How to Survive working with and for White People.

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I hate this thread.

Start your own business.

Get a career that allows you to work alone as much as possible.

Network with other brothers.

His is why we need black owned companies.

This thread is basically saying we gotta keep our heads down and play passive to just survive. That’s no way to live, no wonder we die early as black men.
 

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What are y'all thoughts on another black person who is obviously only working for a check? should we try to save them from themselves or let them crash and burn?
 

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I hate this thread.

Start your own business
.

Get a career that allows you to work alone as much as possible.

Network with other brothers.

His is why we need black owned companies.

This thread is basically saying we gotta keep our heads down and play passive to just survive. That’s no way to live, no wonder we die early as black men.

This is the ideal but it's always easier said than done. Despite the bullshyt, there are benefits to working in corporate America.

I'd definitely agree that you don't want corporate America to be the endgame, but rather a stepping stone to doing your own thing.
 
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This thread is basically saying we gotta keep our heads down and play passive to just survive.
You have to do that whether you're black or not. :heh:

Regardless of race, it probably is in your best interest to get money/assets while you can and not revealing any ulterior motives. There's no shame in minding your own business. When these banks don't want to help you start your business and you likely have no generational wealth, yeah...you do need to play passive to get the capital.
 

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I'm almost convinced it's just white American's y'all hate. They're literally a laughing stock in the UK. White America are too jolly and proud, just some cringy bull
 

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NONE of these white people are your "friends". Always remember that. They'll stab you in the back faster than you can say :dwillhuh:


Be courteous without being friendly. Don't go out for drinks. Don't go out for co-lunches/meals. Don't go to parties with Cac co-workers. NEVER let them feel as if they can contact you outside of work hours for ANY reason.

Immediately came to mind:



Y’all PAWG lovers better watch y’all selves in the office :ufdup:
 

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  • Don't fall into their game (pissing you off on purpose)
  • Think of a happy place when :mjpls:jokes are involved
  • Don't make friends/Make ends
The third bullet should be the closing chapter to ever endeavor involving white folks that are about the okie doke. Don't let your guard down or else it's a wrap. Trust, the smiles and so forth will try to lower your defense and then it's a wrap. Basically do your work, socialize to a certain basis, keep to yourself, STFU (little to none personal business), and bounce.

Get In and Get Out!
 

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This should be stickied, it's too many brothers in the workforce moving slippery. You need to be on code at ALL times.
Man I been in so many situations where nikkaz show up and get comfortable in a short amount of time and think everyone is friendly and they are gone within no time.

My strategy for dealing with everyone has always been the same. I simply do better work than most people in most any work setting. My work ethic is strong. I don't kiss ass or try to get social just cordial. In and out. No matter how they feel about me they know I'm a valuable asset. I've never had major issues at a job. Most brothers I was around that got fired get too familiar, they start slipping on little things and think they getting over. Could be something as simple as dress code or trying to flirt in the office.

I take a good 6 months when I arrive somewhere just to study the environment and work culture before I can say I know how the people move.
 

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i understand the premise of this thread. but yall shouldnt over do it and say no to every single invitation. u dont wanna look like the one person on the team who doesnt belong. that too can get u into trouble.

only excuse is if u can tell them u cant cause u got classes u goto take. then they might ask u what class, what school, lol.

be careful
Depends.

I never do any potlucks at work and I keep that as a principle from day one. I don't give any corporation my time after work neither. Never had problems.
 

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Depends.

I never do any potlucks at work and I keep that as a principle from day one. I don't give any corporation my time after work neither. Never had problems.

Potlucks :scust:

Never. Susie who lets her cat in the kitchen with her grandma's special......fukk nah.
 

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NONE of these white people are your "friends". Always remember that. They'll stab you in the back faster than you can say :dwillhuh:


Be courteous without being friendly. Don't go out for drinks. Don't go out for co-lunches/meals. Don't go to parties with Cac co-workers. NEVER let them feel as if they can contact you outside of work hours for ANY reason.


you are wrong here. making it seem you are part of the crew helps.
 
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you are wrong here. making it seem you are part of the crew helps.


Probably different circumstances across different career fields.

For me following that philosophy GREATLY helps with not being involved in any potential fukkery. A lot of my former white co-workers have gone out drinking and gotten involved in bullshyt that later on effected the work environment.

I’m good on ALL that.
 
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