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[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

You are right. Those women value sex in their partnerships and I don't. I've just seen too many examples of sex moving lower on the priority list as relationships progress so I really don't want sex apart of the foundation of my relationship.

See I value it because I don't think I could remain in a relationship that wasn't sexually fulfilling. I wake up in cold sweats at night thinking about shyt like this. Spending huge chunks of life having somebody huffin and puffin on top of you while u bored as hell or struggling to get wet. Resentment setting in because u never cum. Going to sleep unsatisfied or having to sneak off to masturbate while his ass snoring.

I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. And I can only imagine what it's like for men when they have nightmares about wasting away with a chick that only fukks them every blue moon. Thinks of every excuse while he holdin his nuts wearing the cryin Jordan face.

Lmao! I'm melodramatic but I think sex is important but ur right. It's not a foundation. If anything it's a symptom or a result of a loving, intensely strong relationship because you love them so much that you wanna fukk them everytime u see them. They make ur heart happy.
Heart pumps blood to ur jiggly bits.

So if the other foundational things aren't strong, the sex fizzles.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Relationships are like cracker jacks and sex is the prize in the bag. The prize is cool but cracker jacks are still enjoyable without the prize

Not for me. I can't be in a relationship without sex. First of all, I just don't see myself committing to a woman that I'm not intimate with. Secondly, there's too many scandalous chicks out there trying to take advantage of weak men, to offer that level of support and love without any intimacy. The risk of being a chick's "fake boyfriend" while she sleeps with some dude on the low is way too much to risk.

 

[Rawtid]

Not for me. I can't be in a relationship without sex. First of all, I just don't see myself committing to a woman that I'm not intimate with. Secondly, there's too many scandalous chicks out there trying to take advantage of weak men, to offer that level of support and love without any intimacy. The risk of being a chick's "fake boyfriend" while she sleeps with some dude on the low is way too much to risk.

I don't feel intimacy is the same as sex though. Sex you can have with anyone, but kissing, cuddling, laying up nude, having private conversations, etc are typically things you do with people you have feelings for and I feel most times those feelings develop without any sex involved. I feel intimacy may lead to sex but sex doesn't necessarily lead to intimacy.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

No shade but I hate when people l say it's "natural" for women get their heads fukked up over sex. I'm sorry but that shyt is not true. The way you respond to sex is a choice just like any other emotion. The variety of sexual experiences and outlooks proves that.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Thats a red flag

I'm not interested in conversing with you. You're a one trick pony. You state the same opinion in damn near every thread.

 

[Rawtid]

See I value it because I don't think I could remain in a relationship that wasn't sexually fulfilling. I wake up in cold sweats at night thinking about shyt like this. Spending huge chunks of life having somebody huffin and puffin on top of you while u bored as hell or struggling to get wet. Resentment setting in because u never cum. Going to sleep unsatisfied or having to sneak off to masturbate while his ass snoring.

I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. And I can only imagine what it's like for men when they have nightmares about wasting away with a chick that only fukks them every blue moon. Thinks of every excuse while he holdin his nuts wearing the cryin Jordan face.

Lmao! I'm melodramatic but I think sex is important but ur right. It's not a foundation. If anything it's a symptom or a result of a loving, intensely strong relationship because you love them so much that you wanna fukk them everytime u see them. They make ur heart happy.
Heart pumps blood to ur jiggly bits.

So if the other foundational things aren't strong, the sex fizzles.

Lol I feel you. I know for certain I could remain with someone where the sex was "bad" although I would probably never feel that it was because of how I feel for the guy if that makes sense.

 

[Rawtid]

No shade but I hate when people l say it's "natural" for women get their heads fukked up over sex. I'm sorry but that shyt is not true. The way you respond to sex is a choice just like any other emotion. The variety of sexual experiences and outlooks proves that.

I wish I was like that. I'm am not a chick that can do no strings attached.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I wish I was like that. I'm am not a chick that can do no strings attached.

Honestly I think you'd be a lot happier (in the dating world) if you were. Attachment, love, loyalty etc should be given b/c he deserves it and not b/c you can't control your body in that regard. It also levels the playing field. If you take away the fear of being used, hurt, attached it make the experience more fluid. I'd imagine that fear could really stifle a relationship.

 

[Rawtid]

Honestly I think you'd be a lot happier (in the dating world) if you were. Attachment, love, loyalty etc should be given b/c he deserves it and not b/c you can't control your body in that regard. It also levels the playing field. If you take away the fear of being used, hurt, attached it make the experience more fluid. I'd imagine that fear could really stifle a relationship.

But see that's the reason I'm against fukking before time because it causes the feelings of attachment, love, loyalty, etc. it complicates the entire process for me. I'm not afraid to lose a dude I've never had sex with no matter how much I like him.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

But see that's the reason I'm against fukking before time because it causes the feelings of attachment, love, loyalty, etc. it complicates the entire process for me. I'm not afraid to lose a dude I've never had sex with no matter how much I like him.

My point is that you chose to feel that way. You can control those feelings. That doesn't have to be your experience if you don't want it to be.

 

[Will Ross]

My point is that you chose to feel that way. You can control those feelings. That doesn't have to be your experience if you don't want it to be.

Only women that hate men can operate like that.

 

[Rawtid]

My point is that you chose to feel that way. You can control those feelings. That doesn't have to be your experience if you don't want it to be.

Ahhh ok. Sorry I missed that point. I'm going to have to disagree though. I think that attachment is a very natural thing that happens and beyond my control.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Only women that hate men can operate like that.

Lol that is a straight lie.

 

[Voice of Reason]

My point is that you chose to feel that way. You can control those feelings. That doesn't have to be your experience if you don't want it to be.

From my experience most women who operate like that in MOST cases have some unresolved sexual trauma. Most women can't just sleep with random dudes all willy nilly without any emotional attachment.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ahhh ok. Sorry I missed that point. I'm going to have to disagree though. I think that attachment is a very natural thing that happens and beyond my control.

For you maybe but I don't think it's a statement that should extend to "women" in general. Because we can look at a million examples and see that is not the case.