¤¤¤ How Soon Should She Give It Up? ¤¤¤

When should she start bumping uglies?

  • First nIght is alright

    Votes: 20 22.0%
  • A week makes me weak

    Votes: 4 4.4%
  • 2 weeks is best no stress

    Votes: 10 11.0%
  • Month or so is not a hoe

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • 2 months is my fate, worth the wait

    Votes: 2 2.2%
  • More than 2 months it's not a front

    Votes: 3 3.3%
  • When the mood strikes is alright

    Votes: 44 48.4%

  • Total voters
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Rawtid

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Not to be mean dear, but this is mostly bullshyt.

Denying sex to a thorough man you like for a period of time isnt 'leverage'.
If you say so. It's not about denying, it's simply about feeling him out. You can get to know someone and date him without having sex with him. If he's a thorough guy, he will be one regardless if you're boning or not. Just because you like him doesnt mean you have to fukk him and I feel it's best you should wait until you're more exclusive and he's showing signs as such before you introduce sex.
 

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If you say so. It's not about denying, it's simply about feeling him out. You can get to know someone and date him without having sex with him. If he's a thorough guy, he will be one regardless if you're boning or not. Just because you like him doesnt mean you have to fukk him and I feel it's best you should wait until you're more exclusive and he's showing signs as such before you introduce sex.

Even thorough dudes have a threshold for women's games. :comeon:
 

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If you say so. It's not about denying, it's simply about feeling him out. You can get to know someone and date him without having sex with him. If he's a thorough guy, he will be one regardless if you're boning or not. Just because you like him doesnt mean you have to fukk him and I feel it's best you should wait until you're more exclusive and he's showing signs as such before you introduce sex.

That's not what we are talking about though...

We are talking about purposefully denying.

For instance:
-You've gotten to know him
-You don't think he's an aint shyt guy (otherwise you would have broken up)
-You are physically attracted tho him

For some people this can happen in a day, for others maybe even a month.

But w/e your time frame is, if you start denying sex after that because you feel that it will bring out better qualities in the man... you're lying to yourself.
 

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I'll go with the mood, if I was single and a chick made me wait a month I'm probably bouncing, we ain't in high school no more. If I wait she sure as hell better be worth it, not your average IG social media chicken head.

Plus I'm a very good looking dude and you ain't trying to take this pipe stat? Nah, I don't want to play childish games, bust it open if I make you feel some kind of way. Don't resist.

:rudy:
 

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Depends on what I'm trying to accomplish with said female.

If I see a legitimate future with the chick and things are progressing physically, emotionally, etc. ... fukk it, I wouldn't mind waiting a month or so, whatever. I don't necessarily have to have the box right then unless this chick is checking off every box and saying/doing certain things to make me want her.


However, as said earlier in this thread, when a chick knows, she knows. No point of beating around the bush about it, and no point of making a dude you clearly like wait around or jump through hoops and so on. Unless he got your number off Backpage or something or approached you solely because word got around that you heauxish -- and man or woman, the heauxs know who they are -- I doubt you'd be getting called that just because you were like, "Fukk it, this nikka can get it NOW :damn: :noah:"

Hell, that nikka might be on the Coli talking about, "This chick brehs ... couldn't fight what she was feeling for the kid :obama:"

You feeling froggy on night one or 15 minutes in, have at it.
 

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If you lose a man because he didn't want to wait for sex you didn't lose out if you are looking to build with someone. But if you want just sex, do it whenever you feel like it. Don't hold back sex thinking you can force a man into a relationship. If someone is interested in you relationship wise they wont leave based on sex alone.
 

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women have it ass backwards.
if you wanna give a man that p*ssy
give it to him hot and nasty.
after the fukkin is out of the way youre
gonna meet the real him sooner than later.
if he was there to fukk only it's out
of the way and youve got another eddie
haskell ass nikka out of the way.
men will wait it out (while fukkin other women)
get the p*ssy and switch up on you.
my longest/best relationships were with
women that couldnt fight the feeling
and gave me the p*ssy the night we met.
:yeshrug:




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I've got the same mentality. Get it out the way so you can stop faking the funk. If he bounces soon after we have sex, it saves me the trouble of dealing with them. That's only happened once though.
 
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