How To Be Happy Despite Being Alone

[2stainz]

Oh no... I have no one to spend all my money on useless sh*t

 

[Don Mack]

ngl seeing most people around me, close family and friends traveling and living life has been pissing me off lately


meanwhile i have to be surveillanced 24/7 and am never allowed to have any life skills outside of school and the gym

just deleted my ig

Wtf

 

[Mandarin Duck]

ngl seeing most people around me, close family and friends traveling and living life has been pissing me off lately


meanwhile i have to be surveillanced 24/7 and am never allowed to have any life skills outside of school and the gym

just deleted my ig

How old are you and what's stopping you from doing things outside of school and gym

 

[africngiant]

Wtf

what happened

 

[africngiant]

How old are you and what's stopping you from doing things outside of school and gym

23 i got controlling parents and im sheltered breh i get the least freedom. all my older siblings (and relatives) just up and leave whenever. living their best youthful lives

im the heavily scrutinized middle child under the constant magnifying glass

 

[Complexion]

ngl seeing most people around me, close family and friends traveling and living life has been pissing me off lately


meanwhile i have to be surveillanced 24/7 and am never allowed to have any life skills outside of school and the gym

just deleted my ig

Develop hobbies in fields your parents approve of and use them to socialize and gain skills. Win/win:

"Mama, Im going to yoga with the Pawgs, eh"

Also, like true power - freedom isn't something given. Its taken. When you do you'll know you're ready for it because that is part of the test. Until then steadily increase your dominion at every chance you get.

Your parents must think you're lacking in some area or have another reason for their caution. Exorcise that demon and cry freedom once its done as only your deeds and actions can slay it.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Get money
Take care of your family
Get some goals

 

[africngiant]

Develop hobbies in fields your parents approve of and use them to socialize and gain skills. Win/win:

"Mama, Im going to yoga with the Pawgs, eh"

Also, like true power - freedom isn't something given. Its taken. When you do you'll know you're ready for it because that is part of the test. Until then steadily increase your dominion at every chance you get.

Your parents must think you're lacking in some area or have another reason for their caution. Exorcise that demon and cry freedom once its done as only your deeds and actions can slay it.

i was told i can’t even drive outside of work but my entire family within my age range going to dubai, italy, bahamas, paris, ghana, louisiana, miami, texas, puerto rico. my sis just said she’s going to the bahamas and they just told her “have fun”

i sound spoiled but the constant reminders of living an unfulfilled life are annoying. im a grown ass man why can’t i move to the beat of my own drum and actually have something else to show for myself? everyone else in the fam gets to. im literally wasting my life trying to clear the next hurdle in hopes that they finally give me some damn freedom but it never ends. and they constantly bs on family vacay.

so much for leading someone else in the future if i can’t even gain the life experience to lead my own life

im just sitting here wasting my life for a 9-5. and i still can’t do shyt cause they still don’t trust me and try to make me an enemy no matter what i do and everyone just follows along with it

african parents specialize in creating male incels nbs

this is basically solitary confinement+wage slavery.

im a grown ass man wth. im sure some africans can relate to the bs

/rant

 

[Mandarin Duck]

23 i got controlling parents and im sheltered breh i get the least freedom. all my older siblings (and relatives) just up and leave whenever. living their best youthful lives

im the heavily scrutinized middle child under the constant magnifying glass

I'm not influencing you to disrespect your parents or their household, but you need to make your freedom a priority.

Even if that means you might not be able to live as comfortably as you are with them, you might need to break off and do your own thing breh.

Don't let that small resentment you have for your parents build into something bigger when in all reality you have what it takes to change your situation.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Never thought someone would claim the name @Napoleon let alone a 2012 poster . That name has far too much negative history on this board.

I wanted a challenge

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

“I can be by myself and enjoy the company”

-kanye

Hilarious lies considering dude needs attention like crack and mentally ill.

 

[CopiousX]

i was told i can’t even drive outside of work but my entire family within my age range going to dubai, italy, bahamas, paris, ghana, louisiana, miami, texas, puerto rico. my sis just said she’s going to the bahamas and they just told her “have fun”

i sound spoiled but the constant reminders of living an unfulfilled life are annoying. im a grown ass man why can’t i move to the beat of my own drum and actually have something else to show for myself? everyone else in the fam gets to. im literally wasting my life trying to clear the next hurdle in hopes that they finally give me some damn freedom but it never ends. and they constantly bs on family vacay.

so much for leading someone else in the future if i can’t even gain the life experience to lead my own life

im just sitting here wasting my life for a 9-5. and i still can’t do shyt cause they still don’t trust me and try to make me an enemy no matter what i do and everyone just follows along with it

african parents specialize in creating male incels nbs

this is basically solitary confinement+wage slavery.

im a grown ass man wth. im sure some africans can relate to the bs

/rant

This is low-key comedy. You are either a troll or rerarded breh.


If you aren't in those two categories then only reasons a grown man in his mid 20s should live under these terms is if they are holding an inheritance over your head or if you are in med/law school.

I highly doubt you have the inheritance if you got all these siblings. Are you a future doctor then? or perhaps applying for the bar?

 

[africngiant]

This is low-key comedy. You are either a troll or rerarded breh.


If you aren't in those two categories then only reasons a grown man in his mid 20s should live under these terms is if they are holding an inheritance over your head or if you are in med/law school.

I highly doubt you have the inheritance if you got all these siblings. Are you a future doctor then? or perhaps applying for the bar?

this is obviously a comparative issue of siblings living under the same dependency but getting treated the complete opposite.

you ain’t even spell retarded right

 

[3rdWorld]

Just get laid occasionally..

 

[CopiousX]

this is obviously a comparative issue of siblings living under the same dependency but getting treated the complete opposite.

you ain’t even spell retarded right

Your siblings are irrelevant. It's your life that you are trying to live

So does this mean you aren't trying to be an MD or a JD, and your folks are paying for it?