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How Would You Deal With Your Grief If You Lost Both of Your Parents?
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StreetDawah
Alhamdulillah
muzikfrk75
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Lost both in 2009. Mom from Cancer in Feb and dad from dementia in Oct. It was rough but they both lived into their 50's with nice fulfilling lives. You just gotta try to think positive in situations like that tho, don't let the grief overcome you and of course you have friends and fam if you need to talk about the good ole days and get a good cry out.
I was glad they weren't suffering with any pain anymore.
I was glad they weren't suffering with any pain anymore.
I actually thought of doing this but i didn't wanna be called out as a lame as swagger jacker....plus i had to go back to work and shyt.
If it happened when I was 21-25, I probably would have become a nomad and just traveled the rest of my life as there would have been nothing to bring me back to the US.
Now that I have a family of my own, it's going to be difficult as hell and I dread the day I lose them. It really fukking sucks when you stop and think about it, you have two guaranteed "Worst days of your life" coming up, you just don't know when.
Now that I have a family of my own, it's going to be difficult as hell and I dread the day I lose them. It really fukking sucks when you stop and think about it, you have two guaranteed "Worst days of your life" coming up, you just don't know when.
I lost both already, dad when I was 4 and mom when I was 20...She passed 12/24/2009. That shyt still hurts...I suppose because she is going to be missing any and every event that occurs. She already missed key elements( marriage, birth of my son, etc..) I literally had a breakdown on her birthday last year( 10 days after mine.)I'm an only child so I don't have any siblings to share my grief. I recently met someone in this same situation (his parents died young.) I'm getting better.
I'm sorry beautiful
I'll pray for you
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MooseMouthMthafuga
Veteran
I don't even wanna think about it
The only person I've lost in my life is my Great Grandmother.That colon cancer took her up out of here.
I was only 19.Took me about 3-4 months to really wrap my mind around it.I lost about 20 pounds that first month.I kept my self busy trying to cope, but I didn't have an appetite.People thought I was on that shyt
i'm dreading the day when i lose either.
My dad...idk i think i would be more upset than i think i will be. I was my dads oldest son, but my sister wasn't around when i was little and my other brother and sister wernt born yet, so i was the only of his kids that really got that "ME AND DAD" kinda cool stuff when he didnt have to split his attention.
My mom though i dont know what ima do, im her only child and my momz is like one of my best friends. She made me who i am, most of my real nikka tendencies come from my momz real talk. She instilled so much in me....when she goes i'll probably lose my mind if i don't have a family of my own by then...i hope i do
My dad...idk i think i would be more upset than i think i will be. I was my dads oldest son, but my sister wasn't around when i was little and my other brother and sister wernt born yet, so i was the only of his kids that really got that "ME AND DAD" kinda cool stuff when he didnt have to split his attention.
My mom though
i dont know what ima do, im her only child and my momz is like one of my best friends. She made me who i am, most of my real nikka tendencies come from my momz real talk. She instilled so much in me....when she goes i'll probably lose my mind if i don't have a family of my own by then...i hope i doso do not think about the when...cherish the now...
Demon
Evil b*stard
Ya'll wanna hear some shyt?
Knew some dude when we were all 15 who got into an argument with his parents and ran out the house. His parents got into the car to go looking for him and they got into an accident and both of them were killed.
He got sent off to live with his aunt in another state and we never heard from him again.
Cant imagine how that felt.
If my peoples died, I would be fukked up for a little minute but I suspect I would be able to get over it a little more smoothly than some others, because they would have lived long lives. My parent's are old as shyt.
Knew some dude when we were all 15 who got into an argument with his parents and ran out the house. His parents got into the car to go looking for him and they got into an accident and both of them were killed.
He got sent off to live with his aunt in another state and we never heard from him again.
Cant imagine how that felt.
If my peoples died, I would be fukked up for a little minute but I suspect I would be able to get over it a little more smoothly than some others, because they would have lived long lives. My parent's are old as shyt.
Moose_Greyjoy
I DO Not Sow
Only logical answer
My niece, sister and cousin died in a car accident their ages were 9,18 and 31. That fukked me up for a long time cause I was in the car as well. I used to think I could handle losing loved ones, but this taught me different. The worst part of it all was watching my Mother grieve, and I was there in the hospital when they told her. She let out this scream I'll never forget for as long as I live. It still haunts me to this day.
Losing my niece and sister made something inside me die. I don't even want to imagine what something like this would do to me.
Losing my niece and sister made something inside me die. I don't even want to imagine what something like this would do to me.
