How Women Categorize Men

[Hungry Rabbit]

Depends on the women, breh. Drop a nikka like that in front of chicks like Brittany Renner or any of these industry thots, he'd be invisible next to a bunch of ballers/entertainers.

Drop that same nikka in the hood and he'd look like a diamond. GIRLS decide your category, breh. You can't pick where you are.

Now if that example nikka is a category 1 to 99% of women and then Lebron James walks in so those same 99% girls would choose James then the first nikka is just on a lower end of category 1 nikka "to them".

Nikka's gettin' surgical wit dis shyt I see...

 

[newworldafro]

What it take to be a 0.5?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Top shelf women: Men try hard to impress these women; care very much how these women perceive them and will try to be their very best around these women; do not want to offend them at all for fear he will lose her.
Middle shelf women: Men try to impress these women, but don't go overboard; care about how they are perceived but not overly; care about offending these women, but will also be themselves are these women.
Bottom shelf women: Men do not try to impress these women, as they are bottom shelf; don't really care how they are perceived by these women; don't care about offending these women, as these women can simply take it or leave it.

This is really interesting. Tell me more, I have seen guys who act like they are on an interview when they are around me. I am not sure that women act the same way when around what they perceive to be a top shelf man, maybe women act like they are on a beauty pageant and get more feminine/delicate...

 

[Action Mike]

who gives a fukk what bytches or men think

i keep myself a1 because of me

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

A p*ssy algorithm

Women shouldn't determine your worth anyhow breh....

 

[intruder]

Category 1: These are the men women would fuk with ASAP – their dream men. These men could be super attractive to the woman, or rich, or a combination, etc. They could be athletes, artists, business leaders, male models, etc. These are the men women dream about marrying, fuking, having children with, etc. These are the men women are on their best behavior around. These are the men women want to give their all to in exchange for commitment. These are the men women badly care about impressing. These are the men women care about being perceived positively by.

Dont get it twited, doggy. SOme women know these dudes dont want them and if they do it's only for a short while. And even if said dude's love for them was legit they'd be insecure the whole time because they know these type of dudes typically dont get with women like themselves so they'd start panicking everytime another more beautiful woman who is more of the dude's speed is in his presence.

Most women dont wanna live under that much pressure.

Remember women, like men, often have self esteem issues they struggle with. So trust me if John Legend type dude hollers at Precious looking chicks she'll entertain it or even fukk him but she'll never trust it

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

This is really interesting. Tell me more, I have seen guys who act like they are on an interview when they are around me. I am not sure that women act the same way when around what they perceive to be a top shelf man, maybe women act like they are on a beauty pageant and get more feminine/delicate...

Well basically if you want to be a top shelf woman I'd tell you to basically respect yourself. There is nothing sexier than a woman who respects herself. Why? Because from a evolutionary/reproductive perspective, a woman who respects herself is more likely to be a better parent for children. Men will pick up on this, and they will want to get with you as a result.

How do you respect yourself? You must take care of yourself. Work out, eat well enough, dress nicely, groom yourself properly, be respectful, be feminine, be friendly enough, etc. All of these things will indicate that you respect yourself, and when men see that they will want to be with you (in general, of course).

You're welcome, girl

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

This is Lame.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Well basically if you want to be a top shelf woman I'd tell you to basically respect yourself. There is nothing sexier than a woman who respects herself. Why? Because from a evolutionary/reproductive perspective, a woman who respects herself is more likely to be a better parent for children. Men will pick up on this, and they will want to get with you as a result.

How do you respect yourself? You must take care of yourself. Work out, eat well enough, dress nicely, groom yourself properly, be respectful, be feminine, be friendly enough, etc. All of these things will indicate that you respect yourself, and when men see that they will want to be with you (in general, of course).

You're welcome, girl

Lol thanks for the advice. I guess what I'm curious about is the "being in an interview" part. Isn't that exhausting?

What does it feel like and what do you go through when you fall for what you consider a top shelf female?

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

Lol thanks for the advice. I guess what I'm curious about is the "being in an interview" part. Isn't that exhausting?

What does it feel like and what do you go through when you fall for what you consider a top shelf female?

It could be a lot of things. Dudes could be nervous because they really liked you, or could just be a lames that didn't know how to properly engage in discussion with a woman. Maybe they read and applied some bs that their friends told them. Maybe no one ever sat down with em and broke the rules to the game down. It could be anything. THEY think they're being cool like - "Yeeeaaahhh look at me I'm talkin to a chick and asking her questions about herself like I read and was told to do; I'm also being stoic/non-emotional with her which is manly and women like manly men so she'll like me for this."

Speaking of top shelf women, I met one recently. Fine as hell, very well-dressed and groomed, very well-spoken, very radiant, very friendly and feminine, intelligent - the ideal "black lady" (emphasis on lady) to me. Legit has me or or whenever I see her. When I'm around her, I make SURE I talk to her, am well-dressed, smell nice, am funny, ask her questions about herself, get to know her more, flirt, am witty, etc. because I DEFINITELY do NOT want to be seen as a lame in her eyes.

But this is just ME, some guys may do all that HOH shyt with women they like. You know, like "if a boy bullies you it means he likes you" shyt.

It just depends