How would you feel if...

[Turbulent]

Why would you stay married? Why not find a woman who is attracted to you and will do all of the rest? Why not marry that woman?

i wouldn't marry her in the first place. but if i'm already married, then i would stay with her as long as she's doing what she's suppose to do. by your logic, every man who's wife is not sexually attracted to him anymore should leave?

 

[TNOT]

The woman that you married appreciated you as a husband, father and provider but was not attracted to you? But married you for all your other good qualities. And she will never cheat on you and has never cheated on you.


Let the games begin

To be honest most men should view marriage and their perspective mate like they do any business transaction. If you find a girl that catches your eye and you feel like she could be the one, take a step back and evaluate her like you would any business decision. How does marrying her affect your finances ( if you have any), what does she bring to the table ( is she educated? does she have Cets?).


To the OP if a woman feels this way, then she really doesn't have a problem if her husband steps out on her. If he continues to maintain a good home life and provides for her family then no harm no foul.

Right??

 

[TNOT]

duplicate post

 

[EA]

Why would a woman let a relationship get to the point of marriage if she wasn't attracted to the man in the first place? Surely, that's a recipe for disaster?

 

[marcuz]

sounds like traditional marriage

 

[Colicat]

i wouldn't marry her in the first place. but if i'm all ready married, then i would stay with her as long as she's doing what she's suppose to do. by your logic, every man who's wife is not sexually attracted to him anymore should leave?

The man should leave.... What's the point of a marriage if you have 3rd party interference?

Why would a woman let a relationship get to the point of marriage if she wasn't attracted to the man in the first place? Surely, that's a recipe for disaster?

Security.... Money.... Word to Anna Nicole smith

 

[PhonZhi]

Keep us updated breh

I have a coworker who is in this situation. Her husband is a makes good money, is putting her through school, but their sex life is nonexistent because she isn't attracted to him. She's been trying to throw it at me for a couple yrs now. She is miserable and I'm pretty sure she's gonna leave him once she graduates. Its a bad deal for the brehs

 

[Turbulent]

The man should leave.... What's the point of a marriage if you have 3rd party interference?

but then every man would leave as soon as his wife's libido decreases.

the point of marriage in that case is that the man is happy because he's getting what he needs, that happiness she's helping support by playing her position is helping him maintain motivation and desire to provide for her and help her be happy as well.

 

[MikelArteta]

Look at these horrible stupid threads

 

[EA]

Security.... Money.... Word to Anna Nicole smith

She operated on a different level in terms of social interactions. How is Plain Jane gonna know that Joe Blow can offer her security and money without an initial point of attraction?

 

[Colicat]

but then every man would leave as soon as his wife's libido decreases.

the point of marriage in that case is that the man is happy because he's getting what he needs, that happiness she's helping support by playing her position is helping him maintain motivation and desire to provide for her and help her be happy as well.

I think what the OP is describing is a woman who got with a man knowing that she didn't have any attraction to him.... She just wanted the comfort and security of a provider and father figure.... In that case (which I think is rare, the man should leave)..... The falling out of love situation that you are talking about should be addressed within the marriage.... Not outside of it...

Look at these horrible stupid threads

Just admit that you are in love with @Yup and stop being mean

 

[Turbulent]

I think what the OP is describing is a woman who got with a man knowing that she didn't have any attraction to him.... She just wanted the comfort and security of a provider and father figure.... In that case (which I think is rare, the man should leave)..... The falling out of love situation that you are talking about should be addressed within the marriage.... Not outside of it...

but why leave if i can find a way for both of us to be happy?

 

[Colicat]

She operated on a different level in terms of social interactions. How is Plain Jane gonna know that Joe Blow can offer her security and money without an initial point of attraction?

Plain Jane is gonna date joe blow if she doesn't have any attraction to him...you must not understand the pressure on a woman to get married and reproduce.... You must have never seen those Cac housewives who are married to pitiful looking dudes (not because he's rich but because he was able to provide a basic level of financial security)

but why leave if i can find a way for both of us to be happy?

why stay if you have to seek elsewhere for your basic needs?

 

[skeetsinternal]

Sounds like most married women in their 60s and 70s once the libido starts to die.

These women need to take peruvian maca to keep that libido. (men zinc and macs). Thank me later

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

#GMB