How to forget about someone that doesnt want you....

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It just takes time....and time away from that person.....trust me I know, I had to do this all the time in HS....
 
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Thankfully, I've never been in this situation cause once I got the hint from a woman that wasn't interested...that was it.
I've really...only gone after fair game...which is why I'm satisfied with the Ws I do have with women.
 

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:mjcry: Like @Emperor_ReinScarf said, it heals with time..... Plus they are living their life while you thinking about her :francis: sucks but you will get to the point you where careless about her :yeshrug: that where I am at...
 

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I've never really had a problem getting over someone. Maybe because I think of men as disposable objects.

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from: http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-Someone-That-You-Know-Doesn't-Like-You

1. All this information will be if you are not particularly close or friends with the person. Only for people who have minimum contact with their crush.

2. Decide first if you want to get rid of them for good. You must be prepared to get over them and move on. Or else do not read this anymore.

3. Cut off any contact you may have with him/her. Examples: Deleting or blocking from social networking websites; avoiding going to similar places unless you have to. By doing this you're giving less of a chance to watch them and get obsessive and start finding reasons to like them even more.

4. Do not try and talk to them when unnecessary. Only when it is important that you do so, you want to do everything in your power to stop liking them and by getting to know them you could find more good things to like.

5. Write a list of all their bad points. After doing this, keep it somewhere you can look at it, always think of their bad points rather than the good so you have a reason to dislike them.

6. Try and remember a time that they were not particularly nice to you or annoyed you. Keep this moment of time in your mind, if they could do that, why are they worthy of your time.

7. Remember, if they were not willing to make an effort with you; why should you too? They don't like you or want to get to know you, it's their loss and never forget that. :whew: remember this one brehs

8. Spend more time with friends and family. Being with your family and friends is a great way to get over anything or anyone. By spending more time with them, your time will be more occupied and you would have those things ruling your mind rather than the thought of them. Keep socializing.

9. If you have imaginations/fantasies of this person in your mind then replace them with someone else. By having an emotional connection with this person in your mind, you will never be able to let go, your mind is the strongest and most powerful thing and if you can convince your mind into not liking him then you can do anything really.

10. Check out other guys/girls. There are so many different people out there and if you don't want someone different, there's someone the same but better. Look around, once you find yourself letting go of this person there's a greater chance that you'll meet someone that actually likes you.

11. Find new interests or be more involved in activities. Find something different to do. Maybe help around with something, get a job, make a blog, make new friends, start a sport, join a club. Anything you might never have done before or you've always wanted to do.

12. Look after yourself, you are more important than some person you barely know. Focus on being a better person or working on your appearance, or meeting new people. Just keep yourself as a huge priority right now.







:ohhh: I think a girl is doing all this to me right now
 

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Wrong, as a man you are the prize and don't ever forget that.

Commitment is the male vagina, its not men who ask so what are we, its men who decide if she is wifey or a side chick, it's men who decide to get down on one knee.

its men!!;

Women are not the prize and you don't have to impress any, you lose when a woman chooses you and you don't choose her she has the power and not you. You can't lead someone who thinks they have power over you, there is a reason why quote unquote nice guys finish last, they are always trying to impress and pander


I saw a YouTube video a while back where women were talking about what they hate about first dates, and one of the women said that she hates when the guy asks her a bunch of questions like it's an interview. In her words, "I [the woman] am not interviewing for you [the man]--you [the man] are interviewing for me [the woman]."

And she's right. It's the man's job to impress the woman, not the other way around. And women are the ones who determine where and how far a relationship goes. All the man does is decide whether he's along for the ride, and if he is, he's making sure not to fukk it up and make her change her mind.

But by that woman's very same logic, if a woman rejects you, you're not missing out on her--she's missing out on you. Because she had the option and the power to choose you, and she didn't, so as far as you're concerned, she chose poorly. So it's her loss, not yours. And you wouldn't want her anyway because who wants to be with someone who makes poor decisions?
 

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This is true up to a certain age. That age is different for everyone, but for me when I turned 30, everything changed. Being 35 and in shape with a career and no kids is like playing on God mode. I literally can't lose (unless you count my hairline).

What if I have all that AND i'm not balding so hard?

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