¤¤¤ How Soon Should She Give It Up? ¤¤¤

When should she start bumping uglies?

  • First nIght is alright

    Votes: 20 22.0%
  • A week makes me weak

    Votes: 4 4.4%
  • 2 weeks is best no stress

    Votes: 10 11.0%
  • Month or so is not a hoe

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • 2 months is my fate, worth the wait

    Votes: 2 2.2%
  • More than 2 months it's not a front

    Votes: 3 3.3%
  • When the mood strikes is alright

    Votes: 44 48.4%

  • Total voters
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Some of yall are old penny stocks with a young blue chip stock mentality..

Women with baggage have no leverage whatsoever...its like being a free agent after coming off an injury...

You gotta work twice as hard and be twice as humble because you gotta prove yourself to be fully healthy and rehabilitated..
And the older you are, the worst it is...
Which is why older women turn bitter..because their leverage is non existent...
 

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From my experience most women who operate like that in MOST cases have some unresolved sexual trauma. Most women can't just sleep with random dudes all willy nilly without any emotional attachment.

Who said anything about sleeping with random men? I am talking about controling your emotions. You don't need to have sex with anyone to control how you respond to sex and sexuality.
 

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Who said anything about sleeping with random men? I am talking about controling your emotions. You don't need to have sex with anyone to control how you respond to sex and sexuality.


You're saying sleeping with men without having feelings and wanting a potential relationship right?:why:



Most women aren't moving like that. Some might slip up and go on a fukking spree after a break up but for the most part normal emotionally healthy women aren't doing that.:bryan:
 

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Some of yall are old penny stocks with a young blue chip stock mentality..

Women with baggage have no leverage whatsoever...its like being a free agent after coming off an injury...

You gotta work twice as hard and be twice as humble because you gotta prove yourself to be fully healthy and rehabilitated..
And the older you are, the worst it is...
Which is why older women turn bitter..because their leverage is non existent...



A woman is always going to have leverage as long as she is fine:umad:
 

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Who said anything about sleeping with random men? I am talking about controling your emotions. You don't need to have sex with anyone to control how you respond to sex and sexuality.
You think so? I think the only way to control it is to be in the moment. It's just like if you're jealous in relationships, you can't effectively work on not getting jealous while you're single.
 

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Your saying sleeping with men without having feeling and wanting a potential relationship right?:why:



Most women aren't moving like that. Some might slip up and go on a fukking spree after a break up but for the most part normal emotionally healthy women aren't doing that.:bryan:

No I didn't. Please stop trying to interject your negative ass opinion in the conversation. You obviously can't follow it and have no value to add.
 
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You think so? I think the only way to control it is to be in the moment. It's just like if you're jealous in relationships, you can't effectively work on not getting jealous while you're single.

Absolutely I do. It's emotions like any other. Emotions can be controlled. Yes in the moment emotions can swell but you can also reason with yourself. Physiological responses don't necessarily equal what is best or healthy for you. If you go into the situation knowing this you can enjoy and ride the wave of emotions without making it your reality.
 

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Its not a lie the only women that operate hate men or have issues with men.
Do you hate men?

Boy bye. You will never be a woman or have sex as a woman so get out of grown women's business. I am not talking to you nor do I feel you have anything to add to this conversation.
 

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Men are going to give advice on what works on them.

Personally, I don't hold it against a woman if we have sex quickly, so for me I'd say it doesn't matter.

But for other dudes, they might hold it against a girl.

My advice would be do what works for you. Don't let others determine how you get down, period. Now you can learn lessons from mistakes made in the past, but don't let peer pressure determine your behavior.

I think men mostly give advice on what they wish would happen to them if they were the man in the situation. That's why their opinion is not trustworthy.

Men don't give women advice with the woman they're talking to in mind. They give advice like the man in situation she's describing and what they'd want, with little regard to preservation for the woman.

For instance all the men in here telling women to have sex on the first date and it doesn't matter, would pretty much tell women in their lives that they care about the exact opposite. They'd be quoting what many of the women in here are saying if not encouraging their relatives to be even more conservative.
 
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