How people make friends?

Larry Lambo

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I've met a few friends through meetup. Messed with some broads from it as well.

I have to ability to friends but just end up not liking most dudes. Plus I fell like most guys try to put pressure on me to mess with fat chicks, old chicks, or sell dreams to get P.

I mean it's cool to go out and chase women, but the whole pressure thing and being up in my sex life is not the business.
 

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If you don't smoke, Drink. Or atleast appear to be if you want to perpetrate or you got problems with it (Actually, don't if you got problems with it).

I've met and made Solid friendships with all races and creeds through drinking Alcohol. I never get drunk and rarely ever drink to the point where I can't function so there's that.

As a smoker closing in on a year the only people I've met through smoking are usually people that want to piggy back on my loud and chicks who want to smoke for free and end up getting so high all they do is turn me into a fukking Therapist. :francis:
Ain't mad it, though. Just leaves me with a better insight into their personal lives before I start tugging at their skirts.

Anyways, drink or join a social club with your interests in mind or some shyt.
 

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For some reason people dont like me. I feel like I'm not allowed to be eccentric because I'm not rich or famous or good looking. And because I don't want to do drugs. There was a guy I was cool with when I worked at my old job when I quit. I asked him for his number and his response was "we cool and all, butyou don't even smoke:ld:"


Help me coli. What can I do to be more likeable / make more friends. No Carnegeie please...

How old are you? Are you still in school? It's much easier if you're still in school and/or if you have money.


Do you smoke?

Of course he does. You didn't even have to ask to tell, just look at his post. Anyone who brags about people liking them cares a lot about what others think. & a lot of the people who smoke do it to fit in, seem more "cool". He even called the guy a "lame".

Nah you just lame :ld:



Honestly, nikkas just invite me places. I talk to folks, make em laugh and they wanna be around me :yeshrug:

One thing I never do is buy friends. You can take that approach OP :mjlol:

Wait you asking nikkas for they number ?

So, you guys don't ask for eachother's numbers? How do you get your male friend's numbers then?

All day, nikka.

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How old are you? Are you still in school? It's much easier if you're still in school and/or if you have money.




Of course he does. You didn't even have to ask to tell, just look at his post. Anyone who brags about people liking them cares a lot about what others think. & a lot of the people who smoke do it to fit in, seem more "cool". He even called the guy a "lame".





So, you guys don't ask for eachother's numbers? How do you get your male friend's numbers then?



:dead:

Lol nah ion straight up say aye bro what's ur number so we can hang out? :dame:

Just like "hmu if you got a move next week" I never really thought about it


There's plenty nikkas I'm cool with but we ain't got each other number
 

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You have to be friendly to make friends. You aren't going to make fiends being an eccentric weirdo. Smile and care about people - actually care if they live or die. . Just be nice and not an a$$hole, talk to people. You'll find some who you sync with and it will be natural. Friendships will follow.
 

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You have to be friendly to make friends. You aren't going to make fiends being an eccentric weirdo. Smile and care about people - actually care if they live or die. . Just be nice and not an a$$hole, talk to people. You'll find some who you sync with and it will be natural. Friendships will follow.
but what if you really don't care if they live or die. Most people are so full of shyt and themselves and talk such pretentious idiotic bullshyt that I'd rather not be bothered.
 

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Lol nah ion straight up say aye bro what's ur number so we can hang out? :dame:

Just like "hmu if you got a move next week" I never really thought about it


There's plenty nikkas I'm cool with but we ain't got each other number



Can you say it in proper english instead of slang pls?


& how do they "hit you up" if they don't have your number, you eventually exchange it.
 

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but what if you really don't care if they live or die. Most people are so full of shyt and themselves and talk such pretentious idiotic bullshyt that I'd rather not be bothered.
:russ:Why would you want to know better and be friends with people who you don't care about?? :mindblown:
 

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You said that's how you make friends. I'm supposed to be fake to get fake friends is the gist of what you said.
I never asked you to be fake. I gave an accurate answer to the thread. Target those you care about and be friendly to them. People who don't care about others don't need friends. They can enjoy their caves.
 

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Can you say it in proper english instead of slang pls?


& how do they "hit you up" if they don't have your number, you eventually exchange it.

Nah use the context clues, I know you can figure out what I'm saying.

And I meant you ask for their number by saying "hmu if you got a move tonight" that's when y'all proceed to exchange numbers.
 

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At work? School?

Outside of that ----------------------------> :manny:

I've become a recluse since being out of college. :wow:
 
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