How people make friends?

[FSP]

You might not be putting the effort in.
you need to bring something to the table.

I think this is really what it is. Even ignoring the other stuff you said which wasn't wrong, i think this is the biggest issue with me. Being friendly ain't enough to make friends. You gotta be entertaining.

Or be able to bring hos, or have the money, or the drugs, or bring the music..any of that.

Lets face it, it's a materialistic society we live in, especially in your teens and twenties. Fun is the bottom line when it comes to getting lots of friends. It's not that its personal, but it kinda is at the same time, so it feels shytty

You gotta get involved with something enough for people to be like, that's xxx, he's the xxx guy. Otherwise you gonna end up like me with the same 2 friends you had since preschool, posting on the coli cuz you can't even go out on friday night.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Delude yourself into thinking you know a lot of shyt. Then act like you know shyt. Without being a pedantic know it all (nerd), have a balance and be arrogant, not confident. Be funny too.


People are willing to sit and listen to arrogant bullshytters like Bill Clinton, Obama, Hillary, and Trump so why not? I hate to say it, but Trump is doing it right out there.

You probably noticed a lot of people surround certain guys and listen what he has to say:

They probably have one of these components

- Be funny
- Arrogant
- Insightful or delusion of insight.

 

[Giselle]

Nah use the context clues, I know you can figure out what I'm saying.

And I meant you ask for their number by saying "hmu if you got a move tonight" that's when y'all proceed to exchange numbers.

What if you don't talk like that though? Most people don't. You would just ask for it regularly is my point, and the guy said that you guys never ask for number, but you obviously do. You just say it in slang to make yourselves feel more masculine/less gay, I guess. Even though it's not gay/feminine.

 

[All Knowledge]

Never found it difficult to make friends, until I started to consistently travel for work.

I'm so lonely

 

[Miles Davis]

The only friend you need is Jesus

His pops won't let him come hang though

 

[FukYaFeelings]

What if you don't talk like that though? Most people don't. You would just ask for it regularly is my point, and the guy said that you guys never ask for number, but you obviously do. You just say it in slang to make yourselves feel more masculine/less gay, I guess. Even though it's not gay/feminine.

"Y'all doing anything this weekend? Let me know" then exchange numbers.

It's better than "what's your number? We need to hang out sometime."

 

[TEH]

"Y'all doing anything this weekend? Let me know" then exchange numbers.

It's better than "what's your number? We need to hang out sometime."

Yeah this is the best way. Ask for the number for a reason.

 

[Supreme HD]

meetup.com

Is that good to use? What's your experiences on it?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Is that good to use? What's your experiences on it?

It's great. You join groups based on your hobbies/interests, then attend the events they put together I've been to some cookouts, happy hours, brunches, etc and have always had a good time.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Try to make friends with dustheads, brehs.

 

[DJSmooth]

I hang out with people that smoke and I don't smoke. OP you are just a lame.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

You trying get the pipe?

All day, nikka.

ayo

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

ayo

Lol

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Lol

caught my nikka off guard