¤¤¤ How Soon Should She Give It Up? ¤¤¤

When should she start bumping uglies?

  • First nIght is alright

    Votes: 20 22.0%
  • A week makes me weak

    Votes: 4 4.4%
  • 2 weeks is best no stress

    Votes: 10 11.0%
  • Month or so is not a hoe

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • 2 months is my fate, worth the wait

    Votes: 2 2.2%
  • More than 2 months it's not a front

    Votes: 3 3.3%
  • When the mood strikes is alright

    Votes: 44 48.4%

  • Total voters
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the bossman

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No shade but I hate when people l say it's "natural" for women get their heads fukked up over sex. I'm sorry but that shyt is not true. The way you respond to sex is a choice just like any other emotion. The variety of sexual experiences and outlooks proves that.

My point is that you chose to feel that way. You can control those feelings. That doesn't have to be your experience if you don't want it to be.

I disagree with the notion that women can't have sex without attachment. Its more like most women are trained and socially pressured into only pursuing involvement with men who they have or can have emotional connections with. So the sex only deepens an emotional tie that was already there.

I doubt that if the same woman who says she can't control her emotions after sex slept with a man she found handsome but utterly annoying and useless would suddenly be in love and unable to separate from him just because they had sex.
whoa :whoo:. didn't know some women are like this. for most dudes I'm sure the experience has been the exact opposite. I always assumed that because the sex is happening inside the woman it's much different experience for them vs. men which is why they get attached easily afterwards. ESPECIALLY once that rubber comes off.

I can see some pure lustful one night stands having no significance, but you mean to tell me you could honestly control your feelings every time if you're fukking the same dude multiple times on a fwb arrangements and catch no feelings?
 

ThiefyPoo

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Bullshyt. Men lie. Before you fukk. After you fukk. While you fukk. It doesn't matter, they gonna lie regardless. The best way for a woman to see what a nikka is truly about is to refrain for as long as possible. See how long he gonna put up the act. If he talk about leaving, let him.


I was about to post this !!!

You see someones true character when you make them wait .

I remember my home girl had this dude wait maybe 2 weeks and he already started showing himself .

I'm like got damm nikkas really talk themselves out of p*ssy.

He could have gotten it too but not that fukking soon no way .

I guess he saw that she wasn't the type of girl to begets ouchea fukking so he aint wanna put any work in .

Now lets say she fukked him i bet she would just be another body to him and she's left empty .
 

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also peep game. females constantly use duplicity when relationships should be based on honesty.


You've missed the point. A man who you've made wait isn't any more likely to stay with you than a man you have not made wait.

Why are we pretending that most relationships, the ones that do last and the ones that don't, start are based off of deep, soulful connection.:mjlol:


cool so if you roll out early then she saved herself a body right ?
 

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I usually do the wait, but it's because I think of most situations/relationships as "temporary". I remember with my first boyfriend, we went on two dates, he tried to kiss me on the 1st date and I moved my head. He laughed and liked it (I felt bad). He tried it the second date, I moved my head again (but on the second date I straddled his lap - with our clothes on while we watched tv at my home, so I was slowing progressing into being more comfortable. 3rd date we kissed and etc. He told me that he liked that I didn't let him kiss me from jump. I don't think he was used to that.
Im sorry but I dont believe you. Whose glad they dont get a kiss on the first date :pachaha:
 

Kokoro

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Honestly I was afraid of herpes. Even before we had sex I inspected his dikk and balls for like 5 minutes.
I didnt ask for all that info. Why did you give it to me (Pause). dwillhuh? :dame:

Honestly tho, he prolly only put up with you cuz youre a rare commodity. Despite what the media tries to portray, the transsexual women population is very low. He was prolly willing to put up with waiting for a kiss for that reason. Thats some square shyt tbh :mjlol: :manny:
 

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I didnt ask for all that info. Why did you give it to me (Pause). dwillhuh? :dame:

Honestly tho, he prolly only put up with you cuz youre a rare commodity. Despite what the media tries to portray, the transsexual women population is very low. He was prolly willing to put up with waiting for a kiss for that reason. Thats some square shyt tbh :mjlol: :manny:
He is the one who thinks I look like lisaraye Lol (the one I screenshot from my IG in the other thread). When he hollered at me he told me that. His family loved me. Introduced me to his parents and sisters. His oldest sister called me Barbie. He probably did think I was rare because I lied that my eyes were really green too and he couldn't tell they were contacts. :wow:
 

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Perfect. This sounds like the beginning of a healthy long lasting relationship. :wow: Make sure you drop the side hoe before you sign that contract though because I'm just going to pretend like you don't have needs and that you aren't cheating until the wedding night. If she ain't gone after the wedding and you've finally earned the right to sleep with me I'll build a case so that I can take half. :usure: I'm so excited snookie. :pachaha:
You lost me at Snookie:dame:
 

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He is the one who thinks I look like lisaraye Lol (the one I screenshot from my IG in the other thread). When he hollered at me he told me that. His family loved me. Introduced me to his parents and sisters. His oldest sister called me Barbie. He probably did think I was rare because I lied that my eyes were really green too and he couldn't tell they were contacts. :wow:
Lisaraye?? That aint a compliment lol, shes mad regular

:stopitslime: at the bold part tho. So females in this thread mad that a dude will lie just to get the box, but females lie to dudes ALL the time about who they are (fake titties, fake hair, fake eyes) smh

Women play as much games as men. Women are birds and men are dawgs.

Rappin4tay said it best: "Hoes in the world tryna play it sweet, knowing damn well that they wanna freak. Some of you hoes say ooh thats nasty, back of your coat says sweet and sassy"
 

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Lisaraye?? That aint a compliment lol, shes mad regular

:stopitslime: at the bold part tho. So females in this thread mad that a dude will lie just to get the box, but females lie to dudes ALL the time about who they are (fake titties, fake hair, fake eyes) smh

Women play as much games as men. Women are birds and men are dawgs.

Rappin4tay said it best: "Hoes in the world tryna play it sweet, knowing damn well that they wanna freak. Some of you hoes say ooh thats nasty, back of your coat says sweet and sassy"
She is not regular. You gotta remember she became famous from Player's Club at 32 years old. That's really when her career started besides appearing in Pac's "Toss it up" video a few years before.:childplease:

& yeah, I also lied to him about my age.:lupe:
 
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