How Women Categorize Men

Kokoro

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It's real only two categories tbh:

Potential provider/ protector

Loser simp
 
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I think that's how people tend to prioritize, honestly. I think what constitutes as category 1 (Some chicks might have it be their first love, Tupac in a business suit, a baller, etc) or so might change but I think most people rank/categorize the people they interact with.

shyt, I'm pretty smart and fun in real life but I know that I'm never gonna be that dude that women are fantasizing about fukking or would give the draws to based off desire/status/etc.

Most girls aren't even attracted to me until they get to know me :russ:

Honestly I think it's about coming to grips with wherever you are and EMBRACING the positives of the given category. For instance category 1 has things that suck about it just as category 4 does.

Everyone can't be category 1 :manny:. Not everyone's built like it. And that's okay.

The point is NOT to go against your nature - whatever that nature is.


Isn't that true for everything in life though?

Don't men have category 1, 2, 3 and 4 in the same way (from what you really want and would go the extra extra mile for to the ones you wouldn't touch with a stick?)

Men have 3 categories:

A top shelf chick (star player
A middle shelf chick (role player)
A bottom shelf chick. (bench/not on the team)

There definitely needs to be a category between 1 and 2.

Because category 1 is like the superstars, then you jump down to regular nikkas that are doing okay in life and are just substitutes for category 1. When a dude can still be super desirable without being a superstar.

Category 1 is for men that are very appealing to women FOR SOME REASON - they do not necessarily have to be a superstar.

Category 2 is for the dudes doing good who would be shytted on if a category 1 dude came by.

It's real only two categories tbh:

Potential provider/ protector

Loser simp

What about those who aren't alpha-providers or loser-simps?:jbhmm:

Damn I've been all over this spectrum

Probably need to add one more tier for the dudes they want to fukk but not necessarily start a relationship with.

Good point - didn't think about that.
 

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Men have 3 categories:

A top shelf chick (star player
A middle shelf chick (role player)
A bottom shelf chick. (bench/not on the team)

How would the man behave with each of these categories? Does it go simp and seek to marry the top shelf, side chick the second and avoid/one-night the last one?
 

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Category 1 is for men that are very appealing to women FOR SOME REASON - they do not necessarily have to be a superstar.

Category 2 is for the dudes doing good who would be shytted on if a category 1 dude came by.

Even then, it should be divided into more categories, because the superstar nikkas are elite, but they're not common and very few women are ever gonna be in there presence let alone get with them.

Like a nikka that's handsome/tall/in shape, got a good ass job, pushes a 2 year old 7 series is a dream nikka to 99% of women, but an NBA nikka is on a whole different level.
 

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Know where you stand, brehs. Women generally put men into 4 separate categories.

Category 1: These are the men women would fuk with ASAP – their dream men. These men could be super attractive to the woman, or rich, or a combination, etc. They could be athletes, artists, business leaders, male models, etc. These are the men women dream about marrying, fuking, having children with, etc. These are the men women are on their best behavior around. These are the men women want to give their all to in exchange for commitment. These are the men women badly care about impressing. These are the men women care about being perceived positively by.

Category 2: These are the men that women get with because they can’t get with their dream men. These men are good enough to be in a relationship with, and the woman may even like them, but these are the men who would be dumped if said woman had the opportunity to get with her dream man. Women are essentially settling for these men. The men don’t know it, however, and are bullshytted into thinking that they're the woman's first choice.

Category 3: Men in this category typically are a last option if the woman cannot do any better at all. These men are stored away until there’s an emergency – the “emergency” being her not being able to find anyone else. These men aren’t really strongly desired by the woman, not highly respected by the woman, and is typically used because of his affection for her. SHE knows that he’s likely never going to get out of the friend-zone – unless he gets rich or she has NO other option at ALL – but he feels like if he just remains consistent in showing her how much of a “great” guy he is, he’ll be able to win her over with time. Breh you lost move the fukk on now.

Category 4: The fourth category are the men that women want nothing to do with whatsoever.

Where you are placed depends on your thoughts. :myman:

Your thoughts determine your actions -> your actions determine your value -> your value determines your usefulness -> your usefulness determines your attractiveness -> and your attractiveness impacts where you are placed.:jawalrus:

Never take things personally. Think about where you fall and then act accordingly. If you’re not the dream man, don’t be surprised if/when your woman leaves for another; if you’re in the friend-zone, don’t waste too much of your energy pursuing a given woman – put that energy into yourself instead; if you’re in the fourth category, don’t even waste your time focusing on women – instead, dream, pursue your goals, and grow into being the man you want to be.

Where yall boys at? :lawd:
You're assuming a lot here. First and most importantly you're assuming most women can atractt a guy like number one . Most women are avg or below. They can daydream all they want but number one is/was never a option for them.
 

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You're assuming a lot here. First and most importantly you're assuming most women can atractt a guy like number one . Most women are avg or below. They can daydream all they want but number one is/was never a option for them.

Doesnt stop girls from trying and wasting from 18-29 trying to find one :mjlol: while at the same time telling men that's actually in their bracket how lame and wack they are :mjlol:
 

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Not that I agree with these categories as I believe there are a lot more categories but for the sake of argument...

The same man can be any of these categories depending on what woman you ask.

I also don't agree completely with category one. OP makes it seem like all women are into celebrities
 

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Category 3 in most cases 4. I don't like it but it is what it is. All I can do is go on with my life and follow my life mission. However I can promise when things are different with women I'm going return the favor.....
 

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What about people you spend time with and get to know and become attractive to you. It's rare that i meet unattractive men. It could just be because I like faces and people. But I feel like it's hard for men to be ugly.

With that in mind, most guys I meet are handsome. Where does personality fit into this? Clicking with a person can completely eliminate all attraction categories. And I've seen similar happen with men.
So maybe a category between 1 and 2 and 3 for those who grow to become important to us.:yeshrug:
 

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OP is pretty much correct. I've noticed how a girl will completely act out of character for me; to the point that she was lying to family to be with me (little fibs like she can't pick up her cousin because of "work").

However on the other side of the token I've talked to women who did the distant shyt. Like if I didn't hit them up first I wouldn't hear from them. I get tired quickly when I can tell she is only entertained.
 
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