How You Deal With a Breakup?

[DapMeUp!]

This is like the third " how do I deal with a break up thread" in a span of a few weeks

We be going through it mayn

Women usually break up with you in their mind a few months before they actually officially break it off.
So when it's done they already been through the grieving stage they are ready to move on.

Us MF be caught off guard not knowing what to do

 

[Michael's Black Son]

How do you deal with one?

Just split up after 2 years.

She ended it but honestly, she didn't have her shyt together and I do and I think it bothered her.

She felt like I acted like I was better than her when I didn't I just tried to help her too much instead of just listening.

I'm pretty sure it's not another guy because she's not from this area.

Anyway, how do you deal with a breakup?

It's not easy to just go out and find someone new obviously I'm on apps and I work out all the time anyway.

I'm talking more about the side of things of her ending it and because Im super attracted to her even though she had a black cloud over her head and something always went wrong or she's always losing or forgetting shyt.

There was a few times where I was like if she didn't look this good I would be out. But she still had a lot of great qualities, it wasn't just that.

p*ssy.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Real shyt I got some new p*ssy recently and while that bytch was on my face

I was like....

"damn this shyt ain't making me much happier"



I bounced and went for a walk and continued to be on my purpose

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

I hate to say lie, but lie about when your last relationship ended, because you will definitely turn some chicks off being fresh out a breakup.

Me personally, I jumped on apps after a few weeks. Hit up old flames and fukk buddies. Honestly breh, I have no idea how I ended back up in a relationship so quickly. We met on an app, it was super casual and then shyt just happened/feelings got caught.

I really do think everyone needs time after a breakup to "date themselves" as corny as it sounds.

Not sure how old you are, kids ,etc. but just make sure you dedicate the time needed to find balance and your own happiness before sharing your energy with the next chick in a serious relationship.

I don’t like to lie but sometimes you gotta. I also learned I can’t let shyt slide as much or it’ll come out other ways. Like she would complain about shyt and it would just turn me off and I didn’t realize she picked up on it.

 

[MikelArteta]

I feel sick, caught my girl of 3 years talking to another dude. Dude now leaving heart emojis on her latest IG post​

block her instagram

 

[BrehWyatt]

How do you deal with one?

Just split up after 2 years.

She ended it but honestly, she didn't have her shyt together and I do and I think it bothered her.

She felt like I acted like I was better than her when I didn't I just tried to help her too much instead of just listening.

I'm pretty sure it's not another guy because she's not from this area.

Anyway, how do you deal with a breakup?

It's not easy to just go out and find someone new obviously I'm on apps and I work out all the time anyway.

I'm talking more about the side of things of her ending it and because Im super attracted to her even though she had a black cloud over her head and something always went wrong or she's always losing or forgetting shyt.

There was a few times where I was like if she didn't look this good I would be out. But she still had a lot of great qualities, it wasn't just that.

First thing I suggest you do is have a hard conversation with yourself as to where you went wrong or what you could have done better. Ask yourself if you missed or ignored signs that could have prevented this.

I'm not saying you are why the relationship ended. I'm just saying that if you look hard enough and really get honest with yourself, you'll find a couple of things that you slacked on and they may or may not have factored into the demise of the relationship.

Work on yourself. Mentally, physically, whatever. Go in the hole for a little bit and come out better for it, for yourself and for the next woman.

 

[semicko82]

We be going through it mayn

Women usually break up with you in their mind a few months before they actually officially break it off.
So when it's done they already been through the grieving stage they are ready to move on.

Us MF be caught off guard not knowing what to do

That's why you also prepare for the worst and hope for the best

 

[RAX 010]

I'ma have to take my own advice brehs ...
It's bout to be splitsville for me and my old lady too smh

I'm sad but I brought this shyt on myself...nothing's last forever the writing has been on the wall for a good minute now

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[Loose]

Yup, went through her phone, all the evidence was there

tried tell u

 

[jj23]

Yup, went through her phone, all the evidence was there

Sorry to hear that breh.

You found her a place yet or she still living with you?

 

[International Playa]

I kicked her out as soon as I saw the messages, she stayed in a motel till she found a room. She still has to come pick up her stuff

 

[jj23]

I kicked her out as soon as I saw the messages, she stayed in a motel till she found a room. She still has to come pick up her stuff

Grass always seems greener when you don't know what you want.

Don't let it get you down breh