Know where you stand, brehs. Women generally put men into 4 separate categories.
Category 1: These are the men women would fuk with ASAP – their dream men. These men could be super attractive to the woman, or rich, or a combination, etc. They could be athletes, artists, business leaders, male models, etc. These are the men women dream about marrying, fuking, having children with, etc. These are the men women are on their best behavior around. These are the men women want to give their all to in exchange for commitment. These are the men women badly care about impressing. These are the men women care about being perceived positively by.
Category 2: These are the men that women get with because they can’t get with their dream men. These men are good enough to be in a relationship with, and the woman may even like them, but these are the men who would be dumped if said woman had the opportunity to get with her dream man. Women are essentially settling for these men. The men don’t know it, however, and are bullshytted into thinking that they're the woman's first choice.
Category 3: Men in this category typically are a last option if the woman cannot do any better at all. These men are stored away until there’s an emergency – the “emergency” being her not being able to find anyone else. These men aren’t really strongly desired by the woman, not highly respected by the woman, and is typically used because of his affection for her. SHE knows that he’s likely never going to get out of the friend-zone – unless he gets rich or she has NO other option at ALL – but he feels like if he just remains consistent in showing her how much of a “great” guy he is, he’ll be able to win her over with time. Breh you lost move the fukk on now.
Category 4: The fourth category are the men that women want nothing to do with whatsoever.
Where you are placed depends on your thoughts.
Your thoughts determine your actions -> your actions determine your value -> your value determines your usefulness -> your usefulness determines your attractiveness -> and your attractiveness impacts where you are placed.
Never take things personally. Think about where you fall and then act accordingly. If you’re not the dream man, don’t be surprised if/when your woman leaves for another; if you’re in the friend-zone, don’t waste too much of your energy pursuing a given woman – put that energy into yourself instead; if you’re in the fourth category, don’t even waste your time focusing on women – instead, dream, pursue your goals, and grow into being the man you want to be.
Where yall boys at?