How To Get Back In The Dating Game? (Seriously, How Do I Do This Shyt?)

[SirReginald]

Aight, as all of you may know I want to start back dating this year I'm not looking for anything serious as of yet. I used to have a problem talking to women Now, I don't have that issue anymore since I'm out in the open. I know how to converse with women Alright, where can I meet the good girls at (I'm not religious, so church wouldn't cut it) Are coffee-cafes, libraries, and parks any good? Also, I'm gonna be honest with y'all I do have a preference. I love American Black women (hair gotta be natural), African women, Indian chicks, Native American chicks, Jewish chicks (Sephardi and Ethiopians ones), Arab chicks, and some white women (Italians and Greeks HATE BLONDES). Not really attracted to Hispanic women unless she super bad. So, for a brotha who's been out the game for a while what's you advice for him to get back in

 

[The Nigerian]

OkCupid
Tinder
POF

You don't even have to leave your house to get started.

 

[SirReginald]

OkCupid
Tinder
POF

You don't even have to leave your house to get started.

I like meeting women in person. Not down with online dating

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

The salon

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

aren't u in school or want to pursue a Bachelors...u need to do that and just spit at chicks there....and u clearly don't have a preference, u named like 6 different looking types

 

[SirReginald]

aren't u in school or want to pursue a Bachelors...u need to do that and just spit at chicks there....and u clearly don't have a preference, u named like 6 different looking types

I was in school not for a Bachelors though. Now, I work I plan on going back to school in a year or so though.

 

[The Nigerian]

I like meeting women in person. Not down with online dating

Online dating leads to face to face interaction. Think of it like going to the bar except you don't have to pay for drinks and everyone who is speaking with you wants to speak with you.

It's 2016. Online dating is the new normal.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

It sounds like he still learning how to talk to women so I wouldn't rely on online dating for him. He needs to continue meeting women in person and learning how to sell himself verbally. Online dating is cool for improving your text game and mass shooting your shot but it shouldn't be the primary way you meet women right now.

 

[SirReginald]

It sounds like he still learning how to talk to women so I wouldn't rely on online dating for him. He needs to continue meeting women in person and learning how to sell himself verbally. Online dating is cool for improving your text game and mass shooting your shot but it shouldn't be the primary way you meet women right now.

Talking to women isn't the problem for me. I'm not nervous when I encounter and talk to them. My problem is besides work I hardly go out. That's the only issue I have.

 

[The Nigerian]

It sounds like he still learning how to talk to women so I wouldn't rely on online dating for him. He needs to continue meeting women in person and learning how to sell himself verbally. Online dating is cool for improving your text game and mass shooting your shot but it shouldn't be the primary way you meet women right now.

Most sexually active women 18 to 35 are online dating in some capacity. It's how people are meeting now.

Hollering at girls in real life can get you a charge. I'm not kidding.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

OkCupid
Tinder
POF

You don't even have to leave your house to get started.

Op don't listen to this fool

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Talking to women isn't the problem for me. I'm not nervous when I encounter and talk to them. My problem is besides work I hardly go out. That's the only issue I have.

What city you at breh?

 

[The Nigerian]

Talking to women isn't the problem for me. I'm not nervous when I encounter and talk to them. My problem is besides work I hardly go out. That's the only issue I have.

Meet as many women online and set as many dates as you can. Most will flake but the ones that fall thru will have you out and about.

Also, consider joining a subculture. Be it music, comedy, nightlife, BDSM, co-Ed IM sports, activism, a cult, SOMETHING.

Joining a subculture will expose you to women who are looking for partners. Just beware of drama as subcultures can be pretty insular.

 

[SirReginald]

What city you at breh?

I'm in a city called Portsmouth, VA not far from VA Beach and Norfolk.

 

[SirReginald]

Meet as many women online and set as many dates as you can. Most will flake but the ones that fall thru will have you out and about.

Also, consider joining a subculture. Be it music, comedy, BDSM, co-Ed IM sports, activism, SOMETHING.

Joining a subculture will expose you to women who are looking for partners. Just beware of drama as subcultures can be pretty insular.

Good idea because I thought about doing volunteer work this year.