How to forget about someone that doesnt want you....

[2stainz]

from: http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-Someone-That-You-Know-Doesn't-Like-You

1. All this information will be if you are not particularly close or friends with the person. Only for people who have minimum contact with their crush.

2. Decide first if you want to get rid of them for good. You must be prepared to get over them and move on. Or else do not read this anymore.

3. Cut off any contact you may have with him/her. Examples: Deleting or blocking from social networking websites; avoiding going to similar places unless you have to. By doing this you're giving less of a chance to watch them and get obsessive and start finding reasons to like them even more.

4. Do not try and talk to them when unnecessary. Only when it is important that you do so, you want to do everything in your power to stop liking them and by getting to know them you could find more good things to like.

5. Write a list of all their bad points. After doing this, keep it somewhere you can look at it, always think of their bad points rather than the good so you have a reason to dislike them.

6. Try and remember a time that they were not particularly nice to you or annoyed you. Keep this moment of time in your mind, if they could do that, why are they worthy of your time.

7. Remember, if they were not willing to make an effort with you; why should you too? They don't like you or want to get to know you, it's their loss and never forget that. remember this one brehs

8. Spend more time with friends and family. Being with your family and friends is a great way to get over anything or anyone. By spending more time with them, your time will be more occupied and you would have those things ruling your mind rather than the thought of them. Keep socializing.

9. If you have imaginations/fantasies of this person in your mind then replace them with someone else. By having an emotional connection with this person in your mind, you will never be able to let go, your mind is the strongest and most powerful thing and if you can convince your mind into not liking him then you can do anything really.

10. Check out other guys/girls. There are so many different people out there and if you don't want someone different, there's someone the same but better. Look around, once you find yourself letting go of this person there's a greater chance that you'll meet someone that actually likes you.

11. Find new interests or be more involved in activities. Find something different to do. Maybe help around with something, get a job, make a blog, make new friends, start a sport, join a club. Anything you might never have done before or you've always wanted to do.

12. Look after yourself, you are more important than some person you barely know. Focus on being a better person or working on your appearance, or meeting new people. Just keep yourself as a huge priority right now.

 

[2stainz]

Just posted this cause its some good points here for you simps who chase women that dont want you...

Spoiler: :sadbron:

& Also for me too, cause there is a chick that dont want nothing to do with me...but I cant stop thinking bout her ;-(

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

But....if you do all those things,you're knowingly doing it in order to "forget" that individual. So in actuality, you'll always have them in mind as you go through this 12 step "recovery" process. You'll never "forget" them but you can always just...move on.

 

[Nino Brown]

OP looking for answers to his heartbreak on google

 

[Rawtid]

The only one thing you need to do is cut off contact. Don't call, text, Skype, stalk their social media, etc. the rest happens on its own...unless you gotta see that mf regularly. then you will just have to convince yourself this person is the devil himself.

 

[2stainz]

.unless you gotta see that mf regularly.

I work with her breh-RettaS...in fact shes my superior

 

[MikelArteta]

time and if you dont look at photos, check social media, text call etc. you will starve it like any addiction.

just think while your lying in bad all sad, moping and all that, there out there living life

lifes to short to be wasting it on those who dont focus on you

 

[MillionMills]

 

[AquaCityBoy]

I saw a YouTube video a while back where women were talking about what they hate about first dates, and one of the women said that she hates when the guy asks her a bunch of questions like it's an interview. In her words, "I [the woman] am not interviewing for you [the man]--you [the man] are interviewing for me [the woman]."

And she's right. It's the man's job to impress the woman, not the other way around. And women are the ones who determine where and how far a relationship goes. All the man does is decide whether he's along for the ride, and if he is, he's making sure not to fukk it up and make her change her mind.

But by that woman's very same logic, if a woman rejects you, you're not missing out on her--she's missing out on you. Because she had the option and the power to choose you, and she didn't, so as far as you're concerned, she chose poorly. So it's her loss, not yours. And you wouldn't want her anyway because who wants to be with someone who makes poor decisions?

 

[Remote]

What do you do when your bytch is untrue?
You cut that hooker off and find someone new.
I need another bytch.....in my life.


I know he don't treat you like I treat you
Time to explain the game you see through
Sex is lethal, I ain't gonna lie
Means to get ya back, I ain't gonna try
It's like this y'all, my girl sucked another nikka dikk y'all
Light skinned with the chrome out six y'all
Thought they was creeping, two trips to V-A every third weekend
While you was sleeping, he hit you on the box
Sixty-nine go non-stop
Should've left ya then, but my heart said not
You knew too much, the relationship grew too much
You knew about the crack vials, means to be trialed
Way I hid dough under the bathroom towel
Waited for a while, thought you was my right thing
Then things got frightening
Peep the scene, sorta like Sam Rothstein
Guess you Ginger, huh, go figure
Never thought you could be a gold digger
Take my dough and spend with the next nikka
Asked my man Trigga, my ace boom c00n
Told me cut the bytch off 'fore the shyt balloon
Now I'm like Brandy, Sittin In My Room
Pissy drunk listening to Stylistic tunes
Or the O-Jays, thinkin bout the old days
My nikka's like, fukk that bytch, go play
Baller, did she beep you? Don't call her
Guess who I seen, that freak bytch Paula
She was asking bout ya whereabouts
Here's the digits, I know you can wear that out
Tear that out the frame, ya game so tight
You'll be all fukking night

 

[Poitier]

Cut off all connection and go be with family, friends and women/men who may have interest in you. The end.

 

[Rawtid]

I work with her breh-RettaS...in fact shes my superior

Damn. Just tell yourself she has AIDS,breh.

 

[2stainz]

Damn. Just tell yourself she has AIDS,breh.

+repped

 

[MillionMills]

Or the O-Jays, thinkin bout the old days
My nikka's like, fukk that bytch, go play
Baller, did she beep you? Don't call her
Guess who I seen, that freak bytch Paula
She was asking bout ya whereabouts
Here's the digits, I know you can wear that out
Tear that out the frame, ya game so tight
You'll be all fukking night

 

[BaldingSoHard]

And she's right. It's the man's job to impress the woman, not the other way around. And women are the ones who determine where and how far a relationship goes. All the man does is decide whether he's along for the ride, and if he is, he's making sure not to fukk it up and make her change her mind.

This is true up to a certain age. That age is different for everyone, but for me when I turned 30, everything changed. Being 35 and in shape with a career and no kids is like playing on God mode. I literally can't lose (unless you count my hairline).