe?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

You trying get the pipe?

All day, nikka.

 

[Dak Pickscott]

All day, nikka.